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Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:12pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Hi ppl Just a general discussion, share your views, experiences , stories...... I have seen and heard women in relationships , where they get slapped, beaten, all sorts of violence thrown at them. If i ask y they still remain in a horrible relationship they say its cuz they love him?? Some say its normal in nigeria for men to hit ladies behind closed doors .... Why is this acceptable and is there a law in nigeria preventing this... Comment pls |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:14pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247: Its acceptable because of our social, geographical, political, religious, and geo-political construction That's the truth Accept it that way Okay!!! |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
ebabsuoires: So if ur husband was beating u up , thats right u will remain. In the relationship |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:23pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247: Yes I would After all I married him didn't I I wasn't forced. Was I Answer me Was I? Was I? I don't like your profile picture Too much cleavage What are you trying to show guys Is that how you were raised Answer me Answer me now!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:24pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Oh lol ur a troll U shud ave said lol 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by alberto2k(m): 11:27pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Guys are joining the legendury beat and beats by Dre crew... Na wetin dey reign now And P.S: I have a problem with your Dp.... Please cover that up, NL has over a million users... So just imagine how many have seen that by now, you won't attract any suitor by putting up such to the public eye (noo oofeinse) |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:30pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
alberto2k: Lol dunno y u guys checking out dps Pls if u dont want to comment get out |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by ronald4lif(m): 11:31pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
No woman should stay in an abusive relationship, none. But in Nigeria the reasons why most of these women stay put in such marriages is that of religion, societal accepted norms, scare of what people may gossip about her and the fact that they are house wives and have no reliable source of income. Their husband is their only source of livelihood so she would rather stay and receive the beatings than quiting and having no where to rely on. It's that bad. As per if they have laws against domestic abuse, well it's never been about having laws but implementing them. Let a woman dare take her husband to court for abuse the judge might even laugh at her and tell her go and plead with your husband woman, he beats you and so what lol. |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:33pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Wow , so its rlly true Thought by now there should b something in place to help ppl that go through it |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by alberto2k(m): 11:36pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247: The billz is all on me... So, what's your business with what I decide to do with it? Berra goan take your ur pills, hug your pilliow and kiss your Teddy bear goodnight |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by phlio(m): 11:36pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
violence or no violence... if the beating reach bad degree her eye go open......ehn ehn abeg cover that your saggy brewst am sick of it too soft I think ur brwest deh face south south |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:37pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247: Why did you then put a photo on your profile. Was it for fancy Answer me Answer me now!!! Rubbish You think you are smart Please repent |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:38pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
alberto2k: Ok do u , how much money are you making for ur comments 0 Carry on hun do ur thing B der looking at dp , focus on urself |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by ZedX5: 11:38pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
alberto2k:What a _stupid comment! Who made you the judge and commander of the DP's people decide to put up? Who asked you to check on it? Who told you she was trying to attract a suitor? If you have a problem, get your issues sorted out. You don't tell people what to do. Fools like you watch worse with vaseline in your hands so how about you get the fvck outta here and stop this crass stupidity show you're putting up here. . . 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by braindamage(m): 11:38pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247:I stand to be corrected, there is a bill against domestic violence/violence against women(can't remember the exact title of the bill), which was passed by the lower house in 2013, and sailed second reading in October by the Senate. Sadly, everyone is occupied with election, it might not be passed by the senate and receive the President's accent before May 29. In Nigeria, law enforcement play little role to quell domestic violence, but FIDA plays a good role to help abused women. On it's acceptance due to love, Nigeria is not unique to this scenario. |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:39pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
ebabsuoires: Lol how much will u get if i put it down 0 Lol nah pic dey worri una |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by ronald4lif(m): 11:39pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247: Well, such may never happen when there's gender inequality. That to me is the bane of most domestic abuses. When we (men) are thought we are head of the family and that whatever decision we take is final how then can one expects domestic abuse not to hold sway. You see, I don't want to sound like an advocate of gender equality but when there's none of it domestic abuse will never be abolished in our country. |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:40pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
braindamage: Ok do there is something in place , should look into that FIDA never heard of them |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by ZedX5: 11:41pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
I'm too cultured to raise my hand on a woman I claim to love. If I can no longer tolerate our relationship, I'll end it honourably. |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:41pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
°°A REAL man say much without talking much™ |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by braindamage(m): 11:42pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
ebabsuoires:... It is not acceptable.. I had a girlfriend who gets mad at the slightest provocation, she even hits me sometime. But I never and I will never lay my hands on a lady |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:42pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
ronald4lif: But i blive if there was a real law It can slowly b abolished |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by alberto2k(m): 11:42pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
ZedX5: Yeye dey smell... Woman wrapper like you. U dey hustle for punny way u no fit get |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by ronald4lif(m): 11:42pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
You all pretenders should swerve biko. It's her dp not yours. Me I like what I am seeing jare |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:43pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247: Why do you choose to be like this Why Why What is your problem Must you behave this way. Ehhh lala247 Please repent |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by ZedX5: 11:44pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
alberto2k:Calling out your stupidity is hustling for punny? You're a fool. |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:44pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
ZedX5: Thank you Yes n turn here into punching bag N what man feels good putting his gf / wife in that state ave seen some horrible pics of eomen beaten almost to death because she asked the man for more money to cook |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by alberto2k(m): 11:46pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
ZedX5: Sorry, I don't do immature shii.. Care for some candies? |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:47pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
phlio: Lol |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by ronald4lif(m): 11:47pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247: There's a law. But it's hardly properly implemented like many others or it can be manipulated to suit the wishes of the highest bidder. |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by alberto2k(m): 11:48pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lala247: Ignored! Pls, Don't quote me again |
Re: Domestic Violence In Relationships! by Nobody: 11:48pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Lol mehn dis is y u ppl belong in nigeria But if amber rose put pic up una go dey shake Lemme put yall outta ur misery |
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