I have been living with this man for over a year and I’m really not sure if he’s the one for me. The problem is that: he wants to do, literally, everything I do, and everything together. He wants us to wake up together in the morning, shower together, leave for work together, spend all of our evenings together, and go to bed at the same time. I feel like he’s infringing on my individuality, and I feel like he’s clinging to me in an unhealthy way. I’ve given up my morning exercise routine because it bothered him that we didn’t spend mornings together. I’m a writer and I like to do some writing in the mornings. I really enjoy waking early and having some time to myself. Because I wake up early, he wants to wake up early too. When he does this, I feel like he’s a little puppy dog who just needs to follow me around all day and do everything I do. If I say I don’t WANT him to do that, he feels rejected and as if something is wrong because I don’t want him there all the time.
It’s not that I don’t want to do anything together. It’s very enjoyable and fun to share this time together. We have dinner together every night, which I also love. On the other hand, I also wonder if I’m making up this story about his lack of independence and perhaps I’m not allowing myself to “be” with a man. I wonder sometimes if he’s “good enough,” and then I feel guilty that I’m such a “snob.” My anger bubbles up around these issues all the time. What do I do?



http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/03/is-my-lovers-passion-strange/

Sit him down and explain things to him or rather see him as a contributor in anything you're doing..

Sit him down and explain things to him or rather see him as a contributor in anything you're doing..*remember,two heads are better than one* #my 50cents

This is really serious

Was he with you when you were writing this one?




If NO, then every other thing you said is lie.

Pinkiedearie:
Sit him down and explain things to him or rather see him as a contributor in anything you're doing..*remember,two heads are better than one* #my 50cents

I think she should just get her own house and do her own stuffs how and when she likes.

Living with a man u not yet married to ain't cool...

Desist from Living wt some1 u arent married to

Talk about it with him


Come and tell us his response


If u are not sure about him ..

Y live with him?

These are obvious signs of a stalker, a control freak soon to be an abuser. These are bad signs. I can't tolerate this madness from any woman so I won't advice any woman to do the same.

The woman should stick to her guts and tell him to stop, if he doesn't, she'd quit. That love right there is dangerous. The man has serious esteem and mental issues.

Not strange if you are co habiting