"Yell" might not be the right word; but on a number of occasions when I get upset at her over a wrong doing, and my temperament and voice get high, coupled with the stern look on my face, my girlfriend says it turns her on. How normal or abnormal is this?

She chipped in this info last night when she was complimenting how I use my stern voice and face to put her back on track whenever she misbehaved. I was like wtf? Seriously? and She responded in the affirmative. Mind you, on most other occasions, I also let her know when she wronged me but on a cool note).

Instead of reacting "coolly" on those other occasions, she has asked that I scold or yell at her each time she offends me; saying that besides the positive effect it has on correcting her, that it also turns her on. Is she encouragineg verbal abuse, and maybe later, physical abuse? Is she trying to make me an abuser? I am not a party to this o!

Please, How do I reconcile not being an abuser with correcting her wrongs by yelling at her all the time?

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Keep yelling

Stop yelling @ her, there re ways to correct her without yelling. Know each oda do's n don't. Bt no way u won't be stepping on each oda toes bt u need to corect her with love so dat u won't be an abuser

chai. pyscho full naija o

Hmmm mental sontin

I think its the same thing with some girls that love to be spanked or beat during sex. I guess hers is to be yelled at as a prerequisite to be turned on and getting a better sex(but that's if you two wana do it).
But first does she get turned on on other occasions apart from when you yell at her?
#my opinion though

You have a submissive woman and you are complaining.

Dump her and come to me, I like to dominate if that's your thing.

AndreRose:
I think its the same thing with some girls that love to be spanked or beat during sex. I guess hers is to be yelled at as a prerequisite to be turned on and getting a better sex(but that's if you two wana do it).
But first does she get turned on on other occasions apart from when you yell at her?
#my opinion though

Yes she gets turned on during pre-intimacy too.

dnt stp yelling boy!

rokiatu:
You have a submissive woman and you are complaining.

Dump her and come to me, I like to dominate if that's your thing.

You this girl eh..

rokiatu:
You have a submissive woman and you are complaining.

Dump her and come to me, I like to dominate if that's your thing.

A woman... dominate me? If I hear!

Don't abuse her physically oo...keep yelling abeg...it turns her on and corrects her... What more do you want?

someCoolDude87:

A woman... dominate me? No way!!

abi sharrp you would love it, I will be the perfect submissive wife in the streets thou. Just in the bedroom.

sinaj:
dnt stp yelling boy!

Seconded...

kilokeys:
chai. pyscho full naija o

lol. part of the 21 million crazy Nigerians. NL has at least 50%

ifekemmie:
Stop yelling @ her, there re ways to correct her without yelling. Know each oda do's n don't. Bt no way u won't be stepping on each oda toes bt u need to corect her with love so dat u won't be an abuser

I do correct her with love but obviously she needs more than that kind of of correction.

So weird. Makes me think that she might have daddy issues or some other psychological problems. Or maybe she grew up without structure & noone to reprimand her, so she's now projecting that on to her mate. Makes her feel like she's cared for when scolded or something. Who knows? Either way, its pretty out of the norm & a little creepy.

do correct her with love but obviously she needs more than that kind of of correction.

U continue, yelling is not d best

sinaj:
dnt stp yelling boy!

does it turn you on too?

rokiatu:
You have a submissive woman and you are complaining.

Dump her and come to me, I like to dominate if that's your thing.

Wetin I want na him u b.make we meet Abeg

rildwanullahi:
Wetin I want na him u b.make we meet Abeg

you want to be dominated? Put some money in my account first. And that's an order. Let's take it from there.

Yell away bro

some gurls are like that,I remember my ex don't like it if I don't react When she do something wrong

someCoolDude87:
does it turn you on too?

i fink xo. yeeeeeeeeellllllk!!!!

Just as someone above said,I think its a psychological issue too,maybe she grew up in an aggressive home where her dad/mum corrected her with aggression and she has learnt to correlate love with that,or on the other hand,maybe she's just the submission type of girl,if so,try to know the boundary between correcting with love before its escalates and you become a woman beater cus power is quite addictive

She's a weirdo and a psycho too
Watch out coz now she's gona start frustrating you delibrately just so you can yell @ her
Do not let her
I repeat do not

someCoolDude87:

Yes she gets turned on during pre-intimacy too.

Hmm...her case is beyond what I thought. You should then ask her about it.

Abnormal babe.
Perhaps your voice is possessed by mammy water spirit