kitnah:

Who is talkin abt sleepin around now??
Pls read our conversation from the beginning b4 u conclude

LadyX:


What if the girl who wants op, goes ahead to tell her fiance that they are *having an affair* though it's not true?
What if she *fixes* him...She tells the fiance "To prove that we are going out, wait here then you will see us together"

kitnah:

So guys are allowed to flex but ladies cant huh??
What makes you think such guys wont lose their integrity/dignity??
You think those girls he flirts with will respect him huh??
So,a lady isnt supposed to flirt because her wife material will drop huh,but a guy cant flirts because he has no husby material to lose bah??
I'm sorry to say but this is dumb
#no offence intended

LadyX:


What if the girl who wants op, goes ahead to tell her fiance that they are *having an affair* though it's not true?
What if she *fixes* him...She tells the fiance "To prove that we are going out, wait here then you will see us together"

Bwon:
Sadly i feel she kinda desperate. But Makes it all worse

LadyX:


Who is desperate? The friend?

Blackett:
That would only happen if her keeps seeing that _bitch and if he keeps acting friendly to her.

She is fire right now. . . If he keeps going to her, he'll get burned pretty bad.

kitnah:
Mr blackett,i'm still on my stand

let's see what will happen

She will definitely be angry,in some cases,she might swear to break up with him

She comes back to her senses,and realise that her finance is faithful

She overheard the spiced verson and doesnt care

They got married shikena.
**THE END**

Now itz left for the op to choose which rocks his boat

Blackett:

Dear Kitnah.

It is better for the girl to get angry and come back to her sense after they have married, than before they get married. . . Remember the wedding is 4 months away, no?

If she gets pissed, she'll call off the wedding. We don't want that to happen now, eh?

henribj:


the kain fire wey be say e no go fit see needle to even save

henribj:


am concluding from what you guys have already posted
a girl who is a flirt is different from a girl who sleeps around unless the flirt of a girl also sleeps around. and note that not all flirts sleep around
so what exactly are you guys saying here? cos a girl who is only a flirt does not lose any wife material
a girl who sleeps around loses wife material
so you guys make up your mind
shey na flex, aby na flirt, aby na sleeping around??

Bwon:
yh the calls the messages the pictures ..... and all proves that.. and it scares the shii outer me

Bwon:
Exactly..... she is everything i mean everythingg

LadyX:


Bwon, you need to know this:

The friend knows everything about you: She knows how you treat your fiancee. She could be also knowing about your s*x life, etc. Therefore, she wants to have you to herself. She can do anything, including seducing you and getting pregnant for you just to be your wife. She knows you want to settle down and she wishes to be you wife.

If she is desperate is it your business? No! Don't allow her needness or desperation to separate you from your fiance. You are not the last man standing on earth, so she will get another man. Forget about the *love* antics she's playing on you.

Have you heard or read here about guys having done an introduction or about to it, then they discover another lady pregnant for them? That's how it happens. Then they are forced to abandon their fiancee and marry the baby mama.

Blackett:
He's at the risk of throwing 4 years away.

Bwon:
oh! sigh

henribj:


dont forget to add finances into that 4 years o

LadyX:


I suggest that from now, don't allow any communication with the girl. She might be planning something. In the same way she planned the dinner, she can come up with something else. She could even lie that she's sick only for you to get to her house and find her n*aked waiting for you. or she could put something like viagra or similar drugs in your food. You will be the one begging her. You get the drift?

Blackett:

Dear Kitnah.

It is better for the girl to get angry and come back to her sense after they have married, than before they get married. . . Remember the wedding is 4 months away, no?

If she gets pissed, she'll call off the wedding. We don't want that to happen now, eh?

kitnah:

Mr blackett

So you will rather build a marriage on lies huh??

I think the op should man up and face the consequences of his action.

If she breaks up with him,trust me it was never meant to be

btw,i'm enjoyin this,quite educative

Bwon:
yh thnx i hope she just leaves us alone. But i don't know how to explain it to my fiancee that she should change her best lady cos i can't imagine looking at her that day... Knowing what has happened in the past. *sigh*

alberto2k:

i just dey look u

kitnah:

Mr blackett

So you will rather build a marriage on lies huh??

I think the op should man up and face the consequences of his action.

If she breaks up with him,trust me it was never meant to be

btw,i'm enjoyin this,quite educative

LadyX:


So you decided not to tell your fiance?

If so, I don't know how you will tell her to change the lady because you've got to give a reason.
Maybe Blackett can help you there.

cc. Blackett

kitnah:

Bros ..,alberto made use of the word "flex","flirt" and i wanted to correct him ,so i ve to use his "words".
I get ur point tnx

Bwon:
Break up is a no option my sister. It ain't easy now it sure gonna be worse then.

LadyX:


So you decided not to tell your fiance?

If so, I don't know how you will tell her to change the lady because you've got to give a reason.
Maybe Blackett can help you there.

cc. Blackett

Bwon:
have not decided anything yet... It scary to think about losing some1 u want to spend the rest of your life with... You built d relationship to a point she is virtually everything and a family. You don't want to be in that shoes trust me . it more difficult becos she is fragile she would break... she not that strong.

Blackett:
Right now, he doesn't care how much he has spent. He loves this woman.