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Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Oahray: 1:05pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
All the guys here justifying cheating by guys have something wrong with their heads. Girls should stop pretending that cheating is a guy thing. If you aren't caught doesn't mean it doesn't happen. @op,how is the guy supposed to know that his girl cheated just once? Because she says so? As if she would admit she's cheating until she's caught. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by viczing(m): 1:23pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Folksyharry: That's it man its annoying |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 2:07pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
haul: Haul, I can't even respond to your comment. Just start from scratch and get a thorough education, your emphasis should be respect foremost. I can't even debate with someone with your primitive and sexist mindset. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by haul: 2:12pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Mandu94:attack the message not the messenger 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 2:52pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
haul: LOOOL,my friend. You are a victim of society and your personality, far from a gentlemen. Your notion of respect for women has totally diminished. You are just 1 out of many who think like you. Nothing personal. But when you come on Nairaland, do not make rude comments like that, just disgusting, no more words… |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by haul: 2:58pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Mandu94:no problem man, I'm not a gentleman certainly,I don't want to be one tho, and I don't respect ladies that don't respect their-selves. 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 3:00pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Define what you mean by, respect themselves? I would love to know your view. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by skimmy39: 3:05pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
men cheat for the same reasons women cheat we all cheat cus we are all animals, and no animal is known to be monogamous in nature. Vickybee: |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 3:20pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
skimmy39: ADDING TO THAT HOWEVER- The reasons as to why men (in general) cheat MORE, is much more complex. I would state why women (in general) cheat less but then cheating is bad anyway. Men feel as though the have LESS to lose because SOCIETY and UPBRINGING especially in places like Nigeria, deem women as second class citizens. Society stigmatises women who cheat e.g "slut", "LovePeddler" and 'women need to marry' before they get "old and ugly". Whereas boys (not proper decent men), if they sleep with as many girls possible it is seen as 'COOL'!!! I believe if boys are brought up in a manner MORE SIMILAR TO THAT OF GIRLS, boys who grow up to be Men, will see cheating as being more grave. Thankyou |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by baralatie(m): 3:32pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Extom: |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by eightsin(m): 4:02pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Lol. Who ever wants to fuc.k should get it on.. no just gimme STD. That's all. But I no even know why e dey pain.. can't humans just learn how to share |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 4:04pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
eightsin: What?, Rewrite please |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by eightsin(m): 4:09pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Mandu94: Nah! You should reread |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Nobody: 4:13pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Yungwizzzy: while you are affording other men's partners someone else is there affording and screwing yours too be it gf or wf |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 4:14pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
eightsin: I understand, must be hard for you to write properly, remember people should understand. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by eightsin(m): 4:17pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Mandu94: If only you understand, you will notice the sarcastic pidgin english used. And if you had some common sense, you will also know I wasn't trying to communicate in queens english. Olodo forming smart. 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 4:20pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
eightsin: Im afraid to say if you are implying that Im being pretentious, I cannot help the fact that I don't understand. Yes Im aware it is pidgin. Don't feel threatened. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by eightsin(m): 4:25pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Mandu94: My brother, the fact that you don't understand doesn't mean I don't write properly. Feel threatened You must be a joke. Bye sir... I'm not gonna dignify your post no more. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by haul: 4:47pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Mandu94:well,ladies that feels they can tongue-lash a guy,they can be so stupid to feel they are on par with men(this has nothing todo with africanisim mind you ). I don't just like it when lady feel they can also extort guys and go free(you can't eat your cake and have it). Obviously this are my opinions and yours are welcome but still won't change my insensitive or emotional blankness towards the female.I'm no misogynist tho. 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 3:33pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
haul: Is that all, women are not equal to men. They are different and gender is one form of difference. Individuality is key. However Women and Men should be treated equally, in all aspects of society. I hate when people use ridiculous phrases to avoid explaining themselves,you can't eat your cake and have it'. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 3:34pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
Women are not treated with respect especially in cultures such as Nigeria. Look at Chimamanda Ngozi adichie on Youtube. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 3:36pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
eightsin: What makes you think Im your brother. I am a girl. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by eightsin(m): 3:56pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
Mandu94: Lol. My bad! But I'd advice u start behaving like a lady that is if truly you are. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 4:05pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
eightsin: Haha I think you can't comprehend that a girl can stand up for herself. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by eightsin(m): 4:51pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
Mandu94: Seriously, you need to be checked. There has to be something wrong somewhere. You just opened an account here and all you've been doing is antagonize and look for trouble. I think you are a guy seeking unnecessary attention . |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 4:58pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
eightsin: LOOL, is all Im going to say. Because you must be a retarded teen, not even an adult. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Lisaflex(f): 9:42pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
I strongly dislike men who fnk/bliv dey wer made 2 cheat(out of their control) or those who bliv it is not a big deal cos dey r men 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by haul: 8:50pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Mandu94:don't hate the phrase,accept such phrase are true |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 2:47pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
haul: Lol is that an argument. You have no comeback. No valid reasoning. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by haul: 3:43pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Mandu94:young man,don't misuse words with me okay? Understand your words well before posting gobbledygooks! Wtf! You act like you can't be corrected! Like you know it all! What do you know is called valid reasoning before you impugn my claims? Nonsense. |
Re: Why Can't Men Deal With This by Mandu94: 1:47pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
LOOOOL, Im a young female. |
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