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Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:00pm On Mar 24, 2015
Which of these two statements do you believe in?

1) Things are not meant to be,we make it happen

Or

2) Everything has been written and predestined

Give the reason
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by smalls7: 4:03pm On Mar 24, 2015
I believe in Number 1.

Karma is my explanation, whatever we do, we shall reap the consequences, be it good or bad!

The peeps that are gonna go for the predestined thingy are religious peeps...

And by the way! This shouldn't be in the romance section
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by Qaisar1: 4:05pm On Mar 24, 2015
3. Everything has been written, we work and pray they come true

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Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by FLAWLES(f): 4:10pm On Mar 24, 2015
Op why are u asking sad
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by stan241(m): 4:12pm On Mar 24, 2015
Depends on the context..as this is in the romance section I'd say 2..ever wonder why even seemingly perfect relationships crash unexpectedly even though uve tried no1 to make it work
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:16pm On Mar 24, 2015
smalls7:
I believe in Number 1.

Karma is my explanation, whatever we do, we shall reap the consequences, be it good or bad!

The peeps that are gonna go for the predestined thingy are religious peeps...

And by the way! This shouldn't be in the romance section

So you control your own future?
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:17pm On Mar 24, 2015
FLAWLES:
Op why are u asking sad

I wanna know
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:17pm On Mar 24, 2015
Qaisar1:
3. Everything has been written, we work and pray they come true

Either good or bad abi
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:18pm On Mar 24, 2015
stan241:
Depends on the context..as this is in the romance section I'd say 2..ever wonder why even seemingly perfect relationships crash unexpectedly even though uve tried no1 to make it work

So whatever happens to you is predestined
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:18pm On Mar 24, 2015
Qaisar1:
3. Everything has been written, we work and pray they come true

Either good or bad abi
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by smalls7: 4:19pm On Mar 24, 2015
ilotriouzAY:


So you control your own future?
You earn it...
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:22pm On Mar 24, 2015
smalls7:
You earn it...

Please explain better
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Mar 24, 2015
Our lives has been predestined but you gat to work to make it happen.
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by smalls7: 4:28pm On Mar 24, 2015
ilotriouzAY:


Please explain better
Sorry, I don't talk much!!!
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:30pm On Mar 24, 2015
smalls7:
Sorry, I don't talk much!!!

Tanks for your contribution
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:31pm On Mar 24, 2015
AgapeCharis:
Our lives has been predestined but you gat to work to make it happen.

Why work for it when it is already predestined
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by xynerise: 4:31pm On Mar 24, 2015
ilotriouzAY:
Which of these two statements do you believe in?

1) Things are not meant to be,we make it happen

Or

2) Everything has been written and predestined

Give the reason
Are you willing to do the right thing or do things right?
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by Qaisar1: 4:32pm On Mar 24, 2015
ilotriouzAY:


Either good or bad abi

I should have said good only, but there's a Devil. Thing can't be perfect.

As God dey pen His plans, Devil nor dey play.
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Mar 24, 2015
ilotriouzAY:


Why work for it when it is already predestined
The principle of sowing and reaping/input and output.
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:36pm On Mar 24, 2015
xynerise:

Are you willing to do the right thing or do things right?

I would prefer to do the right thing

Why the question?
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by Qaisar1: 4:36pm On Mar 24, 2015
xynerise:

Are you willing to do the right thing or do things right?

I will (try to) do both at the right time undecided
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 4:36pm On Mar 24, 2015
AgapeCharis:
The principle of sowing and reaping/input and output.

Hmmm...thanks
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by xynerise: 4:44pm On Mar 24, 2015
ilotriouzAY:


I would prefer to do the right thing

Why the question?
If you prefer to do the right thing then your choice is No.2 of your post.

We sometimes do things that were there before we were born. Sometimes they are norms or probably a law in the environment we find ourselves. Christians believe the teachings of Jesus Christ as the right thing and hence adhere to them.


But sometimes, we have to give up the things we desire the most.
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by xynerise: 4:45pm On Mar 24, 2015
Qaisar1:


I will (try to) do both at the right time undecided
Two rights beneficial to you don't occur frequently
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Mar 24, 2015
ilotriouzAY:


Hmmm...thanks
Uwc.
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by Qaisar1: 4:49pm On Mar 24, 2015
xynerise:

Two rights beneficial to you don't occur frequently

"Doing things right" may not seem right.

If it's beneficial to moi, it's right (though egocentric)
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by xynerise: 4:52pm On Mar 24, 2015
Qaisar1:


"Doing things right" may not seem right.

If it's beneficial to moi, it's right (though egocentric)
Based on what you said on doing both at the right time. There is always an option for others. You might do things right to please yourself while others suffer. Egocentric indeed
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Mar 24, 2015
At a very tender age, I was told by a seer that I would grow up to become a millionaire, one that would empower many souls.

Guess what a young vocal me asked the seer, ''Should I go home now and go play with my pals?''

I had to ask the question 'cause since I've been predestined to get rich there's no point in schooling or working, the money would just come cheesy

But then, I was wrong.

I still remember the words of that seer like it was just yesterday and I wish I could believe a miniscule bit of his words.

I refuse to believe in fate and destiny.

We should create the favourable condition we wish to be in. We should create our own path, our destiny.

You are poor today cos you chose to be poor, you are freaking rich today cos you chose to be rich.

The mind is a wonderful tool, we should learn to use it. Don't leave it idle and wait on some freaking fate to happen.

My signature is an excerpt from Mafia Manager, it sums this whole talk up.

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Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by PunkyOh(f): 5:26pm On Mar 24, 2015
I believe in 2. But I also believe fate needs a little helping hand.

The reason is because there are some things in life, that when you look back, they seem like a preparation course for the future. Everything just fit in together like a big puzzle.
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by akinsadeez(m): 5:34pm On Mar 24, 2015
Hmmmmmmm. interesting. I'd go with one. A man will eat the work of his hands. Don't believe in destiny, I believe in taking charge and making your own way.
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ivyT(f): 5:42pm On Mar 24, 2015
Qaisar1:
3. Everything has been written, we work and pray they come true


Uve said it

But pple go still no go gree_dats life
Re: Which One Do You Believe IN And Why?? by ilotriouzAY(m): 6:18pm On Mar 24, 2015
xynerise:

If you prefer to do the right thing then your choice is No.2 of your post.

We sometimes do things that were there before we were born. Sometimes they are norms or probably a law in the environment we find ourselves. Christians believe the teachings of Jesus Christ as the right thing and hence adhere to them.


But sometimes, we have to give up the things we desire the most.

Tanks...I love how you explained it

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