They say that love is fleeting and if you find it, you need to hold onto it. Sometimes, as women, we meet a guy that we fall head over heels for. The only problem is that he might not feel exactly the same way. If you want to get a guy to fall in love with you there are a few things you can do to encourage those feelings.

One of the things that almost every guy finds attractive is self-confidence. If a woman is sure of herself and happy with her life, this is evident right from the start. Any woman who tries to change in order to please a man is likely going to lose his affection quickly. If you want to get a guy to fall in love with you don't put on any false fronts. Be exactly who are all the time, flaws and all, and he'll realize that you're a happy, balanced woman.

Another thing that men find attractive is a woman who is self-sufficient. This doesn't mean that you have to run a company or have a high paying job. It does mean that you can take care of yourself and you're not dependent on anyone else for money. Offer to pay for dinner or outings when you two are dating. Not only will he appreciate that you want to help financially but it will make him feel valued too. Many men will never admit it, but they resent having to constantly foot the bill for every night out on the town.

Don't bring any of your past failed relationship issues into a new relationship. Men are much more appreciative of a woman who can leave the past in the past. If you want to get a guy to fall in love with you, you need to start with a clean slate. If you've been cheated on in the past, don't accuse him of being unfaithful when he's late or unavailable. Also, don't talk endlessly about everything that your ex did wrong. Men stick together and if he hears you complaining about your last boyfriend, he may just imagine you doing the same thing about him to someone else.

Be spontaneous and fun. So many women, when they are first dating a new guy, are afraid of looking silly or foolish. Throw caution to the wind and let your hair down. If you two get caught in the rain, embrace the experience. Don't run for cover complaining about how your hair is ruined. Be willing to try new things and laugh at every chance you get. Men love fun, happy and carefree women. Show him that you love each experience and that you realize that life is made for living.

Specific things you say and do can make a man feel helplessly drawn to you. If you are convinced he is the one there are things you can do to ensure he only has eyes for you. For more insightful tips about understanding men including a way to get him to fall deeply in love with you, watch this informative video!

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