Things you can do to be more attractive :
Being attractive to men is much more than
having a pretty face. Apparently, men are
looking for more. To test this theory, we did a
quick survey, online and in personal
interviews, asking men what they consider
attractive in women.

Here are the six top characteristics that were
mentioned — one way or another — by nearly
all who were surveyed. These traits are what
respondents found attractive in women:

1. Self-confident

She knows who she is. She doesn’t need
anyone else to define her. She’s content to be
herself. She has values and standards and isn’t
afraid to stick by them. She’s not driven by
every wind and wave of popular culture. She’s
grounded in knowing what she stands for and
doesn’t apologize for it to anyone. She has a
strong faith in God. She’s not arrogant about
it, just quietly remains true to her beliefs and
allows others to do the same. She is more
concerned about others, including her
boyfriend, than herself. One man, describing
the woman he married, said, “Her moral
‘backbone’ and solid values were a hit with
me.” Being confident in who you are and
having your values in place can free you up to
care about others.

2. Adventuresome and fun

She’s game for an adventure which makes her fun to
be with. She isn’t afraid to try new things, go new
places and eat new foods. She doesn’t hesitate to learn
new things that we both find challenging and
interesting. For example, a pre-med student said of his
fiancé, “She was even willing to board a hot air
balloon without knowing I was going to propose to
her in midair.” (Click here to see this romantic event.)
Yes, men enjoy being with women who are willing to
try new adventures.

3. Feminine and pretty

She’s not obsessed over her looks. She fixes herself up
to look nice and is satisfied. When I’m with her I feel
like a real man. She doesn’t have a need to be
masculine, though she is strong and extremely
capable. Her femininity complements my masculinity.
She can look adorable in five-inch heels one minute
and equally charming in jogging shoes the next. She
can wear a dress with a swirly skirt as comfortably as
she wears everyday jeans. She’s not inclined to use
gutter talk. She knows how to smile and uses it often.
She simply knows how to be a lady.

4. Smart

She has prepared herself intellectually — educated but
not boastful about it. When we can talk freely about
what’s going on in the world, with both of us being
equally involved in the conversation, that’s a very
good thing. It’s not that she has to know about
everything; it’s that she wants to learn and finds
learning rewarding. That’s attractive.

5. Approachable and friendly

She gives me a glance when she sees me staring at
her, encouraging me with a slight flirtatious look. One
man who fell hook-line-and-sinker said, “Her down-
to-earth personality made it impossible for me to
resist.” Another husband said, “She laughed at my
jokes. She thought I was hilarious, and that stroked
my ego. It made me want to be with her.” Maybe our
Miss America contestant — mentioned earlier — made
guys feel that she was unapproachable — too good
for them. Nobody wants to be rejected, so guys
generally won’t risk it. Men need to feel invited by
your welcoming look and gestures. In other words,
being friendly is attractive to guys

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