Hello Nairalanders, I am a young man of 33 working for an oil servicing firm, I have tryed 4 times to get married to a lady of my choice but each time I bring those ladies home to meet my family, they always reject those ladies.
The problem with the first one was thr lady grew up in a broken home (her parents separated when she was young), the second ladies crime was that she didn't look promising and bright, also my mum met her once in my house and was insulting her and the girl retorted that "Ma you have daughters too" The 3rd ladies case was that she came from Oguta and that Oguta people are not good, the 4th one from Ohafia, they refused too.I let go all this for the sake of peace.

The 5th lady, I got objections which I didn't accept, I wedded her in the court, (their objections were based on their feelings that she worked and lived alone in Asaba alone) also saying that her Dad is a womanizer and a thug/cultist. I don't believe this because they have been trying to link me up with a family friends daughter who is a banker.

Now they know about the wedding, I have apologized for not seeking their consent first. I need them to be with me for the white and traditional weddings. They are refusing strongly, even saying I am under a spell and need to go for deliverance. I need your candid opinion on what to do, no jokes.

Brb