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Guys !!! See 9 Reasons Why Women Reject You!!![must Read] by youngsahito(m): 8:44am On Apr 02, 2015
#1: Being too cocky.
Arrogance is the way some guys cope with
their perceived shortcomings. For
whatever reason, they think that coming
off as cocky guy will cover up the fact that
they’re insecured or short or a bore or
whatever. It never works. Being yourself,
whoever that is, conquers arrogance any
day,anytime.
Take the things you might be cocky about
and downplay them, or better yet, don’t
even talk about them until they come up
naturally in conversation. Maybe you have
a good job or a nice car. Maybe you’re a
good athlete. Whatever it is, she’ll find out
in due course, and will be much more
impressed than if you just said it out.
#2: Lacking in confidence.
One of the best quality that women value
most in men is self-confidence. More than
good looks, money, a great job or a sense
of humor, a self-assured man is extremely
attractive to any women. But too many
guys miss use cockiness for confidence,
and the two are just opposites.
A confident man doesn’t brag.He is
decisive. He is respectful towards women,
polite to waiters, charming, and an all
around gentleman. This is something that
all guys should practice inthier life’s.
#3: Out of your league(not your level)
Sometimes, a guy gets rejected because
he aimed too high. Let’s face it, there are
some women that most guys will never
have a chance with. It might be because of
their looks or money or age or whatever
else. For example If you shoot for stars,
you can’t be surprised if you crash land.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try,
though. Sometimes, the prettiest girl at
the dance stays alone because everyone is
too afraid to approach her. Speak to a
woman like this with self-confidence and
politeness, and you never know how
successful you might become. Just be
prepared that you could easily be shot
down. But remember rejection is not the
end of the world, as long as you can
handle it well.
#4: Too self-involved.
It’s unbelievable the number of guys that,
when with a woman on their first date,
spend an entire evening talking about
themselves. Whatever goes through their
heads when they do this, either thinking
the women are impressed, or that it’s their
duty to do all the talking for the woman,
they are wrong.
Women hate this type of guys. Even if you
really did scale the Himalayas, shut up
about it anyway. If she wants to hear
more, she’ll ask you. Women are much
more impressed by guys who show
interest in her life and career.Guys! get
over yourself or you’ll stay alone.
#5: Fouling the waters.
Unfortunately, bad hygiene is also a
common reason that make women reject
men. Luckily, it is an easily preventable
one. It’s pretty simple. Wash yourself,
brush your teeth, wear clean clothes, run
a comb through your hair, and you’re
pretty much there. It’s easy for guys to get
cleaned up and ready to go out. Put in that
minimal effort.So guys watch out because
If you’re not clean, you will be rejected.
#6: Poor performance.
Rejection doesn’t just happen at the first
encounter. You might have already gone
on a few dates, or even slept together.
Any of these reasons can still apply after
the initial meeting. This one can only apply
once you’ve slept together. Maybe you
just didn’t please her.
Women have 5:exual needs just like men
do. If a guy isn’t meeting those needs,
then she very well might reject him
because of it. Most women are pretty
understanding, and as long as a guy is
making the effort, she should help him
figure out what her needs are. But if a guy
is just a selfish lover, putting his own
pleasure before hers, then he will have
only himself to blame when she stops
answering his calls.
#7: Just not her type.
Sometimes, a guy is just not what a
woman is looking for. It could be
something about personality or maybe she
might not just be physically attracted to
him. Maybe the chemistry isn’t there for
her. There’s not much you can do about
this, other than just accept it.
Again, rejection happens. If you approach
her in a gentlemanly way, she will be
polite about it. You should be, too. There’s
nothing worse than a guy who gets bitter,
whiny or angry over rejection. Guys do you
know that ,knowing how to accept
rejection is part of being self-confident
enough to approach a woman in the first
place.
#8: He’s kind of a prick.
Everyone’s heard it before, that nice guys
finish last, and that women like a:ssholes.
It’s impossible to deny that there’s some
truth to this, but do you really want to be
with a woman who likes guys who are
jerks? Take the high road and be a
gentleman, and you’ll do much better.
This might be the most common reason of
all that women reject men. Guys are rude
towards women either because that’s how
they are, or how they’ve convinced
themselves that they need to be. It’s a
terrible approach. If you’re a jerk to her,
she will shoot you down. and guys guess
what its going to be a richly deserved
rejection.
#9: Just not in the cards.
Sometimes, you’re just unlucky. You
approach a woman you’re into, whom on
any other day might like you, too. But for
whatever reason, she’s having a bad day.
Maybe she had a fight with a friend or a
bad day at work or maybe she’s just under
the weather. You’ve got to accept that
there’s always an element of chance to
things, and sometimes, the timing just
isn’t right.
Rejection is a normal part of the game,
and it’s important to learn to accept it and
bear it. But if you can avoid these common
mistakes, it will be something you have to
deal with less frequently. Try to fix the
mistakes you’re doing wrong, and accept
that there are some things you can’t
change.
Re: Guys !!! See 9 Reasons Why Women Reject You!!![must Read] by Nobody: 8:46am On Apr 02, 2015
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