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by whisp3r(m): 8:24pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Hi everyone, Am not going to start by saying I know someone that need advice or crap like dat. Reason is Am the one in need of advice Let me hit the nail on the head, I have issues with my feelings, I don't mean to brag but I am more of the guy that can get any lady to fall in love with me. The problem is that I have never felt any strong feelings for anyone. I keep on hearing how people say they are in love. It keeps me pondering why can't I fall in love. Now my question ****************** Is it normal or is something wrong with my physiology. FYI I just can't get emotionally attached to a person, not that I don't feel intimate with them. I just date to prevent the society from nagging Please be WARNED kindly refrain from insults and derailing the thread. Thanks in advance |
Re: by elantraceey(f): 8:28pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Don't worry , you've not met the right girl yet . Most of the people that screams love here and there have actually not felt it so you're not alone . 1 Like |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 8:30pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
elantraceey: Thanks a lot I really feel encouraged by your words |
Re: by elantraceey(f): 8:40pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Re: by TheChosenOne1: 8:53pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
whisp3r:Used to think I'm the only one this is happening to....I can't just get emotionally attached to a person too...been in 4 relationships till date...I had issues with the first one(she cheated) and ended the last three myself(no-concrete reason/s)...I think I'll subscribe to elantraceey's view... |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 8:55pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
TheChosenOne1: Thank God am not the only one |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 9:10pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
@TheChosenOne1 I always thought I had something wrong with me, wanted to even go for therapy |
Re: by LewisO: 9:26pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Yeah! I totally agree with you, many guys are like that, maybe because they had being heartbroken by a lady in the past in which they had given there fragile heart ♥ to, and they don't want to fall into that again so they decided not to fall in love with any other lady till when they are fully prepared for marriage. But later u still have to fall in love just because of marriage to be in an euphoria with your woman. 1 Like |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 9:28pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
LewisO: waiting for analysis @ LewisO |
Re: by kinglekan: 9:29pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Elantraceey has said it all. Just chill and take ur time. Plus don't go around hurting ladies by dating them cos the society deems it fit to be in a relationship at a particular age. You might not be emotionally attracted to her and its best you keep it platonic cos she might be attached emotionally to you if you go ahead to start dating her. When you find the right person, you would know. My advice simply is; Make friends and don't break hearts. |
Re: by tohpahz(f): 9:33pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
kinglekan: Relationship master |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 9:35pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
kinglekan: Thanks, before I enter a relationship I always make it a point to let them know how I feel, but it all ends the same. By the time I want to call the relationship off they would ve gotten emotionally attached to me, making it look like am a bad person |
Re: by spacefreak: 9:59pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
whisp3r: I know exactly how you feel bro. Maybe with time things will get to change. |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 10:06pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
spacefreak: Thanks for your kind words |
Re: by mirexxx(f): 10:08pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
you need to relax op forget relationships for now! take a vacation and cool your head! |
Re: by spacefreak: 10:09pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
whisp3r: You could do like me and deliberately avoid relationships till you feel you are ready to try again. 1 Like |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 10:16pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
mirexxx: Its not like am the one looking to start a relationship, it's just pursuing me no matter how far i run from it |
Re: by Nobody: 10:18pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Are you a psychopath? I'm serious.. it's more common than people think. Do you have strong feelings for family members? |
Re: by Nobody: 10:20pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
elantraceey:Lol e.g |
Re: by Nobody: 10:21pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
I get question too,Am becoming heartless day by day ,the emotional me is fading away |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 10:27pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Rainess: Am not a psychopath o. Like i said earlier don't get me wrong i find it hard falling in love with someone am intimate with. FYI being intimate with a person does not make you love that person |
Re: by Nobody: 10:30pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
whisp3r: Maybe you should stop sleeping with people until you have feelings. Could be that is preventing the feelings from developing |
Re: by Hila12(m): 10:31pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Deeply present in everyone is the 'emotion' to feel anything (love inclusive) but it takes the 'right person' to provoke such feelings. This is simple, you don't feel emotionally attached because you haven't met a girl who has the way to your heart. Don't be compelled to keep a relationship if the feelings aren't mutual - love is not a chore, it is something your heart expresses without your mind's permission. Cheers. |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 10:32pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Rainess: Thanks for the advice. I will consider doing so |
Re: by Nobody: 10:37pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
When you come across that special someone, you wouldn't have to try. |
Re: by whisp3r(m): 10:38pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rokiatu: Food for thought |
Re: by Nobody: 10:40pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
guy focus on something else jare. what is love gan . OVERATED BULLSHITT!!! |
Re: by kinglekan: 10:56pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
whisp3r: Ofcause that's ladies for you. Their emotions would always take the better part of them. Plus they feel things would change and you would tend to love them as time goes on. Only to be shocked and hrtbroken when things get sour. |
Re: by kinglekan: 10:58pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Ipledge: U too dey nack, na why. Hehehhe |
Re: by kinglekan: 11:00pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tohpahz: Baby u dey whine me bah?? |
Re: by chimerase2: 11:11pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Op u need an ukwulicious relationship to turn ua amu on |
Re: by tohpahz(f): 11:22pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
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