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7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by Mannylex(m): 3:50pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
We all know what makes a Man a MAN is the command he wields, the respect he garners, and the fact that what he says or wants is what he gets. Its prestigious been a RESPECTED Man ain't it? So what happens when the number one person that needs to respect you doesn't? It means trouble. Look at it this way, you were crazy about a particular woman, and what do you know? She actually went out with you. What’s more, she actually became your girlfriend. Maybe she was even as hot for you as you were for her…at least at first. But over time, as things became more, shall we say,“familiar”(see me finish), you started getting the sneaking suspicion that she was sort of taking you for granted. In fact, you got the feeling that she fully expected you to stick around forever regardless of what she did or didn’t do for you. She had clearly grown complacent. She had gotten used to keeping you around without having to exert much effort. You just weren’t much of a “challenge” anymore. And you know what? I realize this is going to sting a bit…but that can only mean she was losing respect for you. That’s right. You’ve heard of the “Just Be Friends Zone”? Well, you had been banished to the “No Respect Zone”. And as you probably found out, it’s every bit as deep a pit to climb out of. Now before you start throwing rocks at your computer monitor and/or slam your iPad to the floor, here are 7 ways to tell if what I’m bringing up here really applies to you or not. That’s right. I’ve identified a total of 7 quick signs that a woman is losing respect for you—or has completely lost it already: 1). Her Friends Start Tagging Along When You’re Together It used to be that the two of you spent private, romantic evenings together. Then you started spending EVERY evening together. And THEN, she decided she wasn’t seeing enough of her friends. So they started dropping by and/or even going out with the two of you. You didn’t care. At least you were still spending time with her. And besides, you also didn’t care as much as she did about not seeing your friends anymore. Yeah, well…if it hasn’t happened already, be prepared to feel like the “third wheel” from now on even though YOU’RE allegedly her boyfriend. 2). She Insults And/Or Belittles You This is too obvious ain't it? What's up with this Chic? She used to think you could do no wrong. She used to stand beside you no matter what, giving glowing approval of whatever your plans were. But nowadays she rolls her eyes whenever you open your mouth. She calls you an “idiot” or a “jerk”, and makes fun of you whenever you share your ideas. Worse, she talks down to you in front of other people…even your friends. What’s up with her? She’s lost respect for you, that’s what. 3). She Talks On The Phone To Other People When You’re Around Does this sound like an incredibly rude thing to do? Well it is. But then again, geez dude…you’re around ALL THE FREAKING TIME. Whenever is she supposed to talk to anyone else? Really, aint it obvious your losing it? 4). Her “Guy Friends” Are Getting Friskier With Her Other guys are starting to flirt with your girlfriend more. Some are even brazenly asking her out…perhaps while you’re standing there. But here’s the craziest part of the whole phenomenon we’re talking about here. You’re pretty much pretending it isn’t going on, just like an ostrich with its head in the sand. It’s not that you’re blind to the whole thing and/or in denial about it because you’re a guy. It’s all because you’re HER guy. Every other dude who’s ready to jump her bones as soon as you’re out of the picture already senses she’s losing respect for you And they know that means she might easily be lured away. Weirdly, if you were one of them, you’d see it too. So they’re flirting with her more. Even under your nose. And she’s letting it happen. And she’s enjoying it. And YOU’RE letting it happen, too. That’s because should you have the gall to show any displeasure over the whole thing, she’ll tell you you’re overreacting and that “it’s nothing”. She’ll tell you they’re “just friends”. And if anything, it’ll all just get worse. That’s because she doesn’t respect you and takes you for granted. 5). She Assumes You’ll Keep Doing For Her Whatever It Is You’ve Been Doing For Her Yes, you’ll pick up her clothes from the laundry, or even wash it for her, aftet sex, you make the bed, you do all she wants, You’ll go get her car washed. You’ll go to the fast food and get her stuffs to eat…and pay for them. And even if you complain, you’ll keep doing whatever she asks you to do. That’s because you care about her more than she cares about you. She knows it, and she’s taking advantage of it…at least until her real "Prince Charming” comes along and sweeps her off of her feet, and out of your life. 6). Doesn’t Return Your Calls I’ve said it before, but it bears repeating in this context. If a woman is really excited about talking to you, she will. If she’s really not, she won’t. Simply put, if she’s got a whole lot less nowadays that she’s excited to talk to you about than she used to, you’re going to hear from her less. And by the way, when you call her (again, for the fourth time today), she’s going to end the conversation before you do 90% of the time. 7). She Keeps You Waiting Her having you sit around her apartment at night was just the beginning. Now, she’s feeling absolutely free to show up an hour late—or even not at all—when the two of you have plans. If you’re planning to go out together, she’ll take an extra hour to get ready. She might even call you and tell you she’s got a “couple of errands” to run before she gets around to seeing you. But then again, she knows you’ll be fine with that…right? brutal list, right? If any or all of what I just shared with you resonates just a bit too closely with your reality, you’re probably left wondering how the heck you can CHANGE that reality. I mean, you’ve probably been wondering about that LONG before saw this post. Well, guess what? The solution really comes down to ONE pretty sple thing. You’ve got to become less AVAILABLE. That’s it. That’s really all there is too it. Have no fear; Mannylex is here |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by pomide(m): 4:02pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Everybody Now na Teacher of so so so number of 'signs'. |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by meimoks(f): 4:03pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
I'm still studying the signs |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by Mannylex(m): 7:22pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
pomide: Yes naw, so that you will learn. Have no fear; Mannylex is here 1 Like |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by mirexxx(f): 7:28pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
true! |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by Mannylex(m): 7:30pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by mirexxx(f): 7:34pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Mannylex: 1 Like |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by Pdizzle(m): 8:03am On Apr 07, 2015 |
do you need signs to be told you're being disrespected? |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by megfrank: 2:43pm On Apr 07, 2015 |
This are very true. The only thing is most times, when this happens people living in self denial and feign ignorance to the obvious... Good one OP |
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Doesnt Respect You Anymore by badinfluence: 2:55pm On Apr 07, 2015 |
Here's a sure sign... she DISRESPECTS you |
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