Had a Skype call with my lady yesterday and something awkward happened, I told her I loved her for the first time yesterday and to my surprise she began to laugh uncontrollably, its okay to small, blush or even laugh lightly, but the way she laughed seemed like i had poo all over my face or watching a clown, she was even trying to hold back but kept laughing and kept apologizing. After dat the video call seemed weird and somehow ended. We then chatted up told her I meant it and she says she loves me too, but I find it strange the laugh didn’t seem like excitement more of mockery.
Have dated 5 ladies in my short life and none have acted this way. I find it very strange, am beginning to feel she sees me as a joke or something. Flirted with each other for 3 years, but began dating early this year. We have this 5 years age gap (26 and 21) between us and all other ladies have dated before her were older or my mate.
To the experienced guys and ladies in the house what does this mean? cos have not experienced this before.
What do ladies really want sef?

ask Oba of lagos

you mean what do ladies want...or what does ur girl want.

cc: punkyOh....

I think a lady would answer better...

Hahahahhahahahhahahahah;hahahahhahahahhahahahah;hahahahhahahahhahahahah; Do u help her wash her Pant!es?cuz d way m seeing it

Are you Igbo? Coa I don't want to swim in the lagoon after advising you

ITbomb:
Are you Igbo? Coa I don't want to swim in the lagoon after advising you

lol buhahahahah very funny
no am nt.

FLAWLES:
Hahahahhahahahhahahahah;hahahahhahahahhahahahah;hahahahhahahahhahahahah; Do u help her wash her Pant!es?cuz d way m seeing it

dude's been washing the pink ones particularly...

I tell u o....

FLAWLES:
Hahahahhahahahhahahahah;hahahahhahahahhahahahah;hahahahhahahahhahahahah; Do u help her wash her Pant!es?cuz d way m seeing it

let me hear ur view

keyman0007:




let me hear ur view

.break up with d B!tch; buht 1st call her and talk 2her abouh et,ask her d meaning of wat she did,let her know u d man; and if she cun do anyhow; Pretend infact shift from calling her(don't break up wit her immediately)mk am pain am well well

Na question abi na attack? The other ones you dated were good, you did not come here to ask why are ladies good sef? Yet just 1 laugh at you and you decided to ask what do ladies want sef ba?
Typical sha, you see a boy playing games with girls and you wont hear him ask why women are so trusting, but if Just one woman breaks his heart just once, he will carry loud speaker and claim all women are whores, they should never be loved or trusted.
Na so life be sha.

OP na only that one girl laugh you, so I cant relate her action to what women want.
Pkele, endure.

keyman0007:

lol buhahahahah very funny
no am nt.

In that case,
It wouldn't hurt if later when you are together you chip it to her, like I would do and maybe laugh about it together
"Darl, you remember the day, I told you I love you? The way you were laughing eh, I was thinking whether Skype had really transmitted the exact words or it has been saying something else to you. Tell me what you heard that made you laugh so hard "

O lawd, I'm already in the mood for some romantic bed talk

They want money bro. Just offer them money and u will get almost any that you want. That's the situation now, materialism.

bros the gal is confused


n she want to intimidate u with DAT

so act like a man

joeboy03:
They want money bro. Just offer them money and u will get almost any that you want. That's the situation now, materialism.

not really o, she spends alot on me sef. I even cautioned her to stop of late sef. I just want to knw if some ladies laugh uncontrollable wen shy or embarrassed? Or cld she just be screwin with my head.

keyman0007:


not really o, she spends alot on me sef. I even cautioned her to stop of late sef. I just want to knw if some ladies laugh uncontrollable wen shy or embarrassed? Or cld she just be screwin with my head.

The fact that she cackled when you expressed your love, may indicate that she either doesn't believe you or she doesn't feel the same way

joeboy03:
They want money bro. Just offer them money and u will get almost any that you want. That's the situation now, materialism.

Everything isnt bouh money >:

we want what guys like, but in a female version.

Eniqurl:
Everything isnt bouh money >:

For the greater majority of ladies...money first. they'l tell you "money na im sure pass".

joeboy03:


For the greater majority of ladies...money first. they'l tell you "money na im sure pass".

Yh, majority.

Eniqurl:
Yh, majority.

Hope you ain't among em

mhyra:
we want what guys like, but in a female version.

joeboy03:


Hope you ain't among em

Nah

' what do ladies want' is a questn that can only be answered by God.

Some ladies ar just like that....i've experienced somethn of such too....she would laugh so hard on every little thing , at a point, i wanted to caution her bt didn't becoz she wil feel bad for sure.
Since she told u she love u too in a chat then take ha word for it.. .u dn't even knw how hard she laughed behind camera while typing that

She has another guy... She never thought you'd say the word so she used the laughter to hide her disappointment in you

Eniqurl:
Nah

That's my girl!!

[quote author=passionate88 post=32482156]She has another guy... She never thought you'd say the word so she used the laughter to hide her disappointment in you[/quot

Disappointment hw do you mean?