kelly wrote:

My dear I don't think you aunt is wrong by asking you when u'll bring a man home or if you have one. At 26 you should be in a relationship! What kind of MBA is that? Oh, after MBA it will be work, or probably a good job, then you'll come up with other xcuses - targets to meet or my job is too demanding. My dear you need a MAN. Am sure if you get the right man he won't disturb your studies. Don't wait until, it may be too late, Remember they say "women are like roses, complete it! You're a graduate for pete sake! Do you want to settle down when you're "thirty something"? Listen, men usually finds fault when a woman is over 27 and she has no man, They will have so many questions rolling on their minds, how many men have you dated? why did none of them marry? Are you the nagging type? etc,

Anyway sha, you still have to decide on what you want. If you're convinced that you need to finish your MBA, go ahead but make sure it won't be too late for you to catch a man, Please don't settle for what is available but what you desire.

HAVING A MAN IN YOUR LIFE now will not distract your studies

na by force to marry sef

abeg the aunt she leave the kind girl alone and let her decide when is ready jor

by forcing her to find some dudes and marry will make her appear desprate and will make her just settle for any guy that comes along just to please her

aunty and she will live her long life in agony or even divcore. abeg take your time, and always remember your anuty will not live your life for you when you are

married, you are on your own take your time, marriage is a life commitment that a person should be able to make freely when they are already.

dont let her force you into marriage cause you will forever regret. 26yrs is not old to be forced or rushed in marriage.

I agree with sissy but at the same time @ 26 and not in relationship

tope2000:

I agree with sissy but at the same time @ 26 and not in relationship

girl u knw na some folks just had bad luck when it comes to relationships

and since she is studying, she might have heard those advices " face your studies, having a boyfriend will distract you, after your studies a nice fellow will always come along"

~Sissy~:

girl u knw na some folks just had bad luck when it comes to relationships

and since she is studying, she might have heard those advices " f[b]ace your studies, having a boyfriend will distract you, after your studies a nice fellow will always come along"[/b]

Maybe in undergrad, but at 26 doing an MBA?? If she can be distracted at that age, then she'll never be ready. There is truth in those words - there will always be an excuse NOT to do something.

debosky:

Maybe in undergrad, but at 26 doing an MBA?? If she can be distracted at that age, then she'll never be ready. There is truth in those words - there will always be an excuse NOT to do something.

maybe she carried the advice over to graduate levels or maybe she wasnt just physically, emotionally, or whatever ready to take a course in relationships

~Sissy~:

girl u knw na some folks just had bad luck when it comes to relationships

and since she is studying, she might have heard those advices " face your studies, having a boyfriend will distract you, after your studies a nice fellow will always come along"

Lol . . . . .How can a 26 yrs old be distracted by men
At that age, i want to be married n be planning on getting preggo
She had berra hurry up, her biological time is ticking

Surely there must be a man out there that would respect and accommodate your dream and vision and not settle for the typical housewife and all that! i think the earlier you start finding that man the better although i still don't think you should push the panic button it ain't all doom and gloom just take your time and be on the lookout

tope2000:

Lol . . . . .How can a 26 yrs old be distracted by men
At that age, i want to be married n be planning on getting preggo
She had berra hurry up, her biological time is ticking  

she can always stop the clock and the change the battery

~Sissy~:

she can always stop the clock and the change the battery

Rofl . . . . . . .

@A-40
Do you want her situation to get to 'i just want any man'? cuz by the time she hitz 30, she might singing that song

tope2000:

Rofl . . . . . . .

@A-40
Do you want her situation to get to 'i just want any man'? cuz by the time she hitz 30, she might singing that song

and different kinds of guys, poor, deaf, dumb, ugly, etc will be hymning the chrous

tope2000:

Rofl . . . . . . .

@A-40
Do you want her situation to get to 'i just want any man'? cuz by the time she hitz 30, she might singing that song

Don't be ridiculous if she plays her cards right even at 30 she should be able to get a man its all in the mind so long as she has a womb lol she would get a man and a good one sef that appreciates an educated and independent woman