uj_sizzle: She's hitting on her friend's on and off date. Lots of trouble there my friend....RUN. The moment 'indecisive' friend realises 'sharp girl' friend is chilling with you, she'll come back full force. Trust me you don't wanna stand between two friends competing for your affection no matter how ego boosting it is.

frank3.16:
I don't see why u are confused here. If u like her ask her our and stop acting like u didn't suck ur mama breasst. If u were really bothered about her friendship wit her friend, why did u ask her out on a date at first? Why did u have a good time wit her.
Its high time u kids know that live is to short and stop all these break, push, start and quench attitude.
No wonder the other girl never took u serious

fxtimi: Like you said she was indecisive but i really like her friend. Did I forget to mention that I had been asking this girl out since she finished High school and i was fresh out of college waiting to go for my youth service(nearly ten years ago)? She said no back then because she thought i was trying to take advantage of her but at the time i was just looking for someone i could actually grow with and i saw in her some nice qualities plus our families go way back so i know the kind of home i was getting myself into. From the get go, i had wanted courtship, not some time wasting, going no where relationship. Between that period till date, we had dated other people, i even got engaged but that didn't work out. Now, her friend comes along and she and I have this vibe and am looking at her like the forbidding fruit because of my history with her friend. Is that fair? I NEVER EVEN SO MUCH AS KISSED THIS GAL when we sorta kinda dated

MRbrownJAY: unless you've fukced the first gal, there is no worries here.....go with whoever you feel is best (first gal may be pissed and try to scatter your new r/ship but who cares). so long as each of you know what lays ahead, then ride on!

Shollypopz: Haba, girls! girls!! U know d guy has been chyking ur friend and u still went on a date with him, nawa ooo

Did d second girl tell her friend u asked her out on a date and she agreed?? If no, hmmm......

Men will see this huge character flaw and ignore it cos of new p*ussy after y'all will come on NL and complain about Naija chics. Rubbish!

tpia1: Thread title sounds like a "nigerian man" thread

Ie one of those " i am dating a nigerian man, is he for real" or "can i go ahead" topics.

Since its not, cant make head or tail of what the op is saying.

kunlejazz:

Sholly, so u think the guy shudnt tolerate/encourage such 'betrayal and character flaw' but what are you going to say about the lady that has been stringing a guy on for almost 10years! I don't think it's a xter flaw really and IMO, if the first lady gets annoyed then she must be an extraordinarily selfish being (of course everyone knows the female gender is d more selfish one, no offense, its a matter of fact). She wants to keep flashing green and red lights till she finally decide to marry some1 else and ditch the age-long stalker. Not good my sister, so not kool

frank3.16:
I don't see why u are confused here. If u like her ask her our and stop acting like u didn't suck ur mama breasst. If u were really bothered about her friendship wit her friend, why did u ask her out on a date at first? Why did u have a good time wit her.
Its high time u kids know that live is to short and stop all these break, push, start and quench attitude.
No wonder the other girl never took u serious

chidyhels: Jst make sure u tell her about your past 'on' and 'of' relationship with her friend..but do that after she must have agreed.

mondi_cheeks: it will affect their friendship, but they just have to work it out like adults

IZUKWU: I deduce from your post that you are after this second girl because you are frustrated with the first girl,you are not sure where you stand with her,most likely you are just an option for her. If a girl is into you ,she will not leave hanging for that long. My advice ,go ahead with the new girl,but tell the new girl ,your history with the first one ,if and when the first girl learns of your r/ship and comes to make trouble ,tell her you got tired of her planks and decided to move on and that you are sorry that it had to be with her friend.

fxtimi: Like you said she was indecisive but i really like her friend. Did I forget to mention that I had been asking this girl out since she finished High school and i was fresh out of college waiting to go for my youth service(nearly ten years ago)? She said no back then because she thought i was trying to take advantage of her but at the time i was just looking for someone i could actually grow with and i saw in her some nice qualities plus our families go way back so i know the kind of home i was getting myself into. From the get go, i had wanted courtship, not some time wasting, going no where relationship. Between that period till date, we had dated other people, i even got engaged but that didn't work out. Now, her friend comes along and she and I have this vibe and am looking at her like the forbidding fruit because of my history with her friend. Is that fair? I NEVER EVEN SO MUCH AS KISSED THIS GAL when we sorta kinda dated

MRbrownJAY: unless you've fukced the first gal, there is no worries here.....go with whoever you feel is best (first gal may be pissed and try to scatter your new r/ship but who cares). so long as each of you know what lays ahead, then ride on!

190-the-clown:

By both planning to-eat his money
Aren't the-girls Nigerians

mondi_cheeks:
now we all know the women u go for clown! not every woman is like that

But atleast you all answer the general name -Nigerian girls init

KINGwax: even if she's fuckd her, at least it was the past

ikenna44: Weda u f.ucked 1st chic or not...d fact dat u re startin 2 lik d 2nd 1, means u dig her more dan d 1st. Go ahead wit d 2nd 1...u might jst want 2 run it by ha dat u tot u had sumtin wit d 1st chic(if posible, chip it in2 1 of ur chats as a joke).
PS...Unles u intend 2 marry ha...bros...jst chop nd clean mouth...no b world cup...u wan carry am 4 head?! Dude u ve 3 legs...tink wit ur head not ur heart! No feelings 4 bushmeat matter o