berylLOL:
are you trying to say she has no self respect for having sex with a guy on the first date? what about your friend that brought out his manhood, has he thought whether he's serious enough to be in a relationship or are you just judging the girl here?

softapple:
nope its just a thought though he might b wrong, dats y he needs ur advice.

berylLOL:

my advice is that you all should stop being stereotypical and judgmental. both of them had sex on the first date so why is it just the girl we need to worry about?? I think she deserves someone better because your friend is obviously a sexist.

InZA:
[s] This your friend is one stupiid guy sha, because the question really doesn't make sense, is it that it was okay for him to have sex on the first date but somehow because she's a woman, having sex with him on the first date makes her cheap and unworthy?

Cheap goes with cheap, if he's of the opinion that she was being too cheap by opening up the lower gates for him, then he's equally as cheap as a roll of tissue paper too, after all it was a consenting act by two "mature" adults...So why the tinge of double standardness. [/s]

dharay99:
leave her and see d outcome...

ronald4lif:
That was a relationship-killer mistake on her part. Some self restrain would have nice to show she's got some worth. But this shouldn't be a reason to quit or not take her serious anymore. The ones who might come off as "hard to get laid" may be worse.

LewisO:
typing...

InZA:
This your friend is one stupiid guy sha, because the question really doesn't make sense, is it that it was okay for him to have sex on the first date but somehow because she's a woman, having sex with him on the first date makes her cheap and unworthy?

Cheap goes with cheap, if he's of the opinion that she was being too cheap by opening up the lower gates for him, then he's equally as cheap as a roll of tissue paper too, after all it was a consenting act by two "mature" adults...So why the tinge of double standardness.

firstEVA:
She should be the one considering whether to take him seriously having proven he is a dog.

ronald4lif:
That was a relationship-killer mistake on her part. Some self restrain would have been nice to show she's got some worth. But this shouldn't be a reason to quit or not take her serious anymore. The ones who might come off as "hard to get laid" may be worse.

softapple:
and what is his loss? dnt 4get he has eaten already.

softapple:
lol dis got me scared, what outcome?

nuffin o, just more blessing n anointing go dey follow yhu...

firstEVA:
oh she didn't eat?

dharay99:


nuffin o, just more blessing n anointing go dey follow yhu...

softapple:
and what is his loss? dnt 4get he has eaten already.

berylLOL:

I thought he wanted a relationship? his loss is losing a potential partner.

softapple:
ha ha ha lol ok so wats ur advice

berylLOL:

lol "on her part?" did she have sex with herself? if you "erroneously" feel having sex on the first date is a relationship killer, why is the blame on the girl alone?

mizkeleke:
They are birds of a feather so they should flock together....

One gave and the other took...shekina

ronald4lif:


When one considers the fact that women are on mostly on the receiving end in a relationship and are the ones who are more vulnerable to get hurt then her action is a relationship killer.

True, they both had sex, enjoyed it so they are responsible and culpable for whichever the outcome is. And like I said earlier having sex on a first date means nothing but it scares most men. You can call them irresponsible and immature men that won't be bad. But you see, a man can keep moving from one woman to another without bating an eyelid but same can hardly be said of women. As they age faster it affect their looks too. So they ought to behave in a manner that won't put men off.

Lest we forget, it's a man who proposes to a woman and not the other way round. Should women not act a bit responsibly it affect them more in a relationship, not the man who can pluck his m*nhood to just any bleeding hole