I was really touched to hear the story of a woman who turns 45years old without a husband. I also listened to gossip coming from female colleagues about her. The woman is about to be sack just because of her strange behavior. I decided to come out with this pieces taking the above title. It just pained me when female refuse to make the first move when they see that they are going above 25years of age without husband. They preferred showing signs of which most decent and innocent men do not understand.
I stand to be corrected if the reasons are not genuine enough. I intend to hear your responses.

(1)Exponential women population: with the increase in population of female population in the world, Nigerian female population is not exempted. The increase in female population combined with a Bible doctrine of a man with one wife is already a challenge to single ladies. And this is a bigger issue for ladies waiting for the man to make the first move.

To be continued......

man na man

Oya continue.... . But if a lady asks a man for marriage, won't it appear she's desperate ?

Did it occur to you that she chose to be single? Who says everyone must get married?

please what is this? why don't you worry about yourself and leave women who want to be single alone.how is a woman being single "strange behaviour?"

LOL.. Nice gist

to get pregnant?

Every land are meant to be explore oooo

Wooooaaahhh....why feel pity to those women who remain single at d age of 25 & up? As long they r happy and contented with their lives...
We, women who remains singles r the most strongest ppol on earth..we hate dramas, we want freedom and we love to b in control of our lives...

Chartey:
Who says everyone must get married?

Not everyone will get married but most female dream is marriage and child bearing

berylLOL:
please what is this? why don't you worry about yourself and leave women who want to be single alone.how is a woman being single "strange behaviour?"

Strange behavior in that writeup is what I see in that unmarried woman and turned 45 years of age.I didn't generalized. She said the same when she was in her youthful age. Do you know is better to choose to be single? I mean you choose to be single and not conditions that causes it.

.....Continuation

(2) Aging/Beauty: The rate at which single ladies declined in beauty or age is exponentially increasing as their population. The show of beauty is not parallel with going unclad and displaying parts. Female are like flowers and they fade as they grow older. Is it menopause? Is it make up or bleaching cream? They will all fade and make your skin/face look horror when you grow older. So much to talk about in this area but I will leave it like that for another day.

(3)Men are now aware that the main beneficiary of marriage is YOU except few ladies. How? After occupying the most jobs of men, your family still enjoy pride price worth millions, suffered feeding you and children, paying house rent( that is if he's not a landlord) and host of other benefits. Can't you help him? Is he your bank account?

To be Continued......... *** I want to do domestics****

HMMMMMMMMMM

seggzz:

Not everyone will get married but most female dream is marriage and child bearing

Any woman who has marriage as a "dream" is a non-achiever. That's the smallest of dreams. I feel sad seeing ladies with huge potential settle for just marriage and a job that will give them time for their homes.
As for childbearing, a woman doesn't need a husband as much as a man needs a wife.
Please let's take some of the unnecessary pressure of the shoulders of our women so they can fly as high as possible.

PLEASE, LEAVE LADIES alone...

Some are MEANT to be SINGLE,

Some CHOOSE to remain SINGLE,

Some are MADE SINGLE...by processes.

NOTE:
Any LADY that is not ready to LISTEN to a man is UNFIT to live with a man..

Marriage! Marriage!! Marriage!!!

Sort of true tho...

Chartey:
Any woman who has marriage as a "dream" is a non-achiever. That's the smallest of dreams. I feel sad seeing ladies with huge potential settle for just marriage and a job that will give them time for their homes.
As for childbearing, a woman doesn't need a husband as much as a man needs a wife.
Please let's take some of the unnecessary pressure of the shoulders of our women so they can fly as high as possible.

We may just say this as a man. The woman I mentioned in my write up is also begging for children. How will she get pregnant if no male want her?

[Lol post=32580464]Wooooaaahhh....why feel pity to those women who remain single at d age of 25 & up? As long they r happy and contented with their lives...
We, women who remains singles r the most strongest ppol on earth..we hate dramas, we want freedom and we love to b in control of our lives... [/quote]

vislabraye:
Oya continue.... . But if a lady asks a man for marriage, won't it appear she's desperate ?

People are different, it's not every girl that agree to date any guy that approaches them. Some guys will date girls that ask them out, if they fancy her, some will run. It all depends on the mentality of the guy. You can't just meet someone and ask him/her to marry you immediately

seggzz:


We may just say this as a man. The woman I mentioned in my write up is also begging for children. How will she get pregnant if no male want her?

Na so she ugly reach?

passionate88:
Na so she ugly reach?

Sincerely she is not as beautiful as her youthful age. She is now looking for at least someone that can pregnant her.

All men are not the same as you said.

KashyBaby:
Wooooaaahhh....why feel pity to those women who remain single at d age of 25 & up? As long they r happy and contented with their lives...
We, women who remains singles r the most strongest ppol on earth..we hate dramas, we want freedom and we love to b in control of our lives...

Hmmmmm, see excuse, so, bcoz of urbad attitude to life which makes it impossible to a decent guy to hook up with now makes it a gurl power? Smh for ur dumb brains, my dear no woman is happy for being single @ 25 and above, forget all those gra gra u de see.

(4)Economic situation: The economic situation and poverty level in this country is like 100°C of water. Most reasonable men will always first fight for survival before thinking of marriage. Some men may even forget marriage. They are sometimes reminded by their parents especially the mother. The key point is that will you wait for this set of people to approach you for marriage? Did you know it easy for men to wait till any age before they marry?

(5)Men are now aware of cheapest means/ways to satisfy themselves sexually. They know masturbation techniques, when to visit sexual workers and many other ways. I don't encourage this alternative means but I need to tell you they practice these things .And to tell you that you don't conclude in your mind to say to yourself that their urge will push them to you. What if their urge don't push them to yourself? I think their body and sex organ is immortal (just thinking)

Generally, the popular belief of man must always make the first move should be eradicated. And I am sure that belief will soon find its way out by the time millions of ladies are left behind.

***Have a nice day my people***

chigoizie7:




Hmmmmm, see excuse, so, bcoz of urbad attitude to life which makes it impossible to a decent guy to hook up with now makes it a gurl power? Smh for ur dumb brains, my dear no woman is happy for being single @ 25 and above, forget all those gra gra u de see.

Nope....look who's dumbass talking sh*t down here?? if u can't accept tat women whose 25 & up stay single & happy,Then u have a problem...sit down ur ass & mind ur thing.

[quote author=seggzz post=32578191]I was really touched to hear the story of a woman who turns 45years old without a husband. I also listened to gossip coming from female colleagues about her. The woman is about to be sack just because of her strange behavior. I decided to come out with this pieces taking the above title. It just pained me when female refuse to make the first move when they see that they are going above 25years of age without husband. They preferred showing signs of which most decent and innocent men do not understand.
I stand to be corrected if the reasons are not genuine enough. I intend to hear your responses.

(1)Exponential women population: with the increase in population of female population in the world, Nigerian female population is not exempted. The increase in female population combined with a Bible doctrine of a man with one wife is already a challenge to single ladies. And this is a bigger issue for ladies waiting for the man to make the first move.
/quote]don't involve bible in this issue bks david,abraham and Solomon knew de bible.more than u do.

KashyBaby:
Wooooaaahhh....why feel pity to those women who remain single at d age of 25 & up? As long they r happy and contented with their lives...
We, women who remains singles r the most strongest ppol on earth..we hate dramas, we want freedom and we love to b in control of our lives...

oh my GIBBS,i have seen a soulmate,oh! you are the type of woman i have been looking for which made me to remain single at the age of 38 till yet no no no i can't miss this opportunity anymore,just add me on wassap 08108273529.thank God i have seen my alpha and omega,now being happy like King Solomon.idongtit.

seggzz:
.....Continuation

(2) Aging/Beauty: The rate at which single ladies declined in beauty or age is exponentially increases as their population. The show of beauty is not parallel with going unclad and displaying parts. Female are like flowers and they fade as they grow older. Is it menopause? Is it make up or bleaching cream? They will all fade and make your skin/face look horror when you grow older. So much to talk about in this area but I will leave it like that for another day.

de major reason why they fade is because they have swimmed in many rivers from river niger to river benue from river benue to bar beach thinking that it won't reflect during ur old age see ladies in the building if u would respect urself till marriage all this fades won't be for u even if u could not marry on time u will still be young like youngy,if u're opening ur leg to two three men calling urself the girl ontop of the world don't smile for tym is coming for ur feed back bks what goes around comes around even though u could not hold urself don't spread ur leg outside like a tasty traveller.

Chartey:
Any woman who has marriage as a "dream" is a non-achiever. That's the smallest of dreams. I feel sad seeing ladies with huge potential settle for just marriage and a job that will give them time for their homes.
As for childbearing, a woman doesn't need a husband as much as a man needs a wife.
Please let's take some of the unnecessary pressure of the shoulders of our women so they can fly as high as possible.

no!no!!no!!! i don't agree.the bible says if a man could endure it let him remain single but if he could not,go and marry, a woman needs a man in her her life but it cannot be made a priority just as you said.I think we men have many ribs only one being removed so why can't we be single.

KashyBaby:
Wooooaaahhh....why feel pity to those women who remain single at d age of 25 & up? As long they r happy and contented with their lives...
We, women who remains singles r the most strongest ppol on earth..we hate dramas, we want freedom and we love to b in control of our lives...

You are wrong.

Or are you...

BOBBYLET:
no!no!!no!!! i don't agree.the bible says if a man could endure it let him remain single but if he could not,go and marry, a woman needs a man in her her life but it cannot be made a priority just as you said.I think we men have many ribs only one being removed so why can't we be single.

The moment I saw "the bible says", I knew you had thrown all rationality away. We can't be on the same page. Let's just end it.