Everybody talks about sex. The media
promotes it through adverts. Some
institution supports it as a means if
abstinence cannot be done through the
use of contraceptives.Sex now involves an
activity that can be carried out between
two or more persons.

In recent times,
discussions about sex usually raise an
eyebrow among the discussant. No one
would want to talk about his or her sexual
life in the public because the act is sacred
– private. Except for the morally loose
people who are not shy to discuss their
sex life, it is meant to be a sanctified act
between only two people who are legally
married as the Creator originally designed
it.

Is having sex a crime? Why am I told to
wait until
I get married? God has his answer to the
question and the devil also has his own
explanation. This would bring us to the
truths and lies about sex.

Lie #1: Rather than abstain you can
indulge, just be faithful to one partner
(Premarital Sex)

Truths: God has given each and every one
of us the willpower to do and not to do.
However, there is a provision of grace
upon you when you set your mind not to
indulge in sexual acts until marriage. Do
you know the harm it brings is more than
the pleasure derived? To a lady that
engages in premarital sex, first, it may
lead to unwanted pregnancy and if you
think you are smart, you go for abortion,
which is murder. Secondly, you may
become victim of sexual transmitted
diseases such as gonorrhea,
staphylococcus,syphilis and other
diseases; guys too are not spared. Guilt,
shame and emotional bondage will creep
into such life.

Immediately after the act,
the guy gets dissatisfied and starts
looking for another avenue to explore
making him to be looking for another bed
mate (fornication). Are there any gains in
premarital sex or abstinence? Count both
cost.

Lie #2: If you don’t want to practice
premarital sex, try masturbation or use
intimacy gadgets

Truths: Since the media are now
encouraging the use of intimacy gadgets, it has
become an eye opener for people as an
alternative to having sex. Those who
masturbates often become addicts the act
even when they are married. The females
excite themselves with candles, vibrators
and likewise the males with their fingers.
These, in the long run become a spirit to
battle with. They lose their loved ones as
a result of the act. Damage to their
sexual organs is inevitable.

The females
would have their womb damaged due to
incessant use of the toys. There is lack of
concentration as a result of the act in the
minds of the perpetrator. The judgment
of God is fierce upon on all LovePeddler
mongers (Heb. 13:4b).

Lie #3: Don’t think you are immortal;
everybody is doing it, even…

Truths: When all the nations and
languages of the earth, all bowed to the
idol of Nebuchadnezzar,the three Hebrew
boys; Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego
did not compromise their faith in God
(Dan. 3). In this generation, where it is
believed that everybody is having sex,
you can be among the millions who are
not defying their bodies. They still choose
to remain a chaste even when it is not
encouraged, an old fashioned or seem
impossible. The next sexually pure person
can be you. Believe you can do it and God
will give you the grace. It saves you from
emotional trauma, heart breaks and evil
soul ties. Do we still have people who
have not bowed to the world’s image of
premarital sex? Make yourself available.

Lie #4: It is better to watch sex films or
see explicit pictures (pornography) than
to practice sex

Truth: Well, it may have sounded true if
Christ had not told us that “Whosoever
looks on a woman to lust after her has
committed adultery with her already in
his heart” (Matt. 5:28). One thing about
what we feed our mind with is that they
tend to pollute and corrupt our entire
being. Watching sex films, would increase
one’s sexual urge to commit the act.

Nothing motivates a person to have sex
other than what he/she has programmed
into the mind relating to sex.

Pornographic materials usually get one’s
attention from focusing on productive
things. It ruins marriages and breaks
relationships. When you feed your mind
with obscene items; the heart is corrupt.

Lie #5: You cannot be satisfied with a
partner throughout your married life
(Extramarital affairs)

Truth: “Marriage is honourable in all, and
the bed undefiled, but LovePeddler mongers
and adulterers will God judge” (Heb.
13:4).

God will judge them because they
have polluted their marital beds and
altered His original plan for marriage
when He instituted it. However, the bible
told us that, “But godliness with
contentment is great gain” (1 Tim. 6:6).

There is nothing as good as deriving
happiness with a wife that you exchanged
marital vows with. When bundles of
promises are made, dozens of fantasies
are created and love is promised to be
kept. How disastrous would it be if all
these ends unfulfilled?

Extramarital affairs makes their children
to have divided upbringing, single
parenting and lack of parental care. They
become divorced, separated and their
homes become broken resulting from
infidelity, adultery and lack of trust.

Lie #6: Since you are told not to have
sex, kissing, petting, handling, romancing,
hugging, necking, smooching is not that
bad

Truth: “Flee also youth lusts” and “abstain
from all appearances of evil” (1 Tim. 2:22;
1 Thess. 5:22). All the aforementioned
acts would gravitate towards sexual
intercourse.

The devil is so smart that
when petting starts, before you know it,
kissing suffice, handling and smooching
comes into play not too long, and
however, romancing is not far from
committing the act.

There is no need to
start a race that you cannot finish, neither
is it good to embark on a journey that you
are not ready for.

Lies are distorted or altered truths which
lacks ingenuity. Many people have been
lied to, living their lives in falsehood. This
has daring consequences on their
marriages and relationship.

Do not allow
anybody to deceive you by joining the
band wagon of sexually loose people.

Chastity can still be achieved in this
corrupt world. Dare to be different.
Sexual purity has no effect on your life
and marriage.

It is a culture that is worth
embracing and can be achieved. Do not
believe these lies. Seek to know the
truth and the truth shall set you free from
the consequences of ignorance.

Protect your destiny.... protect your future

#Teamsaynotopremaritalsex#

Good write up, good advice. w od

But u've told us now... Y is it still 'untold'

Mmmn..Nice post. For some reason that i can't explain, this write-up excites me.

*quickly reaches under the bed for Vaseline 350g*

So you think all those girls who are living free with their bf do not know all these?

You didn't mention where sexual purity would guarantee money for recharge cards, fast food, hairstyle and clothes

ITbomb:
So you think all those girls who are living free with their bf do not know all these?

You didn't mention where sexual purity would guarantee money for recharge cards, fast food, hairstyle and clothes

so premarital sex will guarantee it??

D thing u fail to realize is dat we have a problem.. We know d problem we know d solution but d solution is not visible...

So I expected u to give us a beta solution to ur "untold" problems abt sex ....

@ op u write well, but 99/ of ppl here will annoy themselves with their stupid comments , when the know the truth. anybody that determine to abstain from sex can do that, it's just a determination. so try and keep your self till when you are legally married pls.
haters can comment what ever they like because I CARELESS.

Gud one op

#team....#

Mtchewwww! Nice one op

Joseph was seduced and he escaped. David saw seduction and he fell... Its easier said than done.

beatsbyj2g:
D thing u fail to realize is dat we have a problem.. We know d problem we know d solution but d solution is not visible...

So I expected u to give us a beta solution to ur "untold" problems abt sex ....

diamondinyang ( f ) has helped give the solution which is "Determination "

Uchesis:
Joseph was seduced and he escaped. David saw seduction and he fell... Its easier said than done.

That's where will power comes in....