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Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 4:49pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt: Guys don't wiggle My behind is not brighter than my future My irawo is ever before me shining 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 4:50pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Are u a bald man? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 4:51pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt: nope.. |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 4:53pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1: |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 4:56pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt: you think baldness is attractive? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 4:58pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Very attractive Am day dreaming already *I am weird in my own way jor* 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 5:00pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt: not weird.. just human I hope I don't get bald sha |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 5:03pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1: U hope? I sense u already getting there? Can I see a picture of ur head? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 5:04pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt: lol..... nope its just a prayer as you never know how life can turn out |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 5:07pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Nature U can't cheat that Jumping up and screaming Beau beau is going bald |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 5:08pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by mcdokwe(m): 5:59pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
egbedore:personally, I think it is more of a complex thing. Some single mothers allow society to define them and strip them of some self worth, so first they see themselves as "unmarriageable" even before they get a man. 2. They don't allow themselves go through the process of falling in love either because they are being to desperate or being too conscious. 3. Some men could get the thinking whatever was responsible for them not marrying the father of their child could be as a result of their own inadequacy which they might not be patient enough to ascertain themselves because they don't want to make mistakes. 4. Lastly is the erroneous belief that they are the most promiscuous 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by kaboninc(m): 9:22pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt: You mean this?
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Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by KanwuliaJara: 9:31pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Making marriage a priority IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!! |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 9:38pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by kaboninc(m): 9:42pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 9:43pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
kaboninc: I am jobless |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by kaboninc(m): 9:51pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 9:52pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
kaboninc: |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by cococandy(f): 2:27am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Because men don't like to deal with other men's kids. Tsk tsk 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 6:51am On Apr 15, 2015 |
I think Nigerian men are just hypocrites. I used to be friends with a man who hated abortion like hell. He would call abortionists murderers and claim they carry badluck wherever they go. Then his friend married a woman with an 8-yr old baby (victim of teenage pregnancy) and he was one of the people who made mockery of him and called him 'f00lish'. So I asked him, which is better, having and abortion or having a child outside wedluck. Cos the truth is that any woman who has engaged in pre-marital sex is exposed to pregnancy, even when you use contraceptive. Condoms have been known to fail in some situations. Some withdrawl methods have failed even morning after pills still fail. So this friend of mine, sleeps with women and probably have dodged a bullet or two in getting them pregnant, and yet think he has the right to judge single mothers and deride abortionsts We women, we NEVER catch a break with Nigerian men!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 7:08am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon: What is the wisdom in marrying a woman with an 8yo child? What makes that one a hypocrite for telling his friend the truth. Why marry a single mother when you can have your pick of a better demographic. I'm afraid, that guy was right. A new car has more value than second, third, or fourth hand. It's simple logic, really. 15 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 7:44am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Ur opinion dude Ur post irks hatred They don't need men like u Stick with ur single ladies Hian *I read some of ur previous posts I now get the picture Sorry I quoted u* 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt: I don't hate, sweety Just speaking da troof. I didn't tell you to go have babies outta wedlock. Truth is men who know their value know to avoid single mothers. The pansies though, they'd do anything to get some puscy. So, eventually, you get what you want, right? Good for you then. Ciao. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:55am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Timbuktou: So it's better to marry an abortionist than a single mother? Isn't that hypocrisy of the highest order? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:12am On Apr 15, 2015 |
jaybee3:Uhmmmm. Pls expantiate |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 10:13am On Apr 15, 2015 |
egbedore:Self explanatory 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:21am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Nursy:Extra liability you said! When does children become liabilities? They are blessings from God! |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:25am On Apr 15, 2015 |
jaybee3:Available single men are becoming scarce was your comment. Does that mean ladies can go for non-single men? That's what I need you to help explain? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Timbuktuo: 10:29am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon:By logic, any woman without children is an abortionist? Bros, which schools did you attend? They have failed to teach you comprehension and logic. Go get your money back. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 10:29am On Apr 15, 2015 |
egbedore:Why are you trying to confuse yourself Sir/Ma? The OP is concerned about getting married not necessarily having someone warm her bed. If an attached (unmarried) man makes himself available then why not? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:30am On Apr 15, 2015 |
mcdokwe:Whao! This just nailed it for me. The first point you mentioned is a major one. The self esteem has been eroded and there is little or no self believe. I know of one that she is practically being used to beg men. And if you meet her today,na so she go fall for you like pack of cards! |
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