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Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 10:40pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
XBLadez: Self consolation? Read in between the lines dear That's some happy woman there |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 10:41pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt: I don't However you can never consider a single mom without putting the child in context I have no issues with ex.. That's the truth |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 10:42pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Are you thinking of a second wife? True true |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by InvertedHammer: 10:48pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
egbedore:/ It depends on how the woman plays her ball. Some single ladies cannot even find a husband na im Fiberasima (abi wetin be her name) don get five under her belt. And she has kids! \ |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 10:51pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by masqot(m): 10:51pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Many things are involved here but the salient reason in this part of the world is the societal norm. Don't forget a woman was meant to be "deflowered" on wedding night. With this at the back of people's minds, the man would ponder the acceptability of his decision before going ahead. Other reasons are; responsibility and custody of the child, antecedent of the lady, the bond (love) that exists between the man and the woman e.t.c. However, a woman could weather the storm if she's resolute on what she want in a relationship. Desperation, anxiety and apprehension lead to making mistakes and setting wrong priorities. |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 10:53pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
pickabeau1: So what's with your child consideration Na you wan marry her? Just give your own lil input But you keep stressing it like you are thinking of bringing home another woman That your no Hmmmmmm |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by EddyWorld(m): 10:54pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
[quote author=Dyt post=32715045][/quote] Sounds somehow but it's the hard truth without mincing words... |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 10:55pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
EddyWorld: So how many gfs you got Don't lie? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 11:00pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt: I meant only few guys will not mind raising another man's child There is a chance the child will not even appreciate the sacrifice |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 11:03pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
pickabeau1: In your own case do you mind? A child is a child Whatever you nurture them with is what they grow up to know If its with love You get it Ib return And if its the other way Do you expect miracles? Even applies to your own children 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Timbuktou: u comparing women with car..are they properties ? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by 1stola: 11:08pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt:Dreamer Dey der dey deceive ursef See her mouth like u attract what u like U are a shît and you think you can attract flies... |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by 1stola: 11:10pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
cKaiser: |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 11:11pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt: Ok |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by EddyWorld(m): 11:17pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt: I mean I like what u said...it's the plain truth though hard to accept...u wanna know how many I have? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 11:17pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
1stola: Why you mad? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Mayflowa(m): 11:26pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt: You are right Dyt. This is the kind of attitude that get you a man. The issue here is complex-mixed. The problem lies with the single mums who had lost confidence in themselves and have devalued their self-worth. Once a man sense you are desperate whether you are single or single mum, the alter will be far o. Again, taking care of their children is a huge task. The lady may not be able to go out at odd times. She has to share her love between her child and new boyfriend and may not even have the time to groom herself as she should. It is really a complex issues. A man has to be understanding to wanna share his life with a single mum. |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by sidecheek(f): 11:55pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
MadCow1:like a little doggie¥ Most single mums are just filling the right scale¥ many of them have the esteem of a puppy that was peered from his litter while still very young¥ they only all talk and their delusions becomes their medicine¥ |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Bootylicious(f): 1:41am On Apr 16, 2015 |
And who says it's all single mothers that had issue out of wedlock? What abt single mothers as a result of divorce,infidelity from d side of d husband? Spouse death? How many ladies still keep unwanted pregnancies? Want to see single mothers as a result of wedlock go to KENYA.. egbedore: |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Stillfire: 2:05am On Apr 16, 2015 |
No rocket science here. There are just more desperate females who would take on a baby father. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by alvin000(m): 2:40am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Nursy:My name is Alvin, am 32yrs old, serving in Abeokuta city, single n searching of a good woman who we can understand each other thru an open communication and settle down with. Here is my phn number for further discussion to anyone who's interested wt my criteria. Tribe or language is not a barrier and she must be not less than 25yrs old. 07036814810 (text only) BBM pin 2B83614D. |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by iyknaz(m): 3:30am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Dyt:U sound like u'v been overused. How many children do u hav now outside wedlock? 10? No man will beg a lady with kids for marriage in this part of the world, except if the guy is handicapped, has a low self-esteem, blind, poor and needs the lady for financial support or just plain stupid. Y should I, with my money settle for an overused lady with a child or children when there are a lot of young, fresh and untouched ladies out thr. |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by adekool4luv: 3:47am On Apr 16, 2015 |
If u are a single mother wth kid not more than one and u are God fearing,dark or fair slim tall nt too tall beautiful atleast doing something for living call me for sincere relationship on 08110121039 or 07036045734 i live in minna pls sincere and decent woman nt anyhow pls. |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by 1stola: 4:33am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Dyt:At what or who? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:46am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Dyt:This topic catch you? how many you Don born? keep consoling yourself |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Ekun123: 5:55am On Apr 16, 2015 |
It simply depends on how far is your understading of life as regards talking about a union. The fact that a single lady has a child does not make her not to be a good spouse. How many single without child that are so worn out because of their past events and may not even be productive again without your knowledge? Some single without issues are so attached to their as if they were maaried before. So.what difference with a married one?Some ladies found themeselves singles by circumstance beyond them. Forexample, 24 yrs that got married and have a child and the husband died after three years due to accident. Is that her fault? Mindset, social acceptance, indecision, Unnecessary criteria for spouse selection and not being realistic are major part of the problems. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by NegeduGrace(f): 5:57am On Apr 16, 2015 |
cKaiser:who told u all dos single gals out dere re not guilty?dey re all mothers of dead children(abortion)..nna luk b4 u limp..ntn like after 1 oga,children re d most beautiful gifts from God..go marry make ur wife no born for u nau if u go happy u wey d call pson after 1 |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Timbuktuo: 6:43am On Apr 16, 2015 |
sconp: Abstinence is a good option then. Nobody is forced to have sexx are they? Ever heard of anybody who died from lack of sexx? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by creepsyme(f): 6:48am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Dyt:you are the best. I was actually wondering if the op is a part if this world, as a matter of fact men prefer single mothers these days cos its a comfort to them that the lady is fertile. |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Timbuktuo: 6:51am On Apr 16, 2015 |
iyknaz:May your days be long and fruitful. Sadly, those set of guys are on the increase. Any man who marries a single mother does not have value or does not understand his own value. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Timbuktuo: 6:54am On Apr 16, 2015 |
creepsyme: Abeg, don't bring lies here. So, men have left the relatively unspoiled and are searching foe women with children to marry? All liars will go to hell, I hope you know that. We're not talking about men with low sperm count here o, we're talking healthy virile men. Single mothers can make do with the biological dregs of society, we healthy ones wouldn't mind. |
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