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Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmaried Part 2 by dayodare49o: 7:09pm On Apr 15, 2015
23. Tom Boy: some ladies are born with guys features, they talk walk and dress like guys these ladies may not be able to attract potential husbands because it would be more or less of homo marriage.

24. Mode of Dressing: some ladies don't dress well, they dress to attract guys not potential husbands. Guys appreciate their shabby way of dressing but potential husbands don't instead they see you as loosed ladies.

25. Imprisonment: potential husbands, in many states are in prisons serving difference prison terms. If these potential husbands are not released some ladies may remain unmarried.

26. Unhealthy Competition: some ladies engage in unhealthy competition with potential husbands in their offices, churches, schools...they just want to prove that women can do better but they are doing it in a wrong ways they forget that men will always protect their pride.

27. Permanent Disability: some ladies have permanent disability which makes them to be rejected and not encouraged in the society these ladies may remain unmarried.

28. after One: these are set of ladies who have given birth to a child before they married, they made the mistakes when they were young and that scare away potential husbands many don't want to marry a mother.

29. The Raped: some ladies were raped when they were young and the memory remains until today. Some of them hate men so much that they never plan to have one. If these set of ladies are not psychologically treated they will remain trumitised and remain unmarried.

30. State of Health: some ladies' health scares away potential husbands. Some ladies with SS, HIV, Ebola...and related diseases. They would be stigmatised and not be able to attract potential husbands.

31. Hamafrodite: These are ladies who are born with male organs. They have bosom and if you look inside their pants you will see joysticks. These ladies may remain unmarried.

32. Male Death Rate: the rate at which potential husbands die shows that many ladies may remain unmarried. All the troubles around the country are caused by potential husbands and thousands of them had been reportedly killed.

33. Unequal Genda Population: female children are said to be more given birth to than male children with this there would be more ladies than potential husbands and this may lead to some ladies remain unmarried.

34. Time Spent Online: many ladies spend time meeting people they don't know online. They don't know that online characters are different to offline characters.They don't have time to meet offline potential husbands.


35. Professional Prostitutes: the ladies under this category don't even mind marriage any longer, because they lost hope finding one.

36. Nature of Job: some ladies work in a place that makes it hard to meet potential husbands. 5 am to 8 pm yet the company does not allow their employees to marry each other so such ladies may remain unmarried.

37. Parents' Strictness: some parents are so strict that their daughters are not allowed to mix with friends. They just want yo give their daughters good up bringing but they don't know that they are depriving them of potential husbands.

38. Incorporated marriage: some parents have married out their daughters for business purpose without the daughters knowing it. If Otedola has contracted to give his daughter out to Bisi's son (First Group Director) If the daughter says no when she grows up to understand, she may not be able to marry someone else because her parents may not support her choice.

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Part 2

11. Manner of Approach: some ladies don't have manner of approach they don't think before they talk, they only reason after they talk. They have used their mouths to scare away their potentials husbands.

12. Tribalistic and Racial Problems: Some ladies are not allowed to marry or be married because of differences in colours and in cultures. Their parents or their potential husbands' parents stand agaist them and all effort ends unfruitful.

13. Change of Location/Strange Land: Change of location sometimes makes some ladies to lose their potential husband maybe, the Lady or the potential husband travels abroad.

14. Daddy/Mummy's pet: Some ladies are their parents' pet, their parents are the ones chosen everything for them. School to go, cloth to wear, car to drive, friends to have and husbands to marry among others.

15. Being Secretive: some ladies are so secretive that potential husbands can not trust them, she wants to keep almost everything with herself so, a responsible guy will not want to be caught inescapable.

16. Past Records: some ladies are being hunted by their past and this will not allow a potential husband to be comfort around such ladies because they will not be cold non hot.

17. Indecisive: some ladies when the opportunity of potential husbands comes their ways, they are still on the middle of thinking of what next to do. Can I finish my education first? Can I get a good job first, maybe Tunji is also interested in me, before she knows what she was doing the potential husband has already gone.

18. Spiritual Bound: some ladies have been pledged to some gods and without fulfilling the spiritual pledge she will remain unmarried.

19. Family Challenge: some ladies spend all their lives helping their families. Training and educating her younger ones, providing financial support for her parents , she is so busy puting thing right for her parents not noticing that time is not by her side.

20. Out of Willingness: some ladies are beautiful, rich, responsible and men are ready to pay any amount for dowry but they choose to remain unmarried. Some of them are: Holy sisters, entertainers...

21. Professional career: some are busy pursuing their professional careers when they have to be in a place where they can be noticed by potential husbands.

22. Homosexuality: the rate at which homosexuality is growing around the world right now many ladies will not be able to attract potential husband.

Part 1 below
There are many factors why some ladies may remain unmarried, the factors are but not limited to:

1. Self-Acclaimed Beautification: Some of them are not as beautiful as they think. That makes them to draw all class of guys that may never come their ways.They remain in fantasy till all available guys marry all the younger ladies, husband don finish for ground.

2. Culture: Reduction in culture is what we call civilisation. The lower the culture the higher the civilisation. The ladies who are still strictly cultured and cultural may find it hard to marry because for example some cultures say you must remain virgin untill your wedding night but civilisation says if you don't let that guy sample you he may dump you. This makes some ladies to remain unmarried

3. Rate of Success : Some ladies start early in life. As at the time they are in their early 20s they achieve what only few guys achieve in their 40s, the ladies in this category may remain unmarried because potential husbands may think she is married, she engages in rough life to reach that height, some will say her taste would be too high to their means for these reasons and others the ladies may remain unmarried.

4 Religious Affiliate: Some are in religion where all protocols must be delligently followed. Who to marry, when to marry...are dictated by the religion authority. And many ladies who can not play out of the protocols may remain unmarried.

5. Economy Hardship: Potential husbands are unemployed. At mid 30s some don't have apartment of their own. Some live with parents, some with friends, some with family it won't be possible to marry in that situation and when they are ready their potential wivies might be too old for them they will then go for younger ones. some ladies may remain unmarried.

6. Level of Education: those ladies whose levels of education are too low might not be able to attract potential husbands. Because a lady's level of education might not if too low give a man a taste of what his planning for future. So some ladies in this category may remain unmarried.

7. Past Experience: Some guys have suffered in the hand of some girls and the experience remains fresh in their brains. Some guys will say, I don't want to marry, I am not ready...at the end by the time they will be ready the potential wives of yesterday would have been second-hand wives of today.

8. Time Spent in School: many ladies when their mates are getting married they are still schooling. By the time she is ready all the potential husbands must have married. So they may remain unmarried.

9. War: A country that is in war will have limited guys, the potential husbands would have been enlisted into military therefore, the remaining ones may not be enough to marry the ladies.

10. Over Populated Countries: These countries discourage marriages as a way to reduce population and therefore many ladies may remain unmarried.
Re: Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmaried Part 2 by qazeemj(m): 11:22am On Dec 15, 2019
Good one

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