.

This may not be what you want to hear, but you need to pay more attention to who loves you.

If you still can't fall in love with her, let her go.

That you love someone so much isn't a prerequisite to be loved back.

MzNelly:
This may not be what you want to hear, but you need to pay more attention to who loves you.

If you still can't fall in love with her, let her go.

That you love someone so much isn't a prerequisite to be loved back.

dats why I pay a great deal of attention to those who love me

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fowowe411:
i know many people on here can relate with this situation i am currently in. I am in love with a girl and we prolly going to date but the problem is there is his girl that we have been friends for a while now and she is so nice to me. Initially i thought she was so because of our closeness but i later got to know that there is is more to it and she confessed to a friend that she loves me. The problem is not that i don't like her but would have preferred us as best friends.
Though am not comparing them but this latter girl is more caring to me than the girl i love and she doesn't joke with me like the other but i just cant bring myself to like her like i love the other one. Some of my friends are telling me i will regret my action later on which i dont want to. I need mature advise as part of me is telling me to date her while my heart is telling to stick with the first girl!
NB:Mature opinions only!

And who says u can't date the two girls and choose one when u are ready for marriage.

compare!
contrast
sample them!

until u find a valid reason to choose the right one

Na u sabi

Contrary to what majority would say. Its better you choose who you love than to choose who loves you. If you choose the latter, you will abandon her when you see a better offer. Prevent a future heartbreak to that poor girl!

@op, am in a similar situation like yours. the thing is go for the one who loves you, because no matter what happens she would always strive to make you happy and at the end of the day, you will end up loving her beyond your imagination. But tread with caution, think with ur head not heart and solve d puzzle about the two ladies.

please don't play with the heart of the one who loves you, because she Is already in pain of not having your love like expected. I will end with this quote "He who loves more feels the pain of love, the other party knows nothing about the war that is going on".

Blackett:
A woman chooses her man. . . It's the law of nature.

Choose the girl that loves you.

thanks really appreciate...just that i dont want to live in denial.

marcnelly:
@op, am in a similar situation like yours. the thing is go for the one who loves you, because no matter what happens she would always strive to make you happy and at the end of the day, you will end up loving her beyond your imagination. But tread with caution, think with ur head not heart and solve d puzzle about the two ladies.

please don't play with the heart of the one who loves you, because she Is already in pain of not having your love like expected. I will end with this quote "He who loves more feels the pain of love, the other party knows nothing about the war that is going on".

you got it right.....really searching for a balance.

MzNelly:
This may not be what you want to hear, but you need to pay more attention to who loves you.

If you still can't fall in love with her, let her go.

That you love someone so much isn't a prerequisite to be loved back.

i got your point ,it is just a dificult decision to make for me because i know i may end up messing up both!

Just follow ur heart but if I were u I wld go for the one that shows more careing after all ' better be loved than to love' play wise

I don't like the kind of advise you're all giving. I will go with the one I love

Neither.

banjicom:


And who says u can't date the two girls and choose one when u are ready for marriage.

compare!
contrast
sample them!

until u find a valid reason to choose the right one

Wickedness in high places.