MzNelly:
Tell her to confess!!!

On the flip side, your friends could be pining for your breakup.....

So tell us OP, on a scale of 0-10, how 'hot' is she?

prettyjo:
then you are not ready for a reship.
leave her and allow someone who will accept her past life to date her.if you truly love her,that should not be a problem to you. #nobody is perfect#

kinglekan:


Ok, so I actually took time to read this even though you decided to ignore the use of paragraphs.

The part of your story am trying to understand is the part where you said, she has not allowed you have sex with her.

Well I honestly don't see how she would be promiscuous like you pointed out from the rumours you have been hearing and would deny you sex also.

I think you are not really in love with this lady, cos every point you have made so far including your initial break up wasn't based on the fact that she did something wrong or cheated on you, but rather based on RUMOURS.

You are the one with the problem and not your gf.

#MyOpinion

BluePearls:
Konga
Reminds me of my ex... choi, boys don see something . Dude save yourself the heartache and flee. I once thought my ex would change too, she did for a while though, but it's just who she is.

ivyy:
What's your real issue here
What people say or how it is between you two
Is there any correlation between what you've heard and who she really is
You should at least know if your girlfriend is shady cause obviously you'd see signs. Go with your guts, head n heart.

mrjojo:
I really appreciate ur contribution. Sorry about the absence of paragraphs, I was typing so fast.
My early break up with her wasn't just based on "rumours". Had to do with her not taking the relationship serious and all and before we came back together, we both promised mistake we made wouldn't repeat itself and it been a nice one for dis 2months.
But you got to understand my predicament. People telling me this stuffs has got absolutely nothing to gain from it, they are just looking out for me.. Am cool with whatever she has done, so I thought. But things I keep hearing, omg!! Dey are just scary

mrjojo:
tanks for ur time, Trust me I accepted her past,.Even after she told me she had an.al with a guy.i did, I have my past too, so I don't judge. And that was y I asked about it.and she claimed she told me all.Reason I even asked was cos I don't want anything anyone say to be new to me.. But you got to understand, when everyone is looking at your girlfriend as a wh.ore.and new things keeps turning up as d day goes by.

Lala247:
Why are you listening to what ppl are saying .. No one in that relationship with u .. I understand it can get frustrating sometimes but hunni .. Ur a man if you love her n she not done nothing wrong to hell with them .. Do not break up with her just cuz of here say ppl also got an opinion on other dont mean its valid..

prettyjo:
you should be worried and ashamed only when she still sleeps around.does she love you and do you love her?if yes ,then concentrate on your reship.Those gossips will be tired of gossiping when they see how strong you both are

justified19:
ur last sentence is unbelievable, she wouldnt let u F even wit all d past she told u and all d rumors? one chance broda

mrjojo:
Am serious o bros, Am no that keen on s.ex though but am really going to be shattered if i find out all the rumors are fact, (she getting from various source), but how do I find out?