Good day House,

I kind of need advice now. sometime ago my girlfriend just decided that we should go on a break and I kept asking her why and she kept on saying that she wants to sort herself out, I was like what is really going on she was adamant. I kept on suspecting something was off, and I asked her if she was seeing someone else and was still the same no show.
I did my investigation and I discovered that there was another guy she has been close to even to the fact that they talk everyday morning, afternoon and even late at night. I confronted her and she got angry saying that she is not committed to me and that she owes me no explanation I was now like so you are definitely dating him and she was still keeping mum about it. I now told her that It would make it easier for me to move on if she just tell me the truth about what is going on. Guys please your advice

It's clear.

In 2 words, Leave her.

Guy free the babe and go on with your life!
#life is too sweet to be worried about one lapalapa girl!

@tradelyn why can't she be straight up about it and tell me she is seeing the guy instead of avoiding it.

yes she is nt commited to u so leave her n search 4 a commited girl.

obynzo:
@tradelyn why can't she be straight up about it and tell me she is seeing the guy instead of avoiding it.

Please just focus on doing great things in life; sooner or later, they will be killing themselves to be with you.

stubborn guys

the truth is opened to you already















use your head and move on

The tell tale signs of the girl not being commited must have been there long before she suggested that u people should take a break.You were probably too in love with her to see them.Then she told u categorically that she isnt commited to you.In fairness to her she has been a bit civil in her approach.Some other ladies would keep torturing u emotionally and carting away materials things from you.Let her be...let her go..Move on without looking back bro.I know its hard.Loving some one is the hardest thing to do in this fleeting life of ours.At least u can beat ur chest that u have been courageous enough to love.You dont need her to admit that she was cheating on you emotionally(or physically)before u mover on.If u insist u will only give her a hold over u.You need to develop the ability to seal-heal and move on.You need to dust urself up and look for someone who will reciprocate what u feel for them.
All the best as u move on bro.....Peace

Finally, go initiate the break-up officially before she does. It seems hard, but I think it's better you do it first.

You'll notice that I did not ask you any question. I choose to since I feel it's not relevant at this stage.

Common guys, you shouldn't belittle yourself before ladies naa.

thanks vanlucious why I even decided to tell you guys was she started becoming unnecessarily mean to me even her siblings started acting the same way

alberto2k:




Well done... Husband and wife of spacebooking

that's how we roll

obynzo:
thanks vanlucious why I even decided to tell you guys was she started becoming unnecessarily mean to me even her siblings started acting the same way

guilty conscience is the reason why they acting that way....move on bro though its not easy,you will make it without her.





I was in your shoe,but I survived,you too can.

Give her a long break