Charliiee:
honestly, there's no sense in what u wrote

are u the doctoror the girlatleast she got the gist so wetin kwosign you(in abok*i*s voice)

Vikky014:
are u the doctoror the girlatleast she got the gist so wetin kwosign you(in abok*i*s voice)

still no sense...

Charliiee:
still no sense...

lol dis is how dey strt...

Vikky014:
hahahahahahahahahaha. wicked

lolz..

Vikky014:
lol dis is how dey strt...

lol

Okay

Thank u everyone...may we all find true happiness.

@ OP:

Honestly, forget what everyone stated here regarding giving it time, concentrate on yourself, get busy, hobbies etc.

Truly, a relationship of that number of years won't wear off easy, it could take a year or more. A lot of bond and memories have been created and they won't wear off anytime soon.

Emotions/love is addictive, once your heart gets into it for the first time, you'll continuously need/crave it and it takes a length of exploration before you eventually get it together and become selective of whom you unguard your heart to and how to keep your heart out of relationship.

The only cure for hurt is to find emotional succor with any person you probably always liked or had feelings for (or think you could grow feelings for in the long run). All you need is just to be distracted emotionally and you'll heal fast - you'll even forget you were hurt but a part of you will always keep the memory of what was good.

Get someone to become emotionally attached to for a short period, a touch of what seems like a new love/bond is all you need now, no matter how small. You are feeling heart broken because you feel rejected, unwanted and unloved, you need to feel the opposite of all of these and you'll be better.

Cheers.

[quote author=9jacrip post=32981421]thank u..i appreciate.

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

just get under another man asap!

pwettyaura:
your comment is making me cry...thank u and thanks to everyone.

had you broke someone's heart before?

qbd2:
Get a job.

'Get a job'... wait one second, re we in America where one can easily pick up any job or we re in Nigeria where reality hits so hard

I'm tempted to ask?

Hey err

andromida:




This is one of the reason a woman must keep her options open until she has her desired kind of commitment from the kind of man she enjoys. I advise you start dating any man that asks you out even when you are feeling sad and bad you need to get out there and shake off the heaviness. Dating i mean not sexing. Please have some fun, so little time.

its so true that women can't just stay on their own,they really need men to survive.

You can't totally forget a former lover.

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

...move on to which life??..mars?..u cheat on him then u ask us for marriage addvise....are u light skin?

starlingbawa:


'Get a job'... wait one second, re we in America where one can easily pick up any job or we re in Nigeria where reality hits so hard

I'm tempted to ask?

Then get urself busy with anything meaningful

[quote author=rokiatu post=32960858] Well I am now over him but hes still not over me.[quote]I can tell when I see a liar

qbd2:

Then get urself busy with anything meaningful

Oh that!

On the contrary I get very busy doing a great offshore job for SHELL Oil and Gas.

I guess you re the one who needs to get 'Meaningfully Busy'.

Cheers...

Youngpo413:
its so true that women can't just stay on their own,they really need men to survive.

Ha! this old talk.

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

Come ride wit me.
We will have so much fun U will 4get dat nigga

andromida:


Ha! this old talk.

lol,its new to me.

rokiatu:
To be very honest with you some exs are very hard to get over especially if the relationship was so good and the person treated you so well doing the relationship. I know so cause I have been in similar scenario. Well I am now over him but hes still not over me. I am gonna be very honest with you and tell you how i got over mine.


1 Take it one step at a time, you don't to pretend like you don't miss them because if you do so, you wouldn't move on at all. All you have to do is, keep it to yourself and battle it within your heart. You don't have to let it show that you miss him but allow your heart to miss him, the time will pass trust me

2 Do not contact him. Please don't. Just don't do this. No matter how much you miss him please don't. and even if he does don't respond.
With time he will begin to fade from your life.


3 Concentrate on yourself, improve yourself, and don't rush into any relationship. The time may be slow but surely you will get over him. and beside you just broke up. its just been two months. This is the reminiscing phrase. Things will get better trust me.


Moving on from someone you love and deeply cared about takes time.

It takes 3 years.

Kolade354:
Why Did you Break-up with Him?

Bros! 1 billion gbosa for you!. People go just dey give advice any how without even knowing what happened.

pwettyaura:
Its been 2 months my ex broke up with me...despite d fact dat truout our 5yrs relationship, i was faithful and supportive to him..thru gud and bad times...but i avnt gotten over him yet...whenever m alone, i tink about him even wen am wit friends, i still imagine dat his call will come in soon...am trying to get over him but all effort is proving abortive...pls how can i get over him permanently so i can be happy and move on wit my life?

Romans 5 vs 8 - For God demonstrate His own love towards us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 John 4 vs 19 - we love Jesus because He loves us first and also in john 10 -greater love had no man than this that He lay His life down for His friend. . think of this. The Lord Jesus Christ came down from His rich throne in heaven and died for your sake and said i will never leave you nor forsake you cos He cares for you. On the other hand, your useless and worthless boyfriend cant afford to pay a ransom for your soul cos if you die, God forbid o, he will move ahead with the next girl. Think about this and come to Christ and surrender to Him. Then your ex will be history. Trust me. this is what i did to my ex and today she has long been forgotten by my memory