wat can one do to get over a heartbreak when u have no friends, u dont know how to make friends or like being on ur own, u r not attractive or beautiful enough, ur ex is doing much better and more successful than you are, u have no job, just by urself. how can. pls

Love yourself honey. Tell yourself you are beautiful because you ARE beautiful. You are worth only the best. Believe it and it will come to pass. The scars on your body are insignificant. Someone will love you despite them and kiss your apprehnsion about them away. Heal the scars on your heart dear and love will follow. But believe me, you hold the key to your happiness. If you believe it, you will have it!

~ Give it time, and make a couple few friends ~ U'l nid 'em ~

Babe, cut yourself some slack and move on with you life. Everyone has a downtime and We are not happy as we think . . .but that should not weigh us down.

Poor girl. Its no big deal 2be alone but u've b alone if u wanna overtake others. Sit n plan ur life. To get ahead others u' ve to plan without others lol

Learn to love yourself! Try to make friends and remember that if one guy was attracted to you enough to date you, some other guys will be attracted a well. Try to build confidence in yourself. So what if your ex is more successful than you? Not a big deal, just be the best of what you are. All the best.

CalienteMi, cuddleme, dyt to the rescue!

Learning how to deal with heartbreak is not a skill we are born with. Here are some quick tips to help you get started.
Get Out of the House
The worst thing you can do at this point is to stay inside and reminisce over your old relationship. You need to interact with your friends and family no matter how hard it might be. Don't avoid situations because you think your ex will come up in the conversation. The more socializing you can do, the more you will occupy your mind with other things.
Treat Yourself
Dealing with heartbreak can zap your energy and dampen your spirits, so a little self-pity is allowed. Treat yourself to something you have been holding back on. Don't go on a rabid shopping spree; just find that special item that will bring a smile to your face.
Don't Punish Yourself
Too many people torture themselves after a break up by listening to sad songs or browsing through old pictures. You should give yourself only one day for pain and suffering. Use this time to get all of the tears and moping out of your system
Set New Goals
This is the most important step in getting over your heartbreak. You need to visualize the future and where you want to be one year from now. It is best to stay away from relationship goals and instead focus on your personal aspirations.
Understanding how to deal with heartbreak is the first step in overcoming it. It is true that time heals all wounds, but only for those who want to be healed. Give yourself a short time to be sad, but then motivate yourself to control your life! You are the same wonderful person that you were before the break up, and your life will flourish again once you perceiver through this trying time.

Culled & Edited!

Pele