By TOYIN IDOWU


I feel compelled to use this column this week and address the women on some vital and sensitive issues that have been bothering me lately. In as much as I have come to identify the roles of women as being vital and complicated, I equally need them to understand that there is a part of them that really need to come up to be able to have a robust nature.

Why is it so difficult to get through to women and help them in some instances which are mostly salient, sensitive and destructive? Have you realized that most times, you have always been the vulnerable ones when issues happen and your issues come so strong with attitudes that are not welcoming from men? But must you join hands with the men to completely run you down till you become what you were not originally created for?
We all know you are carved-out to submit to the men in your lives of which you are under obligation to do if you must enjoy your marriage. However, that submission has a boundary and if you ask me, I will tell you that it must be balanced! For example, you were never created to submit to and harbor a pedophile of a husband; your creator never sees your submission in the light of defending and excusing a sexually promiscuous husband who chases anything in skirt including your daughters (step daughters most times) and your blood sisters. The last time I checked, your creator never informed you that your obedience to your husband is absolute to the point that if he is making you a mini porn star, or a punching bag, it is still very much okay to keep mute and cover him up!

Pardon me, this write-up is not a wholistic view of what women are not doing right but an objective assessment and caution on realizing who they are and what they are not in life so I may not really be able to meet your expectation as to what a natural African man would want...

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