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Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On May 03, 2015 |
What is this one saying? Majority of Igbo men respect their wives. Bark ko. Chinom: 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by MrPENN: 6:00pm On May 03, 2015 |
courtesy demands dat, nt mandatory at op |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by hermesprogidy(m): 6:18pm On May 03, 2015 |
does she thank you after fucking her? does she thank you for being a good husband/ father? my point is your wife has no right to demand for such. it should come voluntarily or is she a bad cook? |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by hermesprogidy(m): 6:29pm On May 03, 2015 |
Adufetohposh:Amen!!!! and amen!!!! to that prayer. You only know the true side of women if you stop making an income. Women are like fire. Good servants, terrible masters. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by JoeCutie(m): 7:01pm On May 03, 2015 |
braine:You may have gathered enough likes and shares which you so desire, but I'm sorry to burst your bubble this way. It's NOT mandatory to greet your wife after meal. Let's get something straight here... Courtesy demands that you greet whoever is on the table with you after each meal including your wife; but then it should be reciprocal. There are things we do without making stories out of them. Okay, if you should (or must) greet your wife because she cooked, what about you that provided the food cooked? Oh, you don't think the man deserves even more greetings from the wife? I know why... Because it's his "duty" to provide for the family, right? Bullshit! I've heard that before. Don't you think it's also the "duty" of the wife to cook? My brother, it's one of the primary duties of a wife to give food to her husband in so far as the man provides the money. Whatever happened to the very simple, courteous, lovely and romantic gesture, "thank you, honey" from the both parties? These are simple romantic things a married couple should do without making a case out of it. They are called "the little things that matter". Slave or no slave, the wife has the responsibility of cooking for her husband and children. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by PastorOla1: 7:04pm On May 03, 2015 |
YES, I DO IT EVERYDAY. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by evea: 7:13pm On May 03, 2015 |
bankai2015: it shows u don't study or mk research. I have done a lot of research on it as a Doctor and please think +ve. women faces hazard in health and body. OK, give it a try 10times and b in the kitchen and let ur wife don't say thanks. come back and tell us how you feel. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by golddeejay(m): 7:15pm On May 03, 2015 |
Saying thank u is good. But saying it everytime she serves u makes it a ritual. It will even lose it meaning. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Vision4God: 7:19pm On May 03, 2015 |
Dera25: I grew up in a family where we thank each oda 4 every little thing u do. To God b d glory, my spouse also grew up in such home. Appreciation is sumtn we xhibit most atymes unconsciously. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by OCHOdee(f): 7:27pm On May 03, 2015 |
Wedon: You just spoke my mind. What's the big deal? I also thank the people that serve my food outside. So, I ask again, what's the big deal |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Starieangel(f): 7:29pm On May 03, 2015 |
It shudnt b a demand.....my husband naturally says thank you....I feel it shudnt b a force....bt husbands shud try saying it.....aPpreciation goes a long way ooo......seems little bt it means a lot to us...well I no carry am for head lyk gala seller sha!entitled to my opinion sha! 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by noholdsbarred(m): 8:00pm On May 03, 2015 |
Does she also thank you for providing the money for the food? It's nice to say 'thank you' to her after a meal and since she's insisting, she also has to say 'thank you' for playing your part providing for the food. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by ewizard1: 8:17pm On May 03, 2015 |
When some people dashes out "Thank yous" because someone accepted their Facebook friend request... Na to tell your own wife go come hard? Abeg talk that thing jooor... 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by tunde1200(m): 9:05pm On May 03, 2015 |
little thank you goes along way and lets appreciates each other every day. but my own i do use to say thank you but not every time to my wife. and if you go to bed with your wife does she say thanks to you too?. there is nothing hard in cooking you to learn how to cook. my mum thought me how to cook very well no woman fit do shakara for me in that area. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by ElDeeVee(m): 10:08pm On May 03, 2015 |
braine:Trash....wat happens 2 d exorbitant dowry? |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Bluffly: 12:01am On May 04, 2015 |
braine:Do not make an unnessary case for the guy. Does she also thank him for everything he does for her. Is he a slave. Must we always create some unnecessary scenarios just to make someone look pitied? Does she thank him always for changing the bulbs. Putting the car in good condition, seeing to other hardware repairs at home... I begi, so if he does not say thank you makes the wife a slave. Rubbish. In as much as its a courtesy, some wife will even tell you, why thanking me when I am fullfilling my part of the deal. If not for condition wet make fish bend, all this yeye yarnings no go dey show face. In fact I dey vex, you sabi the thing man dey do for bed take safisfy him woman? Dem they say thank you. We be slave? Nonsense |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Bluffly: 12:11am On May 04, 2015 |
Starieangel:Wifes should also try saying it for everything the husband does. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Bluffly: 12:12am On May 04, 2015 |
evea:Are they the only one exposing themselves to hazard. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by empress4u: 6:07am On May 04, 2015 |
Dera25: |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by rabimlomo: 6:39am On May 04, 2015 |
JoeCutie: I think men apply double standard most of the time. If the woman is the breadwinner of the family and doesn't do all the house chores, including cooking, it is these same you that will claim she is proud untop of her money. I by no means support this wife attitude of demanding to be thanked. I think it is weird actually. However, I do not believe it is the absolute right of the wife to cook and do other house chores. If she does however, she "should" be appreciated. And yes, I think it is highly essential for both parties to appreciate each others effort, irrespective of who is the breadwinner. We live in a patriarchal society. Men are too full of themselves. I mean, I can't imaging some people even suggesting that marital intimacy is a favour the men do for their wives . I hope things change soon. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by JoeCutie(m): 7:01am On May 04, 2015 |
rabimlomo:So... Have you said anything different from what I said? I was very loud and clear with my point: the man should appreciate his wife as much as the wife appreciates him. It's no big deal at all. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by rabimlomo: 7:14am On May 04, 2015 |
JoeCutie: I said I agreed with most things you said except that part of it being the responsibility of the wife to cook. Peace. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by kingmassa(m): 7:20am On May 04, 2015 |
I suggest u learn to always say thank you. It must not be after meal if u remember it when the food is served or while eating jus say baby thank you for the food. If u wait till after eating something may make u forget either a phone call or TV channels or appointment etc |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by paix(m): 9:51am On May 04, 2015 |
If she thanks me for providing for the food, I will thank her for cooking the food. There was a time I jokingly told my wife not say 'welcome ' but say 'thank you ' when I return from work and she just laughed. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by bukatyne(f): 11:41am On May 04, 2015 |
JoeCutie: It is also a husband's 'responsibility' to provide food money... I am sure the husband will be happy If the wife never says thank you after he gives her... it is his responsibility right? It is a child's responsibility to care of the parents when they are older... I am sure the child will feel so good if the parents do not acknowledge their care... it is their responsibility, not so? |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by bukatyne(f): 11:43am On May 04, 2015 |
ewizard1: My hands in the air Tell people thank you for accepting me Tell people thank you for sending me requests. It is on NL I heard it is wrong |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Starieangel(f): 12:03pm On May 04, 2015 |
Bluffly:of course dats normal......well for me sha! |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Nobody: 12:17pm On May 04, 2015 |
Medinat20: Since you are comfortable with kneeling down to greet him morning, afternoon and night just try not to forget again. I wonder what he will come up with when he pays your bride price I just hope your bride price is not a hefty sum because Hmmm you may have to lie down when he is passing by once your bride price is paid. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by ewizard1: 12:27pm On May 04, 2015 |
bukatyne:Ha, But you're a Lady. Ones who do it most are Men to Ladies. |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by bukatyne(f): 12:31pm On May 04, 2015 |
ewizard1: Is it only ladies that should be courteous? I do it to males and females |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Bluffly: 1:08pm On May 04, 2015 |
Starieangel: You and I know it that most wives don't. You may be, but a larger proportion don't. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by wildflower22(f): 2:55pm On May 04, 2015 |
babyosisi: my guy says thank you after the kpekus. |
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