Healthy relationships are amazing. Dysfunctional
ones are hell.

Which one are you in?

Here are 14 signs that you’re not in a relationship,
but a relationshit

1. You wish you could check each other’s phones.

If ever there was a sign that you’re in a relationshit,
this is it — trust isn’t negotiable.

2. You’re not actively trying to make each other happy.
If you’re not trying to make each other happy, you’re not going to be happy together. It’s that simple.

3. You don’t communicate productively.
Issues are going to arise but that’s not a big deal as long as you talk through them. If you can’t discuss things with
each other without losing your tempers or getting defensive, nothing will ever get resolved. And that sucks.

4. You’re not physically or verbally affectionate with each other.
Saying nice things to each other
and being touchy-feely with each other engenders warmth, trust and builds connection. A relationship without that is, well, a relation shit.

5. You bring out the worst in each other.
If being with each other makes you crazy, insecure, or enraged more often than it makes you feel happy, secure and satisfied, it’s time to bounce, boo.


6. You needle each other.
Taking little jabs at each other because you find each other irritating is one of the first signs that the end is near. That kind of passive aggression is slow and subtle —
.
8.You’re jealous of other relationships
If you’re looking at other people’s relationships, wishing you had what they have, then at least you know what you want — a healthy relationship. Don’t keep settling for crumbs. Go after what you know you deserve.

9.You’re not driven to do things together.
People who like each other want to spend time together and share new experiences together. Enough said.

10. Your friends are sick of hearing you complain.
They know it’s over. They’re just waiting for you to muster the strength to move on.

11. So, you lie about how much you fight. We get it
– you’re embarrassed by how dysfunctional it is. But
lying about it doesn’t make it functional.

12. There’s no momentum.

You should feel like you’re both moving towards something — commitment, or engagement, or marriage or just
towards an increasingly better life together — as your connection gets stronger. If your relationship isn’t going anywhere, you’re just killing time and that’s lame.

13. It’s all about the sex.
Sex is awesome but a healthy relationship is built around a lot more than that. If you both connect only through sex and not through conversation about each other’s lives or
spending together doing nonsexual things (like dinner, socializing with friends, being active, etc),
you’re missing out on a lot of good stuff.

14. Or there’s no sex.
And Like i said, sex is awesome.
You should be having some.


Feel free to add more !!

Have a great weekend!

you are in a relationshit if there is know emotional feelings

Lol @ relationshit

All of it YES!

DuchessLily:
Lol @ relationshit

Nice points op.

Mr OP

Are you in a relationpiss or relationcanoe??

All shit should be flush in the toilet.

marshalcarter:
Mr OP

Are you in a relationpiss or relationcanoe??

none,

Ya shittin me den

missclasssy:
Nice points op.

Lol! Nice heading!

we all are in a relationshit,but if you can,it's possible to turn it to relationship,if you cannot,then you are in a relationshit forever,and you will always think,,,,,

have u not just succeeded in describing 98% of the traits of the lives of married people @op?

@Op,answer d question

ronald4lif:
With this it's safe to say that a lot of relationship are relationpoo then. It's not easy to see a relationship that is devoid of atleast one of the highlighted points.

A lot of people are skeptical about showing too much care attitude towards their partner as they may take them for granted and think without them they can't move on. This can also be the case when one always want to communicate with their partner, it can be misconstrued for possessiveness and clingy.

What then is the way forward of relationship? It seems relationship just complicate many people's life more than it should compliment it.

Yea, you are right man, It's not easy to see a relationship that is devoid of atleast one of the highlighted points. But when more of those points are surfacing in a relationship like constantly and its coming from both sides involved in it, then its shit.

Every relationship has disagreements and days when staying isn't the easiest choice. But what makes a relationship healthy is choosing to resolve
those problems and push through the hard days, instead of just letting issues and resentment fester.

am in a relationshit

Janet101:
@Op,answer d question

none

prettyjo:
am in a relationshit

better yhu step out of shiits o

prettyjo:
am in a relationshit

Ndo. God will provide u d best

am in love with my babey......

prettyjo:
am in a relationshit

pele

hehehe

none

mirexxx:
hehehe

Oya talk

Dotwillis1:

Oya talk

Ayam currently single tho my ex wants me back I dey middle

luckily i'm in none

mirexxx:
Ayam currently single tho my ex wants me back
I dey middle

ehya he wants yhu back, nd he shouldn't have let yhu go in the first place

Dotwillis1:
ehya he wants yhu back, nd he shouldn't have let yhu go in the first place

lol don't mind him