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Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 03, 2015 |
[b]Ever met an amazing guy only to realize a few days later he’s a little on the weird side? Or even worse, he’s a full-out psycho in a normal man’s body? It happens to the best of us. Read on to find out which types of guys to avoid at all costs. Types of guys to avoid #1 The Stalker He plays it cool at first, but develops an obsession within days and is soon calling, texting and e-mailing you several times a day; he always wants to know where you are, what you are doing and who you’re with, and tends to call over and over again if you don’t answer the first time. The remedy: Tell him you’re not ready for anything serious and like to keep your time (and your freedom!) to yourself. If he doesn’t get the hint, ignore his calls and cut off all communication. Types of guys to avoid #2 The Liar His stories never add up, his facts are always off, and his personality seems too good to be true? It probably is. Men like this like to get attention by making up grandiose tales to tell their friends and using white lies to cover up any little indiscretion. They know they’re liars, and they don’t care; either they think it’s okay, or they figure they’ve gotten this far without being honest, why start now? The remedy: Tell him the truth; you feel like you never know if he’s lying or not, and that guessing games are not your thing. Types of guys to avoid #3 The Raging Alcoholic You’re scared to go for drinks with him because he can never stop after one or two; he usually doesn’t remember what happened the night before; every time you hang out, alcohol is involved in some capacity. After a few drinks, he’s ready to fight anyone that walks by him. The remedy: Tell him you’re worried about him and his partying ways, and see if he wants to spend some quiet nights at home or go on some daytime dates. If not, quit. Types of guys to avoid #4 The Insulter This guy probably got a lot of attention in high school by treating girls badly, and he thinks he’s still got game. He’s constantly putting you, his friends, and everyone else who happens to be within earshot down. This makes him feel big and powerful. The remedy: Tell him you’re not just any girl and that you deserve better. It’s time to move on! Types of guys to avoid #5 The Sports Fanatic He’s always watching the game, whether it’s hockey, football, soccer, or baseball; boy’s night is every night because there are constantly men, beer and sports TV at his house; he belongs to 23 different pools; his idea of a date is going to the corner pub and watching the game. A friend narrated to me how her ordeal. She and her boyfriend were making out then Chelsea football came on live. The guy just stop in the middle of the action to watch the match. When then inquired of him what the problem was and he replied his football is more important to him. Well that's the height. The remedy: Tell him there’s more to life for you than sports, and that you need to get out there and experience it; if he wants to join you, he’ll have to turn that TV off for a while or else quit. Types of guys to avoid #6 The Pretty Boy He spends more time in front of the mirror than you do, and we’re not talking minutes, we’re talking hours. He looks at his reflection in every store window you walk by, and excuses himself several times to go check his hair. This guy is high-maintenance; you find yourself sitting on the couch waiting for him to get ready. That could be a gay signal.. We will discuss more on that. The remedy: Tell him he spends way too much time on his looks and not enough focusing on what’s important – like you. Types of guys to avoid #7 The Party Animal A well-known cousin of the raging alcoholic, the party animal is always looking for the next bash to crash. He always knows about every party, and makes an appearance at all of them – no matter what. Even at 5 a.m. when you want to get him into bed, he’s on the prowl for a wild time. The remedy: See if he’s down for some quiet time. If that’s not on his agenda, pencil yourself out. Types of guys to avoid #8 The Playboy This guy always has a different girl in his passenger seat, and they’re all his “cousins”; he’s always texting and his phone rings off the hook; he knows how to charm the pants off of anyone; he doesn’t always answer his phone, and makes up silly excuses when he doesn’t. The remedy: If you really like him, beat him at his own game; start seeing other guys and hanging out with your guy friends and see how he feels. If he keeps it up, say goodbye. Types of guys to avoid #9 The Sex Friend The sex fiend has a one-track mind. All he thinks about is sex, how to get it, and how to relate everything to it; he’s constantly making inappropriate comments, no matter who’s around; he always makes stupid jokes about sex; his friends even call him “horndawg”. The remedy: Try to find out what his other interests are. If he has none, tell him to go find it elsewhere. Types of guys to avoid #10 The Woman Beater This is the worst out of the rest in my own opinion. When he's discussing and mentions a girl that offended him, he will say stuffs like "if I had known I would have beat her up" "if I slap her with one hand she will faint " or says stuffs like " I will slap you" and even actually slaps or/ and beats you. After he feels so terrible sorry and very very apologetic. The remedy Girlfriends you not just quit, take to your heels and run away. But if he has really hit you but you but makes comments about hitting ladies you should tell him he needs to see a counsellor, if he resist well, then call a quit. Types of guys to avoid #11 The Rapist Yes, I said so rapist. I have encountered several of them. On the first outing they kissing you forcefully. They don't care whether you are actually carried away by emotions they assume you should. Forcefully still want to kiss you. The remedy Don't succumb to that, no. Talk to him there and then that you don't like that. If he trys it a second time please just take a U turn. (As for there's no 2nd outing). It will shock you married women get constantly raped by their husbands and they can't say anything about it. Be wise when its not too late.[/b] |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by sinaj(f): 9:49pm On May 03, 2015 |
Av rily had encounter wid 'em stalkers, nd it wasn't fun at aaaall! de can evn mistake ya brother or cousin for ya secret lover in d nme of jealousy |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by Ufranklin92(m): 9:52pm On May 03, 2015 |
sinaj: maybach music or something |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by jamex93(m): 9:53pm On May 03, 2015 |
treat a gal like queen n she will misbehave treat ha like trash n she will come begging that's how to get a gal |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by marshalcarter: 9:54pm On May 03, 2015 |
And wat kinda gals should we boiz avoid |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by DanceVille: 10:40pm On May 03, 2015 |
Lol! @op..."2015 version? What of 2016?"...Really anticipated for that.. |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by Nobody: 10:53pm On May 03, 2015 |
[b]Type of women men avoid. if you find your character traits listed under one of these types of women, then you might want to think about making some changes. Types of women men avoid #1 The Complainer This is the woman who manages to find something wrong with any and everything, and is never happy with the way things are. She can’t appreciate anything because she’s so busy looking for what’s wrong all the time. She is not necessarily a miserable person; she simply makes an art of finding what’s wrong with everything. Needless to say, men tire quickly of this type of woman and begin to avoid her at any and all costs. Types of women men avoid #2 The Man-hater When will women learn that they should stop judging every man based on what a few have done? It seems that all men are being forced to pay the price for what a few rotten apples have done. The Man-hater has nothing good to say about her father, brother, uncle, exes, or any other man she has come into contact with over her lifetime and thus opts to come up with creative ways to blast men simply for existing. Men find it incredibly insulting having to sit through a conversation in which a woman decides that she should give them a rundown of why they are such terrible human beings. Types of women men avoid #3 The LovePeddler/Flirt If you’ve slept with an entire football team before the age of 22, it’s probably best not to offer up that information to guys. Even if he says it doesn’t bother him at all, no man wants to go down on a girl who’s a hot dog stand. I’m not suggesting you lie, but don’t brag about it, either. For many men, it’s a matter of self- respect and there’s a good chance that if you’ve gotten down on your knees for 100s of men, you don’t have any (self-respect, that is, not knees). Types of women men avoid #4 The Ditz There was a time when men found ditzy chicks charming, but those days are over and guys find women with good heads on their shoulders more impressive. If you use the word “like” after every third word in a sentence of you think that Obama is a soccer player, then you might want to build up your general knowledge repertoire. Types of women men avoid #5 The TMI-er The Too Much Information gal, or “TMI-er” as I like to call her, sounds something like this: “I met up with a friend who’s married to this guy. The guy is cute; he has gray hair and already has two kids whose names are Ada and Nnamdi. Is it Nnamdi? I’m sure it is… anyway, yeah, they live up asokoro in this beautiful house and they could see the mountain from where they live, unless it’s cloudy…” Not only is that a story with no real point, but it contains waaaaay too much information and guys simply don’t care for stories like the one above. If you’re a tedious conversationalist, there’s a good chance he won’t want to spend his life listening to you talk. Types of women men avoid #6 The Nazi Have you ever been in the presence of someone who had to have everything placed in a specific way, had to have things done at a specific time, and if God forbid they weren’t, they would lose their minds? Now imagine spending your life with this person. No one wants to be around someone who always has to have things their way so if you believe yourself to be anal-retentive, you might want to work on that if your goal is to one day marry. That, or pray that you meet a man who is incredibly passive. Types of women men avoid #7 The Clinger Everyone needs time away from their loved ones. No matter how much you love someone, they will get on your nerves if you spend every moment with them. Men simply cannot be expected to want to spend all their time with you. And if you get upset every time he wants to hang out with his friends or do something without you, then you’re likely going to find yourself by yourself, so get a grip. You can add yours....[/b] |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by Nobody: 11:33pm On May 03, 2015 |
marshalcarter: update posted |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by Mhizkel(f): 11:43pm On May 03, 2015 |
Interestin...Tho i didn't read all! 1 Like |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by Nobody: 6:14am On May 04, 2015 |
watin for front pagep |
Re: Type Of Men/women that both male/female don't want to date(2015 Version) by Nobody: 6:57am On May 04, 2015 |
sinaj:SHORO NIYEN |
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