1. You're familiar. No need to impress you, no need to
figure out what you like, no need to wonder if you'll freak out
when he tells you his weird fantasy. The same is true for you
— being with a familiar warm body is appealing — but it
won't help you get over him and it won't help you make a
new dating life for yourself.
2. You're available. Unless he's a master pick-up artist, it's
not that easy to find someone to have sex with so if he's
looking for a quick lay and you're available, he might take it.
Protect yourself. Don't go out for drinks with him, don't let
him stop by to drop off that sweater you left at his house and
don't answer 2 his am call.
3. He wants closure. "Just one last time, then I'll be over
you." Ever heard that excuse? It won't work. Sex will only
bring you closer; it's rare that sex will make you realize that
you weren't meant for each other or will give you the feeling
that "it's over." Because it's not actually over if you're having
sex. Because uh .... you're having sex. It's not over.
4. He wants to win you back. Sex conjures all sorts of
powerful feelings, and it's impossible to be immune to them.
Even hugging, let alone naked full body groping, produces the
bonding hormone oxytocin, which can make you feel loving
and cuddly towards someone you don’t want in your life
anymore. And that's his plan. The only way to make sure
you're not fooled by your body is to stay away from ex sex.
5. He wants a friend with benefits. Ah the old friends-with-
benefits conundrum. Here's the truth: You can't have a casual
sexual relationship with your ex and sex is the least casual of
all relationships. There are very few benefits a lot more
drawbacks: It'll hold you back from entering a new
relationship; it might even prevent you from dating people,
because you'll still feel like you have a boyfriend, but not the
one you want.
6. He misses you. Aww, that's sweet. But not a good reason
to have sex. Missing someone is normal — it's part of the
grieving and recovery process — and if you have sex, both of
you will have to start that process all over again.

Food for thought!!!

All guys are just talking about sex sex sex all the time, Al-quran say that you can only have sex with your married ones not your fiance or girl friend

Who so ever have sex with a girl that he is not married to, Allah said that the both of them are commiting sin. Where by there is a dicipline for that

Very true. These are the tactics I use on my exes and they work 89 percent of the time