adonbilivit:
my girlfriend just told me she self services!I am thinking of dumping her. she can't stay without me for a week. she is not even ashamed to say it. to think I almost proposed to her drives me crazy. is she still a wife material in your opinion?

adonbilivit:
my girlfriend just told me she self services!I am thinking of dumping her. she can't stay without me for a week. she is not even ashamed to say it. to think I almost proposed to her drives me crazy. is she still a wife material in your opinion?

Lordave:
What if she told you she sleeps with me or anyone else around when you are away?





You can't do anything about that, you should even be happy she found a way of controlling her libido other than getting screwed by some random guys.


Part ways with her at your own peril!

ronald4lif:
What does a woman who masturbates has to do with being a good wife?. What has it got to do with character and virtue of a good woman?.

adonbilivit:
my girlfriend just told me she self services!I am thinking of dumping her. she can't stay without me for a week. she is not even ashamed to say it. to think I almost proposed to her drives me crazy. is she still a wife material in your opinion?

adonbilivit:
my girlfriend just told me she self services!I am thinking of dumping her. she can't stay without me for a week. she is not even ashamed to say it. to think I almost proposed to her drives me crazy. is she still a wife material in your opinion?

adonbilivit:

I am an African and as such, I can tell u a virtuous African woman would not engage in that. her being a wife material can be debated but being virtuous is ruled out. she can't be proud to announce that to the world. I feel ashamed right now. I must confess she loves me so much and the trust she has for me is outta this world

ronald4lif:


Nice one. First of all thanks for responding without reference to or citing of religion, that's my most vulnerable aspect of a rational discourse.

Through out history people all over the world have always explored their sexuality and masturbation has been a form of that experience. The desire for one to relieve stress via sexual pleasure, masturbating, has never been confined to a particular region or part of the world. Just like sex masturbation has been as old as the act of sex itself. That people started coming open about it, in Africa, doesn't mean it's new or un-African like you put it.

You may argue or have other reasons while you hate masturbation but saying its un-African I don't think would fly. Also, you may have valid reasons why you don't want or expect your wife-to-be to be masturbating and that it's equally fine, but I fail to see what it has to do with a virtuous woman.

I thought she told you? Her boyfriend and potential hubby. That's not telling it to the public if you ask me. She told her love. Just a quick question though; it's the act of masturbating un-African to just women or to the men as well.

adonbilivit:

no discrimination bro, its applicable to the fellas too. I appreciate ur effort, making out time to address something that's bothering a fellow nairalander. I just hope she changes. that's the only fault I have found so far. may she just keep confessing and stop concealing those information that are vital to me. personally, I detest masturbation. she can always visit me when its that bad

adonbilivit:
my girlfriend just told me she self services!I am thinking of dumping her. she can't stay without me for a week. she is not even ashamed to say it. to think I almost proposed to her drives me crazy. is she still a wife material in your opinion?

boombay:
I guesa man utd will win their next match