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Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by phatlytall(m): 11:45pm On May 11, 2015 |
Women |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by agoadiv(m): 11:46pm On May 11, 2015 |
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Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Davidson267(m): 11:46pm On May 11, 2015 |
suggyspic:i do nt blame nonso bt it is wrong for the lady to drop the wedding ring afterall nonso is nt responsible for her misfortune,she should accept her fate and move on with the marriage.everything happens for a reason. |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by ruffcoin99(m): 11:46pm On May 11, 2015 |
I think i know this movie, Emeke ike later died (Nonso) 4 Likes |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Iamoilprince(m): 11:47pm On May 11, 2015 |
This one is strong |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by mirabel001(f): 11:47pm On May 11, 2015 |
Dat's gud... |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Nobody: 11:50pm On May 11, 2015 |
Kruzilano:and you are the future? |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by tellwisdom: 11:50pm On May 11, 2015 |
If una don manage watch film from African magic, the next na to hit internet begin share the story. .. Nonso ko, okorocha ni |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by AskProf: 11:53pm On May 11, 2015 |
suggyspic: Meaning? |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by vislabraye(m): 11:53pm On May 11, 2015 |
Shes. A funny woman |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Nobody: 11:54pm On May 11, 2015 |
well , he committed adultery and broke their vows. nonso isn't under any spell and this is no conspiracy . he went out n cheated on his wife . after being raped , she trusted his man , her own husband to never hurt or betray her , but he did , u gotta understand dat has to hurt ! it always hurts more when someone u love betrays u . her infection n than hormonal imbalance are small reasons . she can still get pregnant , they just didn't visit a good Doc to advice them on the proper meds or even supplements to take ( many supplements can work to restore hormonal imbalance ) . 2 Likes |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Sunbellar: 11:56pm On May 11, 2015 |
cococandy:please give all of them an eknock on their head. 7 Likes |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Gofwane(m): 11:58pm On May 11, 2015 |
kaima1984:dang!!! Must you copy the whole story? #newbiealert 1 Like |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by pamcode(m): 11:58pm On May 11, 2015 |
My eyes are getting weary and am about to fall into a deep sleep.
Stories like this are better left for the gods. |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by weselomo(m): 12:00am On May 12, 2015 |
dunno what to say here..... |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Nobody: 12:03am On May 12, 2015 |
kaima1984: I choose silence 1 Like |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by kinibigdeal(m): 12:06am On May 12, 2015 |
bukatyne:
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Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by cococandy(f): 12:07am On May 12, 2015 |
Lanadelrey:@bold,Even the topic gives away the whole sentiment behind the thread. "Yea she was raped and someone married her. What else does she expect from life?" After how many years since the rape happened, it seems she's expected to live with it everyday. He cheats: pls lady don't get upset because he dared to marry your raped behind. I feel sorry for my fellow ladies. Truly 10 Likes |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by deebrain(m): 12:09am On May 12, 2015 |
I wish the diligence and endurance involved in child bearing can also be seen in sense in many women. Some women will just jump into a sea first before they realise they can't swim. I want to believe the trauma of the rape issue is still hunting her thus that reaction-like seriously, for anyone to let go a rape case, such a person can't be hurt by anybody. When it has gotten to a point when the man decides to prove a point about his fertility in marriage (in a case like this), it is totally not proper running out of the house. Heavens! You have a GOD, hello? Its a direct challenge at whatsoever you believe in. And you have a voice and knees. Use them! For men, please, Low sperm count does not mean you cannot produce. It simply means the probability is low. And mostly when evil is targeted at the marriage, it is when you "try it outside", it will now work. Be wise. 5 Likes |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by phorllarh: 12:12am On May 12, 2015 |
A test should be conducted as nonso might not be the father of the child, and the woman will be foolih to leave her home. |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Nobody: 12:13am On May 12, 2015 |
Men will always be men,forgive him and keep your home,take care of your reproductive health'so that your husband's babay mama would not have a free entrance into your matrimonial home. 1 Like |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by millerann: 12:18am On May 12, 2015 |
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Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by smartexx: 12:19am On May 12, 2015 |
hmmm!! this is really a delicate matter! but on the issue, maybe the wife needs some time off and think about it through because from where am reading the whole saga, seems to me they both have sacrificed a lot for each other, (marrying her and living with her in a same community where she probably posses a bad reputation) and (her living with him even though he hs a fertility problem) they should try to work things out n move coz bad things happens in life, mistakes are human nature #peace!!! |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Nobody: 12:20am On May 12, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:His moniker reflects that already |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Nobody: 12:50am On May 12, 2015 |
Shes confused! Very confused |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Nobody: 12:50am On May 12, 2015 |
she took an oath before God and man. God is faithful in His ways oh! she agreed to be there, 'for better or worse ' meanwhile, shame on the man!!it might have been a divine test. 1 Like |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by valdes00(m): 12:57am On May 12, 2015 |
kaima1984:and if I were you... I wnt quote d whole topic jus because I want 2 drop a comment 1 Like |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by poiu77: 12:59am On May 12, 2015 |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Nobody: 1:00am On May 12, 2015 |
Assuming i was in her shoes, i would do exactly the same thing. people react differently to situations. Some people can forgive a stranger over something but if their own ' person' should attempt the same 'error', it would hit them really hard because of the level of trust they built around such a person. To those questioning the woman's action, what would have been your response if it was the woman who actually slept with amother man after hearing that her husband had low sperm count? would you say he should quiclly forgive his wife who is carrying another man' s child ? Her husband should have been her support but instead, her stabbed her in the back and made a mockery of her. Forget about what the op said concerning the man's decision not to have anything to do with the lady and his child. How on earth did his baby mama get his sister's contact? let the woman take a break and look after herself properly before anything. She deserves to be happy. 9 Likes |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by Lawcurrent(m): 1:27am On May 12, 2015 |
Very bad and boring story, meanwhile “The attack on foreigners in South Africa (xenophobia) is a miasma of a deprecate apotheosis of a hemorrhaging Pluto crack, cascading oozing into a malodorous excresense of mobocracy. With all termagant ossifying proclivities of a kakistocracy, our knowledge centura is enveloped in a paraphlegic crinkum crankum. Therefore, the lampooning is cest in deja vu, deja vu peret ologomabia”. Thank you! |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:36am On May 12, 2015 |
suggyspic: We'd prefer the documentary. Nothing pass video my sister . |
Re: She Forgive Her Rapist But Cannot Forgive Her Husband. by lastpage: 1:45am On May 12, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Good Post.... but l have a few "issues" to raise. 1.) You said "that child" should not be brought into the house! Except "madam" permits, ......which is like asking Jesus to marry devil! Questions: *Was it the child's fault to be born by a married man called Nonso? NO. * Does that child not have a right, l mean 100% right to be in HIS FATHER"S HOUSE? YES! * Do we realize that just as Glory (wife) has a right in her husband's house, so does that Child has right in his Father's (Nonso) house? TRUE!! *Are we aware that the law has abolished the word "illegal / Bastard" Child? TRUE! A child, simply because he was born out of wedlock, is still no less than any other child born within wedlock! *Do you know that such Child does not need anyone's permission, to "be with" ...and to enjoy the "full care and presence" of his Father (Nonso)? TRUE *Should the Child be PUNISHED for the indiscretion of his father? NO *Is it right to suffer that innocent child, from that early age, for the transgression of an adult(s)? NOT RIGHT As for the Nonso and his wife, there are "moral" issues to be raised but they are just "moral" ....and not legal, therefore not binding! *Does Nonso not have a right to fuflil his marital desires of having children? *If one spouse is barren/infertile and incapable of having children, does that mean the other spouse MUST suffer the same fate, through no fault of theirs? *Since Nonso was able to withstand all the insults, pressures and shame of marrying an "ex-victim" in a community that views such with dishonor, do we not think Glory (wife) should have shown the same level of "solidarity" with Nonso, whe he also mis-step? *Should Glory not even be happy that finally, their lineage will not be "cut-off" permanently, as her husband now has a heir? But l guess like all women, pettiness, jealousy and spite would set-in once their initial problem is over, just ;like Sarah in the Bible made a U-turn about haggai her maid which she "recommended" to Abraham, when she was childless only to wickedly mock and thrash her once she had her own son! Women sha! What is good for the Geese, should be good enough for the Gander Finally, if l were Nonso, l will simply say good riddance to bad rubbish! I will legally divorce the Glory and marry the lady that bore thee child for me. That way, we would be able to give that Child (and probably other siblings of his that may come later), the deserved love of BOTH parents that they deserve. Glory can go and marry one of her rapist! Who be the loser? Wisdom is for the wise but the foolish one with its own hand, destroys her home. Lastpage! 5 Likes 1 Share |
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