There's this lady I told about my desire to have a relationship that would last for at most 5 years with but she doesn't seem to like the idea. I have a goal that I want to accomplish during the five years period and it's something I can't combine with marriage. She said long term relationship has so many demerits which she refused to share with me. I need help in identifying these demerits. Thanks

Adamsdelrio:
There's this lady I told about my desire to have a relationship that would last for at most 5 years with but she doesn't seem to like the idea. I have a goal that I want to accomplish during the five years period and it's something I can't combine with marriage. She said long term relationship has so many demerits which she refused to share with me. I need help in identifying these demerits. Thanks

how long is the distance?

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Op, a lot can happen in five years. You might fall out of love with her or she with you. Really, dating someone for five years is unfair when the future is filled with uncertainties.

I agree on the decision she took. Dating for that long with shady prospects is unfair.

spacefreak:
Op, a lot can happen in five years. You might fall out of love with her or she with you. Really, dating someone for five years is unfair when the future is filled with uncertainties.

I agree on the decision she took. Dating for that long with shady prospects is unfair.

This lady has everything I desire in a woman. I'm just scared of not meeting someone like her again. Is there anything I can do to convince her?

She will be banging another dude whenever she's extremely hornny

Adamsdelrio:
This lady has everything I desire in a woman. I'm just scared of not meeting someone like her again. Is there anything I can do to convince her?

I don't think so. You should understand that her biological clock is ticking. Also it is impossible to guarantee what happens in five years. You shouldn't be selfish.

I am sure you would get to meet another amazing woman when you are ready. Let her go. Move on.

spacefreak:


I don't think so. You should understand that her biological clock is ticking. Also it is impossible to guarantee what happens in five years. You shouldn't be selfish.

I am sure you would get to meet another amazing woman when you are ready. Let her go. Move on.

Hmmmm... Thanks bro

Trust issues spring out.

MsBliss:
That's the same soup I am in now.I intend breaking up with him until we meet again two Years from now when I am ready to get married but he will HV non of that and I also don't want to lose him because he is all I want in a man.long term relationship is something I don't like because when your heart is broken by that person,it breaks to the last bit.

So long term r/ship is not good at all? And if both of them have it in mind the future is secure and sure for them 2 get married, are you saying it won't work out?

Aromas:
are you saying it won't work out?

I never said so because d future is always unknown but love can do anything .

MsBliss:


I never said so because d future is always unknown but love can do anything .

Absolutely you're right. Have a blessed day!!

Aromas:
Absolutely you're right. Have a blessed day!!

Thankx dear you too

I don't know about you guys. But my Lady and I dated for 7years, were engaged for 1 and have been blissfully married for 4. So what are you talking about?