Why Do Guys Show A Girl So Much Attention When They Are Under Pressure To Get Married.


Why?
I met a guy who has been showering me with so much love and attention.
He seems so sensitive to my feelings.
In fact he called me this evening and I was sounding low, I requested for him to call me back, so he sent me a text message and even sent to my WhatsApp that what is wrong, he said if it is cash, I should send my account number that he will do online transfer, if it is him, he is sorry, if it is family, I should try and forgive.

Is he for real, he is an only son.
Will he likely change?
He seems genuine.
But I am just being careful here.

Please advise.

Give him a chance

if u like himm better go for him o..

i dunno why pple choose to be pessimistic and ruin their chances


some things are actually very real.. no dulling.. and even if it happens to be a facade.. enjoy d moment at least

One word:



PARANOIA!!!!!!


E don reach d stage where nothing we go fit do wey no go dey suspicious.


u seem aloof? den u're cheating.


u seem to be doing all the right things? u're a very smooth player.






wat do u want us to tell u eh?

dat u should not trust him?

The boaster um...I mean poster above me have said it all

Follow yur heart.

lexajen:
Why Do Guys Show A Girl So Much Attention When They Are Under Pressure To Get Married.


Why?
I met a guy who has been showering me with so much love and attention.
He seems so sensitive to my feelings.
In fact he called me this evening and I was sounding low, I requested for him to call me back, so he sent me a text message and even sent to my WhatsApp that what is wrong, he said if it is cash, I should send my account number that he will do online transfer, if it is him, he is sorry, if it is family, I should try and forgive.

Is he for real, he is an only son.
Will he likely change?
He seems genuine.
But I am just being careful here.

Please advise.

Is he Nigerian?

MrsChima:


Is he Nigerian?

you alws ask mumu question

Association of Nairaland romance section men will soon start attacking the babe.
Abeg return the gesture,respond to his love but shine ur eye.
Its normal for you to be watchful and careful but shine your eyes o

agarawu23:
you alws ask mumu question

Were you offended bish

Guess he sounds too perfect for you right? That's the thing ladies fail to get, a guy who genuinely has feelings for you will treat you like a queen but most of you guys see such guys as being too weak or too caring use him as a mugu, think he's only after getting inside your panties.....give the guy a chance that is if your mind is in it o

MrsChima:


Were you offended bish

ode

I guess you are confused because of your stereotypical judgement on guys that act nice within a period of time. You are afraid he might change in the future..which you are not certain. You sound like you don't deserve the love and care he gives you.

agarawu23:
ode

Ho.

@ op so u don't want him to change abi? I just de look u, hu kips campaigning afta winning an election?

U want him to be ur boy boy n work 4 u ba? Don't come here n shout "my boy friend mother/ mother in-law hates me" afta marriage o.

Yes Mrschima
He is a Nigerian.

I just feel that it is happening too fast.
He says he feels it deep within that I'm the one.
He uses endearing terms when we talk.
That discomforts me.

I don't want to lose a truly good person.

Although, I don't have feelings for him yet, but I know that with time, it can happen.
I am not writing him off.

Of all the guys around me.
He seems to respect and value me more.


sorry, please free feel to contribute.
Thank you.

U can't really test the depth of a river with one leg!
U have to give it a chance. If u are not comfortable, you quit.

Hope u are not loving the tins he do? Just love him,Cos the day he fails to do them, u might not love him again

xynerise:
I guess you are confused because of your stereotypical judgement on guys that act nice within a period of time. You are afraid he might change in the future..which you are not certain. You sound like you don't deserve the love and care he gives you.

There is nothing wrong with being careful and it is not like they has known each other for years.

hehehe

If it was the reverse, OP you would say his love is not enough to convince you, you would say his not showing enough concern. Is it a crime to be open and vulnerable to a woman? Nawa o.

Well just stabilize his so called "overloving" by ur agreeing cuz to be frank with you. It won't continue like that forever.

MrsChima:


There is nothing wrong with being careful and it is not like they has known each other for years.

Being careful is mutual. The guy should also be careful how he falls in love or he might end up falling out of love.

No one said she shouldn't be careful but what do you think she should do?

Ok

xynerise:

Being careful is mutual. The guy should also be careful how he falls in love or he might end up falling out of love.

No one said she shouldn't be careful but what do you think she should do?

She is to tell him to take it slow and being friends. She has no feeling for him to even start a relationship. She should not accept gifts from him and keep it platonic because it doesn't end well if she decides to move on.

how I wish I ve d guy"s Mobile no so dat I can caution him to stop all d tender loving and care..ladies don't like it....

Firstly, your heading is deceitful. It's totally different from what message you are passing across. You didn't say anywhere in your message that you are trying to get married or that the guy knows you want to get married. Men give ladies attention, whether they want to get married or not. Take a look at all the people on this section opening different threads for their love interests, are the women complaining of wanting to get married? No. But yet they get excessive attention from men. It's natural.

All i see there is a guy that may or may not love you, trying to please you excessively and make you knows he cares. The only wrong thing is, he's dumb, trying to take the blame for your damp mood even without knowing what's wrong with you; and most importantly, trying to involve cash as a way to make you happy without knowing the root of your unhappiness. If you are the gold digging type, this is the perfect guy to milk dry.

It's hard to understand women. Give them attention and love, even offer them cash, yet you are the bad guy. Some women are obnoxiously confused.

jrerico1:
Ok

We don't need a man.