MrsChima:


She is to tell him to take it slow and being friends. She has no feeling for him to even start a relationship. She should not accept gifts from him and keep it platonic because it doesn't end well if she decides to move on.

And when the guy gets the signal from the Friendzone siren, he takes a step backward and takes a U-turn. The same girl will say he lacks patience and comes back begging.

MrsChima:

We don't need a man.

Don't worry just 10yrs time.

xynerise:

And when the guy gets the signal from the Friendzone siren, he takes a step backward and takes a U-turn. The same girl will say he lacks patience and comes back begging.

Look at this...if you courting a girl and she is not digging you....you rather her to keep it up or tell you the truth?

MrsChima:


Look at this...if you courting a girl and she is not digging you....you rather her to keep it up or tell you the truth?

I don't need to be told the truth. I can sense the truth...not everybody can though.. If she doesn't love him then let her tell him. She can't because she wants him

xynerise:

I don't need to be told the truth. I can sense the truth...not everybody can though.. If she doesn't love him then let her tell him. She can't because she wants him

She wants him but there is no love from her.

MrsChima:


She wants him but there is no love from her.

How can you want what you don't like/love? Are you pondering what I am pondering?


She "wants" him, right?

xynerise:
I guess you are confused because of your stereotypical judgement on guys that act nice within a period of time. You are afraid he might change in the future..which you are not certain. You sound like you don't deserve the love and care he gives you.

My thoughts exactly

xynerise:

How can you want what you don't like/love? Are you pondering what I am pondering?


She "wants" him, right?

There are millions of relationships where the love is one sided. You can want someone for many reasons and not love them or be in love.

Many people form relationship because of what is beneficial for them regardless if the other person agree or not.

Smh for some guys on this thread.

If it was a guy dat created this thread,I'm very sure most of you won't hesitate to say the lady is pretending and will change after marriage.

But a girl created the thread and quick to attack her and call her judgemental and can't be pleased


Op, abeg shine your eyes wella.
SOME things are just too good to be true.
Trust me, I am not a pessimist.

Some married men are still in their homes because of their kids.

I have a lot of elderly married women around me that prays for their sons not to be like their fathers.

They must have passed through a lot in the hand of their men.

I know a man that always used all sort of weapon on his wife whenever they had any quarrel.

I'm sure the man wasn't like that from the onset.

That doesn't mean all women are saints.
There are many terribles ones that I cannot wish on any man.

So,one cannot be "too" careful.

I pray we don't miss it maritally

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Yo all niggaz and babes...don't get the OP wrong. She z asking if this guy who looks so real will stay so real to the end... Well my own piece goes thus... Give him a yes when he professes his love to u again, watch his reaction closely and sample his attitudes..judge for urself his behaviors trough the courtship period and U will definately see if he is gonn stay real to the end... Jst gv it a try! (y)

xynerise:

I don't need to be told the truth. I can sense the truth...not everybody can though.. If she doesn't love him then let her tell him. She can't because she wants him

The affection he z showin her is convincing her he is lovable... But she has doubt about this affection that it might fade away in future... She z just being careful and I don't tink there is a problem with that... Cos now aday, the wolves now uses the sheep's tactics!!!

One can NEVER be too careful when it comes to marriage issues... some girls will disagree but a bad marriage is worse than staying single. I mean, this is someone you want to wake up to everyday or at least, have children with.

Just take it slow, don't mind the guys on here, they can be very biased when it's in favor of the man . Get to know him before courtship sef. Only time will tell how genuine he is.

lexajen:
Why Do Guys Show A Girl So Much Attention When They Are Under Pressure To Get Married.


Why?
I met a guy who has been showering me with so much love and attention.
He seems so sensitive to my feelings.
In fact he called me this evening and I was sounding low, I requested for him to call me back, so he sent me a text message and even sent to my WhatsApp that what is wrong, he said if it is cash, I should send my account number that he will do online transfer, if it is him, he is sorry, if it is family, I should try and forgive.

Is he for real, he is an only son.
Will he likely change?
He seems genuine.
But I am just being careful here.

Please advise.

lexajen:
Why Do Guys Show A Girl So Much Attention When They Are Under Pressure To Get Married.


Why?
I met a guy who has been showering me with so much love and attention.
He seems so sensitive to my feelings.
In fact he called me this evening and I was sounding low, I requested for him to call me back, so he sent me a text message and even sent to my WhatsApp that what is wrong, he said if it is cash, I should send my account number that he will do online transfer, if it is him, he is sorry, if it is family, I should try and forgive.

Is he for real, he is an only son.
Will he likely change?
He seems genuine.
But I am just being careful here.

Please advise.

After he finishes fvcking U, all your questions will be answered while all your fears will be confirmed!