A friend of mine Jude (not his real name) is having sleepless nights about this problem and needs help.
He has a girlfriend and the parents of this girl knows he is following her and so uses the opportunity to beg him for items ranging from money to foodstuffs. He eventually got the girl pregnant and she delivered a girl.
The girls mum started complaining that Jude does not take of the baby, although Jude gives the girl money for the upkeep of the child which she does not relay to her mother.
The mother started going haywire and told Jude the child won't be given to him and he won't be allowed to marry the girl. Although they are in love. Jude's people came to settle the issue and the girls mum insulted them all so jude's dad warned him against marrying from that family.
Jude has been taken countless times to the police because of the girl. The girl sneaks to jude's house and not only seduces Jude but also collects money from Jude.
Jude is tired of all this, he wants another relationship but the girl threatens and stifles any relationship he has she knows this because they are next door neighbours.
Jude wants the child but not the girl. He just want to leave a normal life and not be stalked by this girl and her parents.
What's your candid advice to Jude

Jude is a pervert.

This sounds like nursery poem

you bleeped your neighbor until she became pregnant and you expect her family to respect you ?

now you are interested in the baby alone right?

questions for you.

1. did you made any agreement with the Lady u wanna make her your baby mama?

2. aren't you aware the kind of family the Lady has?

3. what is your future plan for your baby mama? or u need just the kid alone ,?

4. aren't they ladies far away from your vicinity you can date ?

Op first of all you are jude, so stop trying to sell us that "my friend nonsense" its stale.
Now to the problem at hand, Mr Jude i think you should be castrated, so after making her a mother, you where still sneaking around with her, knowing fully we you where not going to marry her?. You should first of all move away from that's neighborhood, how can you stay in the same place with your baby mama. Saying you want the baby and not the mama, is a bit unfair, do they deny you access to the baby or you just want to take the baby away from her mother ?
If they do the formal, then you should get the appropriate authorities involved in the matter, but if the later is the case, well you should be castrated like i said earlier.

Lesson: neva you Bleep ur neighbour into pregnancy!!

Your replies are epic and thanks for the advice. The first thing i told him to do was to first stop any sexual activity with her and reduce time spent with her then move out of the apartment (although he told me he just last month paid the year's rent) and then give talent 5k to the mum for the upkeep of the child. Hope this advice is ok and i will also need more advice

elope Wid his daughter

Let me book space before I read this post