~Sauron~:

The babe infected herself.
Staph can be found everywhere in restrooms. . . .From reusable towel roller to contaminated doorknobs.

True . . . . . . Staph isn't generally considered a sexually transmitted disease.
but the dude is still a male LovePeddler

Tope and Heatfusion, as you can see from the poster's story . . . . .

please use a condom before riding away on di/cks

chamotex:

Tope and Heatfusion, as you can see from the poster's story . . . . .

please use a condom before riding away on di/cks

Sharap dia
im still a fegin o

tope2000:

but the dude is still a male LovePeddler

See these men haters. . . .
The dude is a male LovePeddler based on what facts??
From what i read from the OP, he only gets his regular shags which isn't a cardinal sin in ma own opinion.
Come on. . . . .Romeo cannot disobey the laws of nature, abeg.

chamotex:

Tope and Heatfusion, as you can see from the poster's story . . . . .

please use a condom before riding away on di/cks

Thanks baby. . . .

~Sauron~:

See these men haters. . . .
The dude is a male LovePeddler based on what facts??
From what i read from the OP, he only gets his regular shags which isn't a cardinal sin in ma own opinion.
Come on. . . . .Romeo cannot disobey the laws of nature, abeg.

roll eyez
Judging from the OP's story, does that look like a relationship to you??
Abeg the dude is just using her 4 SEX. . . he only calls her when he wants sex
The earlier she realise she is been used- the better

tope2000:

roll eyez
Judging from the OP's story, does that look like a relationship to you??

The OP conveniently left the good sides of her dude.
What about the things he has bought in the past.
Just because he refused to show up on Valentine's day does not make him a monster. . . . .He ran outta credits.

Abeg the dude is just using her 4 SEX. . . he only calls her when he wants sex
The earlier she realise she is been used- the better

Using her for sex?? What is to say the OP doesn't enjoy those sessions??
Sour grapes.

~Sauron~:

The OP conveniently left the good sides of her dude.
What about the things he has bought in the past.
Just because he refused to show up on Valentine's day does not make him a monster. . . . .He ran outta credits.

How do u know he has bought things for her b4??
Are u the dude in question?
He ran outta of credit?? Sauron are u sure u are not the dude??

Using her for sex?? What is to say the OP doesn't enjoy those sessions??
Sour grapes.

Sex is different of SEX abeg, The OP is prolly those type of females that thinks she has to always satisfy her man else he will dump her

tope2000:

How do u know he has bought things for her b4??
Are u the dude in question?
He ran outta of credit?? Sauron are u sure u are not the dude??

Naija babes don't date losers, isn't it??

Sex is different of SEX abeg, The OP is prolly those type of females that thinks she has to always satisfy her man else he will dump her

Of course, you have to satisfy your man.
I woulda dumped you if you were the passive type.

~Sauron~:

Naija babes don't date losers, isn't it??

Naija men dont date ladies with liabilities, isnt it??

Of course, you have to satisfy your man.
I woulda dumped you if you were the passive type.

Even if he treats u as doormat or sex-mate??

tope2000:

Naija men dont date ladies with liabilities, isnt it??

Of course. . . . .who wants a liability.
Most Naija men are liabilities themselves. Liability must not mate with another liability.
That was what caused the credit crunch.

Even if he treats u as doormat or sex-mate??

U persevere.

~Sauron~:

Of course. . . . .who wants a liability.
Most Naija men are liabilities themselves. Liability must not mate with another liability.
That was what caused the credit crunch.

lol. . . . . thatz what caused credit crunch??

U persevere.

u know i dont backdown

@poster, you don't have staph. Go check that out again.

You tell him exactly that,you dont want to touch him

until he agrees to treatment . . .

Ever had an abcess? You may get one because this

is where this is heading.

If  this develops into MRSA,you both would be
in a dangerous situation. Tete lo toju ara e.

ummmmm  terrible!

tope2000:

lol. . . . . thatz what caused credit crunch??

According to finance experts.

u know i dont backdown

PRICELESS!!!

~Sauron~:

According to finance experts.

u lie??
source pls

PRICELESS!!!

i loff u too

fan_tassi:

please nairalanders, i need ur advice. Tears drop from my eye as i type this.I have been dating this guy for close to a year now.He calls me like once or twice in a week. I send him texts and he never  texts me back. he claims he is too busy with his job.  each time we re together he would want to have sex with me and prefers withdrawal instead of using condom. On val day he didnt call or text me until i texted him. the next day he came asking for sex, i resisted but later let go. two days later, i found myself urinating frequently with blood in my urine and pain while urinating. i went to have my urine tested and was diagnosed with staph aureus. he didnt call me until 4 days later but i ignored his calls. he called just twice and gave up. i have not told him what happened. To me i don't ever want to have anything to do with him, nor with any other man.

I spent close to 7k treating myself. is it that this guy has been keeping other girls? why is he treating me this way? how could he have contacted the infection? is it that he didn't know he had it before he gave it to me? what is the best thing for me to do? I ve been very faithful and loyal to him but he doesn't see appreciate it, I think he's just there to ruin my life. Will have myself tested for retroviral, pray he hasn't given me hiv. Please nairlanders, what do i do? 

This is Jerry Springer stuff

tope2000:

u lie??
source pls

When u come to bed.

i loff u too

Loff??

A-40:

This is Jerry Springer stuff

U can say that again!

I agree with some other posters.

Staph is not a STI/STD.  It sounds like you have a urinary tract infection, which could be caused by many things.  i.e. dehydration, not wiping properly, a dirty slong, having sex (especially if you are not well lubricated) which could cause bacteria to enter the urethra or having a sex marathon (a lot of sex in a short period of time).

IMO, there is no evidence you got this from your guy.  I am sure you are okay and I pray that your checkups will be well. Honestly, I feel for you and imo some nairaposters can be heartless a**holes. This is a serious issue and to throw comments like you have hiv, or he gave you aids just so they can post a comment is immature and stupid. Its obvious you are scared, you have some self esteem issues and you are being taken advantage of. So for someone to say death sentence things like that with no compassion is inhumane. I pray they don't find themselves in a similar situation because its obvious they think they are above being given a STD even though they are bleeping.

Honey, my advice to you is to admit to yourself that this guy is playing you for sex when its convenient for him.  I think this should serve as a warning to you to not let any man dictate when and if a condom is used when you have sex.  Take control of your body and ultimately your life.  If you feel as though you can not tell a guy no to having sex without a condom or you feel pressured to have sex without a condom, you are waaaayyyy too immature for a sexual relationship with any guy. If you choose to have sex without a condom it should be your choice not because someone claims they won't have sex with you without one.  Having sex without a condom doesn't show you are more or less in love or commited.  It just shows you are plain stupid & gullible.  Men don't think that because you have sex without a condom they are special and you are special to them.  They will take sex from you any way you want to give it or have it because if he ain't into you sex is just that, sex.  And when its just sex each person is responsible for themself and their sexual health.

Wake up!

One.

Your boyfriend gave u staphylococcus and u collected it?
Why?
Please return it fast before its too late!

the question i want to ask is "how many boyfriends do you have?
then i'll know what to say.

Ol' boy. . . . .

*Scratches head*

*helps in the scratching*

You will just catch disease if you keep helping people to scratch all over the place.

spikedcylinder:

You will just catch disease if you keep helping people to scratch all over the place.

are u saying u have some kinda disease, cos u are the one his helping.

lol

adusol:

are u saying u have some kinda disease, cos u are the one his helping.

Lol. Yes, and?

I like spiked's kind of disease

Aha!

Lol. Yes?, and you are strictly on your own o