Follow ur heart jare. What will be will definately be. Whatever happens later U'll be fine since its ur decision

I think you should talk to your doctor and let him assess her

Theree's really nothing wrong with marrying her

As a matter of fact, medically, you're the best she can get

You are free to marry eachother

my dear just follow ur heart, the Lord is ur strength

guy run for it while you can. the babe's gonna give you wahala in the future, then it'll be too late to ga back and undo your misery. tell her your travelling to somalia to start your life and she will free you i promise.

@poster,

If you really want an advice that is Godly and you can relate with(eye witness account), below is my e-mail add.


sspa69@yahoo.com

I will like to share my phone no with you so that we can discuss fully.(You can send your phone no to the address)

It is not really bad as you thought.

U have variable options

i Marry her and she will die soon
ii. Marry her & she die soon + your kid dieing soon
iii. Marry her but impregnate another woman 4 kids but note that she may still die soon
iv Get kids 4rm the motherless babies home and your wife to be still die soon

The options are urs.

Kini big deal?
If love don shak u, I no see why 2 of una no go fit marry. afterall aa fit marry ss, only say ur kids go be as which no even mean anytin. Abeg send my IV if e don set.

marriage is divine,u have to be sure she is the will of God for u especially if u are a christain.if she is,God will definitely keep her alive.ve heard cases of people who were SS and made it in life past the so called ''death years''.dont let ur love 4 her go blind,go back n ask God if she is 4 u.best of luck

Dude, whats she saying sef, if you are AA an you love her then you are probably her best option,imagine her paired up with an AS or SS that barely likes her, if its hurting your heart this much, then if the crises comes u'll probably be able to stand it, cheers man,

Beside Woman wahala too much sef,

Hmm i have a similar situation on my hands and i cannot tell you how sad i feel when i call my girl and she tells me "I just had a crisis" The greater problem is i am AS! So having a wife who is SS is one thing but having kids also is double wahala. Truth is count yourself lucky, it could be worse!

sley4life:

U have variable options

i Marry her and she will die soon
ii. Marry her & she die soon + your kid dieing soon
iii. Marry her but impregnate another woman 4 kids but note that she may still die soon
iv Get kids 4rm the motherless babies home and your wife to be still die soon

The options are urs.

why will his kids die soon?

Did the guy tell you he is AS?

He is prolly AA which means he has no probs with kids. He will have to grapple with the girls crisis.

Presently there are 2 drugs in the market that can delay crisis. Ciklavit and one drug like that. They are quite effective. So don yarn . . .

Thanks everybody for the advice.
@sley4lyfe, don't really like what u said, bt thanks for the advice anyway. I appreciate it. Pls still keep it coming, am curious to see what majority think

Poster, am sorry ooo but please explain to me what is AA, SS and AS? I really do not know. . . . .

well people iam not intrested in the story,life is so funny.if God say she is your wife.nothing anybody can do.well let me assure u of one thing please after one or two stop birth.iam also in ur shoes,and i brougth life into my woman.wen i met her she sick alot.but now God has remove that from our problems.my bizzzzz is nw going on fine and fine everyday.please be sincere with and u will see what God have 4 you.

Since you are dying inside, I guess you are better off marrying her. It is better to try than never to have tried. She might even outlive you. Abi you be God?

dude, y are u telling us.

Marry now, regret later.

Decisions like this are always so complex.
Don't see why not though

@poster, would u compromise ur happiness jus because she's SS.no way,no 1 is GOD.even d AA's can yamutu anytim.so broda,4get dis SS tin

Wat do u want quantity life or quality life?
would u xchange a day with som1 u love wit a thousand yrs wit some u dont?
i wouldn't. Live life dont live thro it.

but thats me tulking thro my heart n not my head n the affairs of d heart r foolish.
So dude do d foolish thing n marry her , then u can now live a quality life without regrets.

bros no try am cos if u do u will probably regret it in d future.

[i]well , u shd thank ur God that u hv fiund somwone that u can live wth n find true happiness even if it is 4 a short while , some live their whole life wth the wrong person n wish 4 just one day with the perfect person,
make urself happy n make her also , n u can't say , ss can turn to an AA,
r u not a believer

there is a purported new remedy for sickle cell anemia, its not a common drug, i actually read about it in the papers a few days ago. its nigeria made and herbal, cant remember where i saw that article now.

you are lucky that you are AA if u are AS , i would not advise you so bro go, the Lord is with you, they survive after a particular age, so count yourself among the fortunate ones.

My dear i pity ur situation but my advice is that u just obey ur heart though in this case is a party issue. Convince her that u'll always be there 4 her, let it be a true conviction. If u're a gud xtian, God is still our Balm of Gilead (Healer). His Healing is on the way. We in d house will be praying 4 U people. Is Well!!!!!!![/color]

My dear i pity ur situation but my advice is that u just obey ur heart though in this case is a party issue. Convince her that u'll always be there 4 her, let it be a true conviction. If u're a gud xtian, God is still our Balm of Gilead (Healer). His Healing is on the way. We in d house will be praying 4 U people. Is Well!!!!!!!

It is a pity my brother but if this story is true there is remedy in Jesus Christ, the bible says that with God all things are possible. Please brother could you take her down to The Lord Chosen Charismatic Church at Ijesha Surulere, Lagos that was were my friend went and his AS turned to AA because the girl He want to marry is AS too. Just believe God and have faith it shall be well with her, GOOD LUCK.

@ poster,

If u are financially bouyant enuf to handle her crisis period, and u truly love her and she wants to get married too, then go ahead but plz remember aint gonna be easy. U wil have a lot of sleepless nights too

Pls no carry am go anywhere o. Its not like she has a plague na. Its a natural thing due to our parents negligence.

improve in treatment and care  people who have sickle cell anemie are now living into their forties or ffifties or longer  ,
is your choice to make.