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15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating by Viktor1983(m): 9:13pm On Jun 14, 2015
1. Their relationship will not take up 100%
of their life, but they will put 100% into
their relationship. It’s important to
ambitious girls to have other priorities
and things going on outside of their
relationship. But that doesn’t mean they
won’t give it their all when it comes to
being happy with someone.

2. They’re not looking for a challenge, but
they are looking for someone to challenge
them. They’re not interested in the chase
or winning the game. But they’re
interested in being with someone who’s
going to challenge them to be better and
to grow every day.

3. Romance usually means something
different to ambitious girls. They love
dates and surprises just like the next
girl. But in their minds, the most
romantic thing in the world is being
with someone who they can truly relate
to, and someone who supports them in
everything that they do.

4. They’re not afraid to tell you when they
like you. If they think this thing has a
chance, they’re not going to sit back and
play coy and always wait for you to
make the first move. They’re going to be
straight-up with you, and you can do
with that what you want.

5. They don’t play games. There’s no “wait
two hours to text back” guidelines that
they believe they have to follow.
Ambitious girls do what they want when
they want, because they don’t have time
for arbitrary dating rules.

6. They’ll still have a lot of other things
going on besides you. They take dating
seriously. But they’re also passionate
about their careers and friends and
family and hobbies. When they’re
dating, ambitious girls are looking for
someone who’s not only going to
support that, but someone who’s going
to love them all the more for it.

7. They don’t hold it against you if you’re
not interested. They know what they
want, and if you’re not interested,
they’re just happy that you’re not
wasting any more of their time.
8. They’re not looking to be a trophy
wife. The idea of playing backseat to
their companion is nauseating to an
ambitious girl. They’re looking for
someone who is going to be their
partner, not their leader.

9. Ambitious girls know that being tough
and being emotional aren’t mutually
exclusive. Ambitious girls are strong,
confident, and intelligent. They know
how to handle themselves. But they’re
aware that that doesn’t mean they can’t
be vulnerable or emotional. One of the
reasons they feel comfortable dating is
because they know how to be tough
without feeling the need to apologize for
having emotions.

10. A good conversation in their eyes
doesn’t revolve around how much money
you make or how successful you are.
They’re more interested in hearing
what makes you tick, what inspires you,
what gets your blood flowing, and what
you’re passionate about.

11. They know that sometimes they have a
hard time opening up in the beginning.
They’re used to being in control, so
when they’re not, it’s a little
disorienting. But they enjoy the
challenge of trying to get better, so it’s
something they’re always keen to work
on.

12. They won’t ask you to choose between
them and your other priorities , because
they’re too busy having priorities of
their own.

13. Ambitious girls are attracted to people
who have goals and aspirations – people
who want more than an average
existence. They don’t need you to be the
CEO of a Fortune 500 or an insanely
successful entrepreneur. They just want
to know you care about something that
matters and are willing to work for it.

14. They’re not going to wait
forever. They’ll let you know, one way or
another, that they like you. They’re
never in a rush to jump into a
relationship, but they’re also practical
about where they are in their lives and
when it’s time to move on. If you like
them, do something about it.

15. They’re less worried about a fairytale
romance and more concerned with finding
someone who will simply make them
happy. They’re not preoccupied with a
huge diamond ring, an over-the-top
wedding, and a ridiculous love story
they can tell their friends.
They just
want to be with someone who will love them
for who they are, and never ask
them to stop following their dreams.


culled from :

thoughtcatalog.com/kim-quindlen/2015/03/15-things-ambitious-girls-do-a-little-bit-differently-when-theyre-dating/

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Re: 15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating by FavouredBee: 9:45pm On Jun 14, 2015
SOOOOOOOO ME..... grin
Re: 15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jun 14, 2015
Observing..
Re: 15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating by adiec23(m): 10:19pm On Jun 14, 2015
Wow this qualities are too cool wish I could find one with such
Re: 15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating by tr3y(m): 10:30pm On Jun 14, 2015
adiec23:
Wow this qualities are too cool wish I could find one with such

Someone said that 7 years ago and guess what?

HE IS STILL WISHING
Re: 15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jun 14, 2015
Viktor1983:
1. Their relationship will not take up 100%
of their life, but they will put 100% into
their relationship. It’s important to
ambitious girls to have other priorities
and things going on outside of their
relationship. But that doesn’t mean they
won’t give it their all when it comes to
being happy with someone.

2. They’re not looking for a challenge, but
they are looking for someone to challenge
them. They’re not interested in the chase
or winning the game. But they’re
interested in being with someone who’s
going to challenge them to be better and
to grow every day.

3. Romance usually means something
different to ambitious girls. They love
dates and surprises just like the next
girl. But in their minds, the most
romantic thing in the world is being
with someone who they can truly relate
to, and someone who supports them in
everything that they do.

4. They’re not afraid to tell you when they
like you. If they think this thing has a
chance, they’re not going to sit back and
play coy and always wait for you to
make the first move. They’re going to be
straight-up with you, and you can do
with that what you want.

5. They don’t play games. There’s no “wait
two hours to text back” guidelines that
they believe they have to follow.
Ambitious girls do what they want when
they want, because they don’t have time
for arbitrary dating rules.

6. They’ll still have a lot of other things
going on besides you. They take dating
seriously. But they’re also passionate
about their careers and friends and
family and hobbies. When they’re
dating, ambitious girls are looking for
someone who’s not only going to
support that, but someone who’s going
to love them all the more for it.

7. They don’t hold it against you if you’re
not interested. They know what they
want, and if you’re not interested,
they’re just happy that you’re not
wasting any more of their time.
8. They’re not looking to be a trophy
wife. The idea of playing backseat to
their companion is nauseating to an
ambitious girl. They’re looking for
someone who is going to be their
partner, not their leader.

9. Ambitious girls know that being tough
and being emotional aren’t mutually
exclusive. Ambitious girls are strong,
confident, and intelligent. They know
how to handle themselves. But they’re
aware that that doesn’t mean they can’t
be vulnerable or emotional. One of the
reasons they feel comfortable dating is
because they know how to be tough
without feeling the need to apologize for
having emotions.

10. A good conversation in their eyes
doesn’t revolve around how much money
you make or how successful you are.
They’re more interested in hearing
what makes you tick, what inspires you,
what gets your blood flowing, and what
you’re passionate about.

11. They know that sometimes they have a
hard time opening up in the beginning.
They’re used to being in control, so
when they’re not, it’s a little
disorienting. But they enjoy the
challenge of trying to get better, so it’s
something they’re always keen to work
on.

12. They won’t ask you to choose between
them and your other priorities , because
they’re too busy having priorities of
their own.

13. Ambitious girls are attracted to people
who have goals and aspirations – people
who want more than an average
existence. They don’t need you to be the
CEO of a Fortune 500 or an insanely
successful entrepreneur. They just want
to know you care about something that
matters and are willing to work for it.

14. They’re not going to wait
forever. They’ll let you know, one way or
another, that they like you. They’re
never in a rush to jump into a
relationship, but they’re also practical
about where they are in their lives and
when it’s time to move on. If you like
them, do something about it.

15. They’re less worried about a fairytale
romance and more concerned with finding
someone who will simply make them
happy. They’re not preoccupied with a
huge diamond ring, an over-the-top
wedding, and a ridiculous love story
they can tell their friends.
They just
want to be with someone who will love them
for who they are, and never ask
them to stop following their dreams.


culled from :

thoughtcatalog.com/kim-quindlen/2015/03/15-things-ambitious-girls-do-a-little-bit-differently-when-theyre-dating/


Nice
Just that such ladies are scarce
Not all these fakes and whathave you's we see today
Who have an ambition to make money by bleeding a working class guy.

The ones with tact and discipline are rare but guys goto them and mess them up too and so they have become even harder to find.

Relaxing
Re: 15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating by adiec23(m): 12:01am On Jun 16, 2015
tr3y:

Someone said that 7 years ago and guess what?
HE IS STILL WISHING
lol his search will end soon
Re: 15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating by hedva(f): 7:51pm On Jun 16, 2015
Wow, describes me in every way.

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