1. Many ladies will end up being single for life because
of the media exposure: It is so disheartening how a lady
will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to
night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch
another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what
else will dominate this lady’s mindset if it’s not how to
live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television
channels?

2. Many ladies of nowadays dislike cooking and doing
home chores: Just because they have been totally
brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role
of women in a family. Now, with this kind of attitude,
how do you expect a man to desire to marry you when he
knows pretty well that he is only buying more headache
and trouble rather than a helper for himself?

3. Modern fashion and craze for gadgets is a great
barrier to most ladies finding love and marriage: How do
we explain a single lady whose only desire in life is to
acquire the latest clothes in town, the latest mobile
phones and ipads to the detriment of her woman
worth? How can a single lady maintain this lifestyle for
long without bowing low to immoral lifestyle? How do
you expect a man from a responsible family background,
and who is in his right senses to propose marriage to a
lady whose utmost desire and concern in life is to
acquire costly electronic gadgets, clothes, jewellery,
perfume name them. Of course, majority of men would
like to date such a trendy lady for fun and show-off, but
wouldn’t want to propose marriage even if she is earning
the money by herself because her expensive lifestyle
already is a big turn off to most responsible serious-
minded single men. Only men that are out for fun will be
closely attracted to her, and her chances of getting a
marriage proposal from them is as slim as a camel
passing through the eye of a needle.

4. Excessive make-up turns most decent and serious-
minded men off: If you have observed, you will discover
that most men dislike excessive make-up, and more don’t
even like it at all. Excessive make-up makes you look like
an Egyptian Mummy. A slight make-up is okay, but if you
are out for marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-
minded men. Unless you are still living in your high
school life and not thinking towards marriage.

5.Cut Down Your Participation in social network sites: If
possible, limit your use of facebook and twitter accounts
because they may be doing you more harm than good,
but you wouldn’t know until you hit 35 years plus and
still single and searching. No man would want to marry a
lady who jumps from one social network site to another
because it is a clear sign of an unfaithful lady or about to
be unfaithful, yes, that’s how men view it. Who are you
to have a thousands of friends on facebook, same on
twitter, maybe on wassap, 2go, twoo, BBM, badoo,
eskimi, and you are not even a celebrity?

6. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry!
No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose
phone is always ringing. A girl who is always on phone
talking, chatting and laughing. You are out on a date
with a guy, but you keep on texting the whole date. Who
is she texting anyway? Same goes for you. Flip your
phone over or turn it off. It’s just disrespectful. Keep
away your phone You may not be a playgirl, but he
would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.

7. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You
Date or Are Dating: Because your best friend married
without contributing anything to the man that finally
married her doesn’t mean it will work for you that
way. Think and work towards equipping yourself so that
you can be of value and also add value to his life. The
kind of value that will convince him that you are worth
committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him
money or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his
best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending
him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just
being a liability that only bring requests and problems to
be solved.

8. Your Friends Run Your Life: How do you expect to find
a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to
be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love
and which one is not? When will you wake up and face
the fact that even though those best friends of yours
cherish you, most of them wouldn’t want you to get
married before them or you to get married to their best
man.

9. You Move Around In Groups: Often times, you miss
the advance of a good decent man when you move in
groups, be wise. Again, men don’t always fancy ladies
that move around in groups because most ladies can only
be reasonable enough when you separate them from
their group of friends.

10. You Give Everything Out During Dating: As a single
lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to
reserve some things for your husband to be, especially
your body, respect and preserve it at all cost. In the past,
men
rushed to marry so as to get certain things or privileges
they had been constantly denied while being single. Such
privileges include and not limited to: constant s3x and
companionship, good food and tidied home. But today, a
single man
gets even the best and of course more of constant s3x,
good food and excellent home-keeping more than his
married counterparts, so tell me, how the hell do you
expect him to get the desire of marrying you when you
have given him virtually everything he desires from a
wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part
of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut
down on s3x supply, cooking, home-keeping once he
marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his
girlfriend for life?

11. You Package Yourself Wrongly: In your attempt to
look s3xy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you
have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you
look more whorish than modest, more dis-tractive than
attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your
dressing style determines who gets attracted to you
most of the times. If you dress high school, only high
school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you
dress excessively s3xy and provocative, only randy men
will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their
immediate s3x urge.

12. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good
Home Upbringing: Definitely, you are a ‘hot girl’, a
‘pretty girl’, a ‘s3xy girl’. Looks will win you so many
men, both good and bad, but your inner beauty, your
character and manner are the greatest things that will
determine whether any of these men will stay or run
after accomplishing their evil missions.

13. You Are A Liability: In as much as we know that the
present economy of the world in general is harsh, men
and society in general careless about how you react to
this situation. Meaning? You are from a poor family
background, and you have no job or you are earning
below $500 a month but you want to wear designer
clothes, shoes, jewellery and perfume. You also want to
carry Prada and Gucci hand bags. Who is going to foot
the bills?
There are zillions of decent and honourable things you
can do as a single lady to at least meet your own
financial needs without slεεping around with men or
depending on one man to supply all your needs. Finally,
cut your skirt according to your length. You are from a
poor family, your parents earn below $500 a month, but
you want to look like Rihanna, wear the same clothes she
wears, you want to live a similar life Beyonce lives, and
you want to dine in the costliest hotels and restaurants,
and you are jobless or you are earning below $500 a
month. Now tell me sincerely, how is it possible to
achieve this foolish goal without patronizing immoral
lifestyle to meet the insatiable demands?

14. Your Role Models Are Totally Strange And Bad! If
you want to be a great woman tomorrow, start now to
emulate great women- study their foot paths, their
lifestyle, their ways of life and try to inculcate their
lifestyle into your bad habits- poor manner and laziness
in you. Stop looking up to music stars and fake celebrity
ladies as your only role model in life. Please wake up
before you end up single for life, for which I pray not.

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9. You Move Around In Groups: Often times, you miss
the advance of a good decent man when you move in
groups, be wise. Again, men don’t always fancy ladies
that move around in groups because most ladies can only
be reasonable enough when you separate them from
their group of friends.

Very true...

yeah most of your points makes sense, the smart ladies will surely get married.

icedbeatz:
yeah most of your points makes sense, the smart ladies will surely get married.

Being smart does not guarantee a husband....it takes grace and not one's smartness. God is the giver of any good gift and that includes a husband so chill

The fewer of them that get married, the more of them we can lay.

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Who are those getting married Saturday after Saturday? Evil spirits? Most of the points are just what no reasonable person should do,irrespective of gender. Some do it tho and still get married. It still depends on your partner

ammyluv2002:
There's nothing like being smart when it comes to getting married....it takes grace and not one's smartness. God is the giver of any good gift and that includes a husband so chill

God will always be graceful but as humans you must play your own part because God will not come down from heaven to give you the things you desire and by smart I mean the ladies that truly knows their place, what they want and most importantly how to get what they want. A lady's always plays part in aiding a man to finalize his decision on getting married by consciously or unconsciously /subliminally proving that she's a worthy partner. just so you know being smart paves way and gives an edge in almost all situations.

icedbeatz:

God will always be graceful but as humans you must play your own part because God will not come down from heaven to give you the things you desire and by smart I mean the ladies that truly knows their place, what they want and most importantly how to get what they want. A lady's always plays part in aiding a man to finalize his decision on getting married by consciously or unconsciously /subliminally proving that she's a worthy partner. just so you know being smart paves way and gives an edge in almost all situations.

Yeah, you're right but remember there are times, when we have it all planned out as in being smart yet it didn't click even the bible made it clear " it's not by power or might but by the spirit says the Lord of host" Yes, you have to be smart but grace supersedes every other thing.

ammyluv2002:
Yeah, you're right but remember there are times, when we have it all planned out as in being smart yet it didn't click even the bible made it clear " it's not by power or might but by the spirit says the Lord of host" Yes, you have to be smart but grace supersedes every other thing.

Grace supersedes all that's why I typed about it first, we can do shitt, we won't be shitt without his grace so basically we all have his grace maybe not equal I don't know but we all sure do but the actions we take and the decisions we make determines how our life turn out to be.

icedbeatz:
yeah most of your points makes sense, the smart ladies will surely get married.

sMART!!

doublewisdom:
The fewer of them that get married, the more of them we can lay.

gosh!

icedbeatz:

Grace supersedes all that's why I typed about it first, we can do shitt, we won't be shitt without his grace so basically we all have his grace maybe not equal I don't know but we all sure do but the actions we take and the decisions we make determines how our life turn out to be.

Ok! I get

MizTyna:
Who are those getting married Saturday after Saturday? Evil spirits? Most of the points are just what no reasonable person should do,irrespective of gender. Some do it tho and still get married. It still depends on your partner

tRUE!

Charity comment

I lack manners no b small

It irks me to the base of my stomach how pple dissipate needless energy to write trash or stereotype on Nland abt women.This sudden proclivity against the women folk is denigrating and heartbreaking. It seems a lucrative headline/topic on this forum. Women this and women that! The Mods should place an embargo on these insipid headlines gosh! Even some boys who haven't even experienced puberty seem to know very much abt the women folk. So pathetic! Btw I didn't read this poo!

If most of d girls born in d 80's and 90's don't get married... Na who we go marry den... Shey na d ones wey dem born for 2000's abi the ones born prior to d 80's and 90's... Maybe the 70's downward...