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Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Stillfire: 8:43pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: Haa Coogar. It's the economy that caused it. When a Naija woman says a man is caring, it's all about money o. 20 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Young03(m): 8:44pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Ds is wat i call ignoramus ok ur xpecting him to take u to mr biggs, chitis and after u clean mouth and go shame, huz ist den mr biggs to digest d love at home gold diggers 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by coogar: 8:46pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Timbuktou: nigerian women don't carry their purse with them on a dinner date. their mentality is that - if you are suggesting the date, you must foot the bill. what about the guys who cannot afford to take their chics to a posh restaurant? should they go & steal? naija men cannot win. damned if he suggests the girl should come to his house. damned if he cannot afford to foot the bill. 14 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Stillfire: Hehehehe. We like am like dat. |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by coogar: 8:48pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Stillfire: it's that same economy that is forcing the men to change the venue of the romantic dinner from oceanview restaurant to their living room. 13 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by April07: 8:49pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: You didn't just meet them and they 'started wanting' to come over and 'chill' You guys had some kind of relationship.. Except.... i mean the only reason a man would be adamant to collect a girl's number is to take her to bed. sexual attraction comes first before he even summoned up the courage to say hi. any man who tells you differently is a bloody liar. This we know But then... They gats to be some kinda wooing.. |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Stillfire: 8:51pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: Any girl that goes to a naija man's house is just playing with fire. If you don't have money go to the buka, abeg and buy amala and coke. She should go to hell if she doesn't like it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by April07: 8:51pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Who said you had to spend money to build chemistry? What's to say I'd be comfortable 'coming to your house' to talk? Overrated myself! Yes sir! Becos it is what it is. |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Stillfire: 8:53pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: Lol, so what should we do now? Going to a man's house is just asking for trouble. And you yourself know it. |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by coogar: 8:55pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
April07: you cannot blame them - i have that effect with naija ladies.
thank you! i like your brutal honesty.....now that we have gotten that point out of the way, we can talk about how soon is too soon... some ladies would wait 3-6 months, some like to wait till the wedding night & some want it instantly. wooing can be tiresome. wooing can be damned too expensive. 10 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 8:57pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: I dare any nairaland babe to go on a corn-and-ube date followed by a stroll. For where? If it's not grilled fish, catfish peppersoup, shawarma and tins, you can just not bother to holler at her. First date o, not when you know he has three houses and can buy a live cow every day of the week. . Nigerian men dey light steady, dis one wey come dey yarn okpata for here no sabi wetin dey do am. E be like white mosquito done bite am. 21 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by coogar: 8:58pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Stillfire: how about being tactical & calculating? you can take a friend along. if he stays with other boys, you can take a brother or a male friend with you. Stillfire: cheiiiiii! 80% of nigerian men are decent. if the girl insists she's not having sex, they would leave her alone. why are you making it sound like every nigerian guy is a horn dog? 13 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by April07: 8:59pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: Yeah right thank you! Loooool... Ofcos. Of you're moving at snail's pace with your wooing and you just don't have sweet mouth, you won't last the first 3 phone calls with yours truly Depends on the people involved o.. |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Stillfire: That's the point na. That's how we separate the chaff from the wheat without wasting too much time. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by damiso(f): 9:01pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Ok I won't lie sha I never had to go Dutch (BUT I also never used to buy boxers and socks as gifts ) but I always always carried what i called 'vex money' with me on a date. And my vex money was always enough to pay for my meal plus my cab back to my fathers house and yes coogar even if the meal was at Ocean view Coogar and Timbuktuo girls tended to go on 'mass dates' with guys they considered magas and did not like. I always hated the idea sha. I remember one of my bros liked one girl who moved in a 6 girl clique you invite one out better go and look for money for 5 more people. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by coogar: 9:03pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
April07: doubt me at your own risk!
snail's pace? there's nothing snaily about the pace. naija women just love drama & they revel in the chase. sweet mouth? i was born with a sweet mouth. the ladies i have kissed ended up having diabetes. 1 phone call would make you dump your boyfriend for me. 9 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
April07:Would a date not typically involve the expenditure of money? Who's to say I'd be comfortable sitting under a tree and talking? Stop jumping the gun, that's a conditional statement. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by coogar: 9:12pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
damiso: so the vex money has never been used to bail you out & yet you have consumed more than 30 plates of fried rice & chicken? damiso, diarisgod o.
i believe you.... so let's assume you went on one of those dates and the guy insists you go dutch....and you did......if he asks you for another date, would you go?
i never liked girls who move in gangs. it's a turn-off! take a 6-girl clique to a restaurant? i be santa claus? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by April07: 9:14pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Can you not be creative enough to come up with something that is fun and not expensive? Is it about your comfort or the girl's? If you're so determined to get her laid then you'll put up with her 'talking under tree' method I'm responsible for what I say..what you understand on the other hand is totally your business |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by coogar: 9:21pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
April07: what is fun & not expensive in nigeria? 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by jnrbayano(m): 9:21pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Timbuktou: 8 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
TooNoisy: Look at u..runs girl my foot What about if he invite to a eatery,why don't you also decline since you are not cheap,after all you can not be bought over with food... I just dey look you dey vex.... Even if my country nigeria should be better that usa in terms of security,naija girls will still insist on meeting you@a eatery.... Free food 12 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by damiso(f): 9:38pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: Coogar make I no lie I don't know o :Dyou sef know naija guys don't ' insist' on going Dutch. I have volunteered to pay for the popcorn at a movie and the guy was very offended (like his manhood was dependent on his ability to pay for popcorn ). And who told you I consumed fried rice and chicken? I hated that 'hungry girl' generalisation so I almost always had only a drink esp on a first date. I know some guys who said I was 'forming ' na them know . the ability to buy me food was not a dating criteria. I was the 'suffering One' back then o.God did not just give me the head of 'spending' boyfriends and toasters(or maybe I was always just too proud to ask). Make I no lie my shakara was a lot.My dad used to take me and my sister Out to eat (name it from shitta amala to Terris burger to Eko Le meridien ) and so taking me to eat 'fried rice and chicken ' was not something that used to trip me. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by April07: 9:45pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: Strolling and gisting and chewing roated corn and 'sitting under trees' |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by angieberry(f): 9:48pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Just look at them Smh |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
April07: You should realise that our creativity isn't appreciated if it doesn't involve spending money. I'm sure I speak for millions of Nigerian men when I say majority of the women around aren't going to give a hoot if you aren't splashing the cash. It's about what gets me what I want. If she wants a date, she would have to be creative enough to get me to do it. Plus, getting laid is a mutually pleasurable activity. She loses nothing. Back at you, sweety. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by jrerico1(m): 9:54pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
You think every guy is happy to go on a date, were she'll still decide to bring her friends alone?? Most Nigerian men have intentions in mind if a lady comes to his house on first date, but the lady was not forced 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by coogar: 9:54pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
damiso: true that! naija guys feel offended when a chic offers to pay. the society makes it his responsibility to provide.
what was the criteria?
so if you could turn back the hands of time, you would have taxed your toasters?
ahaaaaa! daddy's pet. |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
damiso:Hehehe. You see yasef? We like the pack girls too, we still invite those ones. If you bring five friends, we call five sex-starved friends in the hood to balance the equation before we even offer you water to drink. That way you know we mean business. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Ewuro4: 9:57pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Coz of yall long throat display when treated like a lady. So himma kuku take you home and serve you fried meat and a glass of tropicana on ice. I heard some of them invite their friends along to a supposed one on one dinner. People will treat you how you wanna be treated. 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by lexy2014: 9:57pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
angieberry:"How many men will not try to get fresh with a lady when they are alone in his house?" A good no of men will. Just d way u feel there are "decent and sensible" ladies, there are also guys who know what it is 2b gentlemen. On both sides, u will always find people who will do crazy and selfish things but that's not enough reason 2 generalize 3 Likes 1 Share |
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