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Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
IamforGod:Abeg help me tell d poor boy o wey I believe get sisters too.. Some ppl sha |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by akigbemaru: 11:10pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
my house syndrome! |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Kingbilo(m): 11:10pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
April07: Coincidentally this just happened to a friend of mine and she is totally scared and confused as to what to do right now.. I dunno how to help her.. |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by vislabraye(m): 11:10pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
cococandy: Come to my place or follow me to hotel, which is better ? Lol. It's possible his place is homely and cool. You guys could wqtch TV together or look at his album. There are several things you two can enjoy in his house. It all depends. I won't tell a girl, come to my house on the first date. In fact, some of them even ask where do you sty ? How can you be friends with a guy and not know where he stays. What I've also observed is that, if you invite a lady to your house, she might refuse. But if you are mobile and pick her up and drive her to your place, she'll feel special. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by menxer: 11:10pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
na wa ooo... why are we so offended? Is it not because Nigerian ladies developed the 'take me out syndrome' that their male counterpart developed the 'come to my house syndrome'? ladies are still being wooed, if you are not, check, you belong to the 'take me out' group and 'come to my house' men are your lot. ps: ...but on second thought, as tough and frustrating as life is in Nigeria, lady still dey expect man to dey woo woo her? i believe all ladies get wooed just that the wooing may not be/last as long as your fantasy Mills & Boons novel described, take heart, it wasn't a Nigerian that authored it, so the case study used may not apply to the Nigerian psyche. Nigeria ladies should not expect to be wooed too much so that it won't turn to woe. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by sirkezman: 11:11pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
you fail to highlight the main problem. Nigerian girls dont understand the meaning of a date. going on a date must not necessarily be expensive but 9ja girls dont know this. Also you invite a girl on a date and she shows with 2 of her friends. for heaven sake.. is it a date or get together. when you consider all these, you understand its not really about the nigerian men but also the ladies. i still go on dates but i make it clear to the lady before hand that its just for two of us and no third party. swagloverss: 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Sparkles003(f): 11:11pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
milliondollas:pardon my rude speech. I hope that 99% also includes your sisters. nieces. aunties. fiancée. wife.. do not throw stones if you leave in a glass house. 99% indeed |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by mrpackager(m): 11:11pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Some guyz sha................. well kongi Na badstarddd "ko gba , ko d'ija nah .... |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by noblegrex: 11:12pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
noblegrex:and this so called decent girl will turn d gentle guy to a topic. That he's a mugu,domy, fool,mumu that he keeps spending that he's not a smart guy that I am smart n start laughing o girl go sit down guys too don wise up. Na una cause am although some guys r animals just like dog bt ladies always think they r smart n that's where d problem starts. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by hedonistic: 11:12pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
milliondollas: You dey mind these yeye trollops? One can't cast pearls before swines. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Viciyus: I am also not an English freak however it is no excuse for poor mastery of the language. Also, given the fact that you are an Ode that abuses others for no particular reason, I expect you to focus on yourself instead of trolling up and down like a headless chicken 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Teespice(f): 11:16pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
lose lose situation better still do the Romance via social media *runs away* |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by rudestmcblaze: 11:16pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Ever since the talk of gender equity, many woman have gone crazy identifying the faults of men. They forget that they also have their own roles to play, I remember a particular girl that I've been inviting over but kept posting me then a day I least expect she is at my place, eating like she doesn't have food in her house, throwing herself at me even going as far a showing me her bra clad b**bs. To cut the long story short, tz not advice able to go to a guys place on a first date and when d guys takes you out eat like you're the one paying the bills. #YOLO 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by kay29000(m): 11:16pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Thank you o! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
chindi:I will give it to your sisters.Stop pretending,If he invite you to his house to come and collect 50k or iPhone 6 won't you honour his invitation?Don't lie. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by stanisbaratheon: 11:18pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
I tried telling a guy in my neighbourhood that it is bad habit to bring a lady he just met to his house on a first date, i believe you know what he told me, that i'm a jonsing man. I laughed at him in silence. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by HARDDON: 11:19pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
April07: Scrap all these rant April, COME TO MY HOUSE, need to show u something u wud mos def like. Don't keep big deddy waiting now @ op, two things r involved when i boy invites u over to em crib, u mentioned one but left out the other: 1) Short circuit d thingy n get down to brass track...this u mentioned. 2) the second reason is that guys know women luv soft enviromns, so he invites her over to show off d posh crib........ Hv u seen where a guy whose crib isnt toushed invites any gurl over? Nah! He shows off his crib to make her fall easily...... It has been proven that If she can feel at home, soft tones filtering @ da background, temperature well regulated, a lil food n wine, things she never PLANNED FOR CAN ALWAYS HAPPEN! it has been happening... Aftermath statements: did we just do that? Can't bliv we just did that, What just happened? While she is saying all this, guy, go to d rest room, those Q's r rhetoric. 5 mins later, he be digging it again! Ladies, Ladies! Or shld I mention d ones that says they'd luv a more comfortable place? Signaling ur crib? Op leave matter 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by ArabianPrince: 11:20pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
I don't invite ladies to my house. Never...Ever. I had rather meet up in public places and I don't visit a ladies house either.That is a No...No. In that way no pressure from both sides. If we need and agree to play fight in principle which has to be well defined and evidence based ....then we had rather arrange a night away or weekend away guest house or hotel as part of the fun. And they seem to like it that way. Thinking it's a special treat not knowing am protecting my privacy from unwanted invasion all in the name of visiting me impromptu. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by nwadiuko1(m): 11:20pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
angieberry:sis same applies to the ladies....lotsa. Dem are hungry and inconsiderate bit.ches hiding under the excuse that Nigerian men have lost their chivalry...... 9 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by sauceTDA(m): 11:21pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
angieberry:. Hey shutt up, he made a good point, and speak for yourself,in dis part of the world there is nothing like chivalry, girls this days are so hard to pity well most of them.. prostitutes everywhere.... I sooo wish not to have a girl as child. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by hedonistic: 11:22pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Good. I endorse this. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
otunsman:You are a hypocrite... Jst answer my question with a Yes or No... Shikena |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by mrkings84(m): 11:22pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
NOTED: NOTE GONNA BE "COME TO MY HOUSE" AGAIN, FROM NOW IT'S GONNA BE "COME TO OUR WEBSITE" SHMM!!! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Viciyus: Ode! You wish! |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
If you ladies want to eat with your own money you will go to a buka and spend less than #200 on a plate of food.But when a guy want to take you on a date you prefer he takes you to a five star restaurant where a plate of meal is sold for #2,500.Can you spend such amount of money from your purse?Be sincere. 8 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by gospi: 11:27pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
I'm so happy abt dis post. LET'S face it, 99 percent of guys who just meet u and say "COME TO MY HOUSE" want SEX. Wen I hav barely known a guy and he says dat crap to me , there's dis way I look at him.... U knw? Like he s very senseless....jeeeeeeeez! So annoying! Som wld even go as far as sayin u shld travel down to c dem.. And in dia eyes its Okay. Later they wee say girls like to "K","K" and "K" wen chatting.Wat els do guys like dat deserve if not "K" ? and mayb a slap to go wit it sef.. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by RiffRaff: 11:27pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Maybe when "Nigerian girls" learn to pay their own bills on a date then Nigerian Men will stop the "come to my house" syndrome. Imagine takin a lady out oh... She go come day order like say na Bill Gates she day wit. She go chop like crocodile and still take away home sef. There is no weird stories way i never here finish about Nigerian babes... Just last week, i read here about a guy that invited a girl on a date. She came with 3 of her friends. OP.. I dont blame the guys who say come to my house oh. I love inviting babes over to my house. When i do, i have no ulterior motive. I have the most recent movies on my laptop with my sorround sound speakers, it feels just like going to the movies. I put so much effort into making the perfect and delicious home cooked meal... So essentially, a date in my house is more friendly to my pocket. I no go make the mistake of taking a NIGERIAN girl i dont know too well to a classy resturant way she go run me bankrupt, while i smile like a mumu. I am sure plenty guys have stories to share about their date in Hell wit a NIGERIAN GIRL. *** Try inviting a Nigerian Girl to a Park, Garden or a date that looks like it wont cost u money... See if she will take u seriously... ***Guys dont fall for their trap. If she is not coming to your house, make sure she is paying her bills whereva she suggest u go. ***Stay away from Nigerian girls, most of them have toxic mentality. 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
ArabianPrince:Some of them even steal in their date houses.One guy narrated how a lady stole a gold chain in his friend's house.She hid it inside her bag but was later caught.It's not even advisable to invite a girl home. 3 Likes |
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