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Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Krystalxxx: Oh come on! I can't support her just because I'm a lady, what she did wasn't right Would she be in this kind of situation if she didn't move in with the guy? I didn't say that i'm the smartest lady in town, everyone makes mistakes, but What she did isn't a Mistake, She did it deliberately, and that's because she's too stvpid and blinded by love or should I say she's desperate? #TEAM SCENT |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by hardbody: 6:44pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
firstEVA: I do not know how the penal code works. But a better approach would have been to sue in a civil action and claim damages for breach. Proof in criminal cases are more stringent while in a civil matter it could be grounded on balance of probability. Besides, the guy should contest jurisdiction except it is really a codified offence in the penal code. At any rate, in criminal matters, the fine payable belongs to the state as against what would be the case in a civil matter. But as i said, i dont quite have a grip on the penal code. All said and done, the man was an imp and the lady was a dummy. The courts only give judgment but not peace of mind. She will never be truly married to that man irrespective of the court's decision. |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Dhaarmee(f): 6:45pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Mumu@28 |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by OteDOLLAR(m): 6:45pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
tsdarkside: In a sane society, it won't even b a case at all! Imagine d olodo geh saying "he promised to marry me" in d court room! If I b d judge ehn...I go just bust into laffta ni |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by victoreltemur: 6:46pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
crackhaus:very very seconded.lolzzzz 2 Likes |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
tsdarkside: Yeah, a woman should trust her lover, but that doesn't mean that she should act foolishly. Why can't she wait for them to get married before moving in? She sold herself cheaply to the guy by moving in and getting pregnant for him. #TEAM SCENT |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by freecocoa(f): 6:48pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
adeh39:You saying she shouldn't have trusted him, it's not f00lish to trust someone who hasn't given you reasons not to, it's just that the world and the people in it have spoilt everything. It's her life and her choice, might seem desperate according to you but in end, the call is hers and she made a decision she felt wise, the dude is the bad person here if he actually lied to her. |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
firstEVA:Men have been paying damages since the first woman was created. If she married the first man she slept with, she won't still be suing for damages. Nobody supports the guy's attitude, but there are things better settled privately. She should also consider the interest of their unborn baby. |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Sweetyie:Bikonu gimme sme 1st nwanne |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
freecocoa: Oh I see, well, we can all see where that decision of hers led her to....... 7 months pregnancy with a runaway lover. I'm sure other ladies will learn from her mistake. #TEAM SCENT |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by hushmail: 6:55pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
wetin prosecutor dey do for matter? Na civil case nah 9ja police no get job |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by hushmail: 6:57pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
adeaks: a promise is not a contract so not enforceable |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
jascon1:Except in the US. American contract law/(CA civil code) provides no remedy for a heart-broken boyfriend or girlfriend that has been dumped. |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by freecocoa(f): 7:01pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
adeh39:There are women who made the same call and it turned out well for them, it's not like he couldn't have left her, was she not his live in lover. You need to understand people before judging them, especially as regards matters of the heart. |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 7:02pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
hushmail: Bro, I don't know about other jurisdictions but breach of promise to marry is actionable in civil law in Nigeria. Try Google or read the case of Sowande v Sowande and if you can get ur hands on the Nigerian evidence act, read Section 197. The guy would pay damages but d court can't force him to marry her. Its just that it is very hard to prove because there must be someone to corroborate the fact that he made a promise to marry her. 2 Likes |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Deejavuu(f): 7:04pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Lool.. Na one eye i take dey look you |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Joromi1: 7:07pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
firstEVA:under which law, pls? I'm willing to learn |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by harry509: 7:18pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
lalasticlala:wahala wey men day face 4 dis coutry. Na women day cause am I swear. Me y dat guy nu try ooh 4 abandonin d urg lady wit 7mnth pregnancy. And girl slf supose pay fin slf 4 allowin herslf 2 b deceiv 2 |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
adeaks:Wow! So, it's generally a bad idea to break your promise of marrying someone in Naija? I'll take note of that |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Okikiade(m): 7:22pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Where on earth is the written agreement presented by the prosecutor? And on what bases of law should the accused be charged to pay exhorbitant fee as bail? It Just A Socratic's way of deriving knowledge! End Time Things!OOPS |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by ajja: 7:22pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
d lady get home broblem let her go for deliverance nest time |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Austin4lif: 7:23pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
adeaks:bros u read am well. U are truly called to the tempe of justice. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by tsdarkside(m): 7:23pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
hardbody: you think too complicated....he made a contract of "trust" with her...he broke the contract...its not hard to understand.... |
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Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by tsdarkside(m): 7:28pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
as i already said...in a reasonable world...she can not loose.... but we are living in a unreasonable world...whatever... |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
adeh39: That is still not an excuse. There is no guarantee that he wouldn't have acted otherwise if they were married. Heck! Some husbands have done worse things to their wives despite the bond between them. Therefore regardless of what she did or did not do, it is no excuse for the man to act inhumanely. |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Emilord(m): 7:31pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
firstEVA:most of the time the damage award is nominal,the guy has really nothing to loose |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by dinachi(m): 7:34pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
She won't win! She can't win! The only thing the court can do is to ask the guy to start paying child support. And that is if the guy does not contest the pregnancy. If he denies the pregnancy, the court will have to rely on a DNA test to pass judgement in the woman's favour. What of millions of women who dump guys everyday how many courts have fined them. |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by ayzero6487(m): 7:36pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
....Did I see 200k....as bail.?....dz judge e av finish dz guy..... |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by tsdarkside(m): 7:40pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
adeh39: judging her is like judging your own self,,,you are a woman tooo...as i already said...without "trust" their is no reason a tall for a woman to fall in "love" in a man... |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by valmunich(m): 7:41pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
jnrbayano:same question that has been going through my mind |
Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by HRich(m): 7:42pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Women and their chicken brain. He's not yet your husband. He has done nothing on your head. Your parents had no notice about where you are living, yet you moved into his house. And you now think going to court is a display of wiseness. U get luck though. |
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