Sex is interesting and wonderful,
when done with the right person; but
until then, it is necessary to keep our
desires in check. In order to control
your urge for sex, these are some of
the things you can do:

#1. ACCEPT THAT IT IS PRETTY NORMAL
TO HAVE SEXUAL URGES.

To control your sexual urges, you
must first accept that there is nothing
wrong in wanting sex or thinking
about it. It is a pretty normal phase
everyone goes through, unlike what
we have been made to believe by
some societal factors like religion that
sex is evil and having sexual urges is
a complete taboo. You have to know
and accept that your sexual desires
are just one of those basic physical
needs that seeks to be fulfilled one
way or the other and that we are
wired to think about sex. Once you
have accepted this fact and you
strongly wish to put it in check, you
can control it.

#2. KNOW WHAT TRIGGERS THOSE
FEELINGS.

In order to control your sexual
desires, you must know what it is
that actually sets it off. For someone
who is sexually starved, it is easier to
be drawn by sexual innuendoes and
signs, making it tough to control your
urges but once you have identified
those things that these feelings, you
mind will be alert enough to steer
clear of them. Avoid reading books
with x-rated contents or watch
pornographic movies or any form of
object that can stimulate your sexual
urges.

#3. TRANSLATE YOUR SEXUAL URGES
INTO CREATIVE OUTPUTS.

To curb your sexual desires, you have
to do more to think less. Channel all
those feelings into something that
will keep your mind off sex and then,
get busy. You can read books, go
out with friends, watch movies, learn
new things etc. Transfer your urges
into something you have always
wanted to do. At the end of the day,
you would have successfully managed
not to think about sex and you will
also be satisfied at the things you did.
If one of those hobbies trigger a
sexual response in you and you are
feeling aroused, do not masturbate.
Think of non-sexual images or take a
long walk..

#4. TRANSFER YOUR ENERGY INTO
EXERCISE.

Engage your body in exercise that will
keep you busy and keep you from
feeling frustrated from not having
sex. You can jog in the morning,
swim or hit the gym. You can also try
yoga and other exercise that will help
stimulate both mind and body.

#5. STAY AWAY FROM DRUGS AND
ALCOHOL.

Only few can drink heavily or do
drugs without losing control of
themselves. Stay away from alcohol
and drugs if they will cause you to do
something you will regret when you
are sober. If you must drink, drink
with friends you can trust and you
know will watch over you.

#6. PURSUE NON-SEXUAL
RELATIONSHIPS.

In order to control your sexual urge,
you should enter into a relationship
with no sex. If you wonder what you
both will do without the sex, there
are countless things couples can do
to bond like going on a field trip
together, taking up a joint hobby,
learning new things together. Far
from what most people think, you can
have a very satisfying relationship
without sex.

#7. TALK TO SOMEONE.

If you feel like you can’t control it all
by yourself, you can talk to your
doctor, pastor, parents, close relative
or friends. Sometimes, having
someone to talk to about how you
feel helps better than trying to curb it
all by yourself. Who knows, the
person you want to meet may have
had difficulty curbing his own desires
too. What then is better than learning
from someone’s experience. Don’t be
shy or scared of being judged.

#8. GET SPIRITUAL HELP.

In getting spiritual help, it’s important
to note that if you are being taught
that sex is bad and it wrong, you
won’t have much comfort there and it
will only push you deeper into your
urges. Get spiritual help that engages
your mind in spiritual activities that
are far from sex. Being around people
pursuing the same goal as you,
especially in chastity can also be a
strong supportive measure. That way
you have someone holding your
hands all the way.
As you would handle the viruses on
your system, so should you handle
the thoughts of sex, especially when
you are trying so hard to be chaste.
Tackle your thoughts before it
translates into an action you may
regret later.

SOURCE
www.360nobs.com/2014/09/how-to-control-your-sexual-urges/

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Nice write up

Ok

Nice write up

I do not agree to this..

GeneralQuamdeen:
I do not agree to this..

Who cares

Osirimononaye:

Who cares

you actually.. Coz if you arent.. You would have stay off my mention.

GeneralQuamdeen:
you actually.. Coz if you arent.. You would have stay off my mention.

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Obinovictor:
Nice write up

What is nice here now?

Hehehe... The first commenter tho

good one

heykims:

What is nice here now?

Read it

This is quite educating.

Nice one OP

Obinovictor:


Read it

I have, makes not much sense to me.
Besides, I believe more in studies nd researches. Studies should have been conducted to back these up, not just about anybody and everybody waking up and feel like putting things down at leisure.

Osirimononaye:
Who cares

NFC's doesn't care anymore tho

self service