Hmmmm, after my last relationship ended I was very hurt within me that I vowed never to love without adequate solid cash. Let me spare you the story. But as an associate Pastor in my church I met a pretty girl by the name J. She is all I desire in a wife as in everything intact like 85% qualities both physical and spiritual. She came to our church newly but never talked with her until after like a month. But between us we know there is attraction, honestly sometimes In church I just catches her looking at me. Yes I know I that but I have been binding d feeling not to grow cause my members will have to suspect things, she is just like 4 years my junior and I am 29 and working I have not been able to stop thinking about her but I keep binding the feelings we are already friends but... Men I just try always to bind that feeling and not allow more closeness to her. She likes me her elder sis does the same. I am in between not to cause chois between sisters in my church and her I do like her but men senior pastor will not hear this or suspect I want to approach this in a matured way.

Pastor is a Title

U say......?

marry her already and quit wasting time......or are you a playboy(sorry...... 'playpastor'..)?.......

What do you want man.... U like her ... She likes U .... Shikena ... Shey your senior pastor no get wife ni?? ... Wait you even talk about binding *laff in Somalia* ... God is love ... So what are you Binding laa ...lastly U are interested in Her or her elder sis

Ur Story is Complicated, wot do u want us to tell or help u do. abi u want us to join u bind de feeling?

Bind which feelin? Wit which rope? Beta go marry dat babe..

Yes I know guys but its just that people will feel that I am using !y privilege to corner for myself. I get the part that I should marry her I will if she says yes to me but how do I not put my integrity on the line. Cos !y church has heard issues wit relationships within the church that almost scattered our church. I don't want to be the cause of another, and now that guyz also have eyes on her. I have never wanted to date a church member. But this one chai can't just stop the attraction eery Sunday. Just need and advice how to smothlyplay this role till I get to the alter with her. Her elder sis likely seriously and that's a bonus.