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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by fwonders22: 9:29am On Jun 24, 2015
Lolz one funny thing about sex to we guys is that when you are yet to get it, it boils in the blood and immediately you feel the thing you feel so relax and happy. So advice to ladies if your man is really good on bed be thanking God always and never give him a reason to look outside for some other girls. Remember this is what millions of women all over the world with dulling nd sluggish husband on bed are killing to have
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Nobody: 9:30am On Jun 24, 2015
misspicy:
i like that type of man .D

that lady sees S*x as a boring task not as a pleasure she needs to change her orientation.
if ur husband wants sex after a days hard work,gv him its a form of relaxation n u will even sleep well after a relxing dose of s*x.

na all dis religious woman dey complain for this kin thing

NATURALLY I HATE WOMEN, BUT AS FOR YOU!!

YOU BE THE ONLY FEMALE MONIKER FOR NAIRALAND WERE GET SENSE WELLER.
MAYBE YOU MAY CHANGE MY WAY OF THINKING SOMEDAY wink

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by pleiades45: 9:30am On Jun 24, 2015
JoeCutie:
And why must she be tired every day? See what girls (ladies/women) do; they always 'form' tiredness or nonchalance towards sex whenever the guy wants it. Do you know what they want? They want to be in control; they want to have sex with you when they want, not when you want. In other words, you must wait until she feels like doing it...even if you don't feell like doing it again yourself. (Feminism? Maybe) But this isn't how things should be done. Yes, the guy should understand that she's tired (that's if she's genuinely tired) and let her be SOMETIMES, but NOT ALL the TIME. In a relationship/marriage, people should learn to bend their rules sometimes, just to accommodate their partners. Sometimes I do things not necessarily because I feel like doing it at that particular time, but because I know it would make her happy. And if you see a way to make your partner happy, thereby, strengthening your relationship, why not do it?
listen, women are not cum-bucket for you to empty in every time you feel the urge. you are a human being and not an animal. learn to restrain yourself yourself once in a while. it is classy. nobody wants to be around an animal-human. an animal-human is someone who is controlled by instincts and desires and not by their brain and decorum. so shut the fork up with this your randy talk. restrain yourself man angry
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by jeffizy(m): 9:31am On Jun 24, 2015
vickylala239:



I pay hug money to marry,Jst 4 four tyms a week!!! Hmmm.


U no Evn talk Once a day Weda I go fit manage,u Dey talk week.

U Don kill Mi b Dat.u go Jst wake up n see my dead bdy begging for one mouth.

No mata Hw my job b,1pm I Don call my wife to storm Huz Mke I collect one mouth.

U tink say e easy to Dey office n fine gels Dey front ur office up n dwn wit files,Weda Dey need d files or Nt,na u as d man Dey suffer.

Once my mind no fit carry am again I Don storm my wife Mke she show Huz or I show ha office.

Na him u Dey talk 4tyms a week n jobless.

Sumone Lik Mi Weda am sick or Nt pass Mi I go collect am.Infact as I sick Dat one is d best Cuz Dat one Dat till tomorrow b Dat Bfr I go leav u.

Doe am Nt married,Bt d gel am planning to marry am Nt sure I go fit quarrel wit ha,Cuz I will see quarrel as barrier to giving Mi my needful,imagine quarrel for 2days Haba I go rush settle am.

Is better u Dnt gv Mi fud as a sign of quarrel Dan ur titi.
The famous NACKSON no try reach u.
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Walexsammy(m): 9:32am On Jun 24, 2015
Jamean:


So is it preferable she dies as a result of the marathon sex?

Some men are not considerate at all. Try to ensure there is libido compromise with your partner. All fingers are not equal.
Buh she ought to have been aware of his libido b4 saying 'I do'....abi?
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by ceejay80s(m): 9:32am On Jun 24, 2015
Jamean:


So is his wife Linda Lovelace? Or you think everyone watches porn like you. The way you reason is just debasing.
So.. U know linda lovelace? Kettle calling frying pan black
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Nobody: 9:32am On Jun 24, 2015
victoreltemur:
u nver needed to insult dthe dude.
I didn't it insult did I?
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by peeta89(m): 9:32am On Jun 24, 2015
Nigerian ladies so much confine in their so called pastors who are fake pastors. What if you go and tell your pastor and he demands s3x from you in return, what will you do? Pastor Ko prophet ni.....Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by misspicy(f): 9:32am On Jun 24, 2015
BornnAgainChild:


Dont get it twisted,the woman isnt complaining that she doesnt enjoy sex or the pleasure that comes with it, with all what she stated she does in the house and still has to cater for the 3kids which takes her till 11pm before she climbs the bed to sleep yet the man would still demand sex EVERYDAY,undermining the stress and all-ahn ahn the man should have the fear of God in him and not just be selfish and self-centered
Don't get it twisted,the woman is complaining thats how i see it because,if sex was trully a pleasure to her she will gladly giv it to her husband regardless of time of stress she went tru.s*x is relaxing,n sex isnt stressful to a woman,its a man that shuld complain abt sex after a hard days work becaue they do most of the hardwork in making love.

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by bejeria101(m): 9:34am On Jun 24, 2015
If he doesnt ask he is getting it some where else,when woman go smart,when? So make d man dey look u like photo?
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by otosa(m): 9:34am On Jun 24, 2015
boss1310:
some women take their husbands to court for not touching them.
I think it should be nice if this woman can also go to court for...
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Nobody: 9:35am On Jun 24, 2015
LadyBoss1:


Lol but there are some men that complain about the same thing .. The funny thing is a woman sex drive is even worse dan men .. We just know how to control it

Waytn we dey control ni! When we get wife? undecided

Truth is; the couples need to find a common ground in their sex life. She lady should try not to change the man but to understand him.

I know say women sex drive level no b here oh!
But some girls eh! If you no touch dem dem no go even bother to touch you

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by ceejay80s(m): 9:35am On Jun 24, 2015
sonofananimal:


NATURALLY I HATE WOMEN, BUT AS FOR YOU!!

YOU BE THE ONLY FEMALE MONIKER FOR NAIRALAND WERE GET SENSE WELLER.
MAYBE YOU MAY CHANGE MY WAY OF THINKING SOMEDAY wink

That moniker wey u quote ,na man be dat in woman disguise, trust nairalander guy to Ave both male and female moniker
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Alezy(m): 9:36am On Jun 24, 2015
bejeria101:
If he doesnt ask he is getting it some where else,when woman go smart,when? So make d man dey look u like photo?
i tire o

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by here: 9:36am On Jun 24, 2015
Any moment where the partners desire is to rely on the other for "anything" it becomes an issue. I can understand the transfer of frustration but around here its more.
When she has to rely on him for shelter and food and everything,he assumes he is put on the spot and feels she is worthless and adds no value, when she sees he is out of job and relies on her for no matter how short time,he is not man enough and worse if he wants her more intimately, he is an animal. We sometimes forget post natal depression for some dont go away while many too accept their responsibility put away the pain and move on with their families. How can you take care of house of 3 kids and a man,cook,wash(even with a machine) and other domestic duties and expect to still have time for him, get a verified nanny even is its a part time one.Look at the white guys here,they all have domestic aides no she wants to show she is strong to do all alone or he feels she is lazy if she cant do all alone.

That part where you say the intimacy is last thing on your mind is the begining of the end of most marriages, some it creeps in about 5-10th year in marriage, the spark in gone and the domestic affairs takes over and you both begin to co-habit. How can you both be in such if caring for more children is an issue then don't have many. I pity how many of our people cannot manage their frustration and imagine I have to rely on you daily in our interaction when you have such depression at home. Must you have full intimacy,what happened to cuddling and all? Yes I know pregnancy rejection and fears and pains takes that away for many, but its funny how you allow things change badly for your home while blaming the other party.

When last did any of you are out of town and your partner tells you intimate stuff they look forward to when you come back, no its about PHCN or neghbor's generator or other problems, wonder how these people survive. You dont expect a partner to know what to do, you work with him or her to achieve it, shows respect;"baby could we cuddle and makeout tonight tommorrow would make it up to you or this weekend or something,really what killed the communication in homes.
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Cutehector(m): 9:36am On Jun 24, 2015
LadyBoss1:


Abi oh
U will think they are not educated.. Men be acting like sex is everything dats y women b using them since d days of Adam still .. No sense yet

Just because his married everyday sex .. Yes nu should heave sex th ur wife but look she sleeps at 11:30 wakes up 5 am the hubby doesnt even pity her at all .. 3 times a week self is more than enough.. N he wants to use dat wan to stray out of marriage .. Hmmm modern day slavery ohh
why r u makin noise? U aint married yet. U duno wether ur husband will be d opposite of what u wrote here. U may meet an angel. Be positive
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by freeage7(m): 9:36am On Jun 24, 2015
JoeCutie:
And why must she be tired every day? See what girls (ladies/women) do; they always 'form' tiredness or nonchalance towards sex whenever the guy wants it. Do you know what they want? They want to be in control; they want to have sex with you when they want, not when you want. In other words, you must wait until she feels like doing it...even if you don't feell like doing it again yourself. (Feminism? Maybe) But this isn't how things should be done. Yes, the guy should understand that she's tired (that's if she's genuinely tired) and let her be SOMETIMES, but NOT ALL the TIME. In a relationship/marriage, people should learn to bend their rules sometimes, just to accommodate their partners. Sometimes I do things not necessarily because I feel like doing it at that particular time, but because I know it would make her happy. And if you see a way to make your partner happy, thereby, strengthening your relationship, why not do it?

Guy, u are on point.

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by pleiades45: 9:36am On Jun 24, 2015
MarieSucre:
My thoughts- If the woman was getting pleasure from it. Probably she is able to reach orgasm each time then she'll look forward to it. If it is just the man mounting her 7 times of day and then rolling of after rigorous pounding leaving the woman like "schmerrrrr" then of course who would look forward to such a chore. Make your wife enjoy sex with you. Meet her sexual needs and probably there will be less resistance.
kinda hard to want to meet the sex-uall needs of a woman who has gained 100 pounds and looks like a rugby player. such women are just used for quick cum-ming and the husband jumps off and goes about his business. maybe the woman should take better care of herself and then the husband will have the desire to please every inch of her tantalizing body. aint nobody tryna have romance with a 200 pound woman with big stomach hahaha. what she need to do is leave that eba and ogunfe alone and start eating carrots for lunch. that what she need to do. then maybe, just maybe the guy will start being extra-romantic grin grin

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by misspicy(f): 9:37am On Jun 24, 2015
sonofananimal:

NATURALLY I HATE WOMEN, BUT AS FOR YOU!!
YOU BE THE ONLY FEMALE MONIKER FOR NAIRALAND WERE GET SENSE WELLER. MAYBE YOU MAY CHANGE MY WAY OF THINKING SOMEDAY wink
you hate womenshocked but why
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Chinom(m): 9:37am On Jun 24, 2015
"My husband’s sexual libido is so high that as his wife, I am exhausted and tired. He demands for it from me every other day [b][/b]and my refusal has caused issues between us."


Every other day ?...and you think he's asking too much. You are the problem not your husband. I can never stay with a woman that thinks she is doing me a favour by having sex with me.
In our younger days with my wife, we were at it 3 times a day, 6 to 7 days a week. I cannot stand frigid women. Every other day is not too much for a young couple with children.

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by pek(m): 9:38am On Jun 24, 2015
lefulefu:
make he get a second wife or a mistress.there are many single girls around more than willing to service a married man.na today? grin
can you give your sister's husband this advise?
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Nobody: 9:38am On Jun 24, 2015
Walexsammy:
ure the one with 1st class in stupidity, the lady jst spoke the obvious truth and ure here abusing her...mtcheww..@op, for better for worst...wen dem dey tell dey to do the needfull b4 marriage, religion no go gree dem
There should be a limit to your foolishness.
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Cutehector(m): 9:38am On Jun 24, 2015
here:
Any moment where the partners desire is to rely on the other for "anything" it becomes an issue. I can understand the transfer of frustration but around here its more.
When she has to rely on him for shelter and food and everything,he assumes he is put on the spot and feels she is worthless and adds no value, when she sees he is out of job and relies on her for no matter how short time,he is not man enough and worse if he wants her more intimately, he is an animal. We sometimes forget post natal depression for some dont go away while many too accept their responsibility put away the pain and move on with their families. How can you take care of house of 3 kids and a man,cook,wash(even with a machine) and other domestic duties and expect to still have time for him, get a verified nanny even is its a part time one.Look at the white guys here,they all have domestic aides no she wants to show she is strong to do all alone or he feels she is lazy if she cant do all alone.

That part where you say the intimacy is last thing on your mind is the begining of the end of most marriages, some it creeps in about 5-10th year in marriage, the spark in gone and the domestic affairs takes over and you both begin to co-habit. How can you both be in such if caring for more children is an issue then don't have many. I pity how many of our people cannot manage their frustration and imagine I have to rely on you daily in our interaction when you have such depression at home. Must you have full intimacy,what happened to cuddling and all? Yes I know pregnancy rejection and fears and pains takes that away for many, but its funny how you allow things change badly for your home while blaming the other party
I duno if u r male or female buh I must commend u for ur unbiased comment. I luv it
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Nobody: 9:38am On Jun 24, 2015
ceejay80s:

That moniker wey u quote ,na man be dat in woman disguise, trust nairalander guy to Ave both male and female moniker
OHH BOY.

NA TRUE SHALL.

BUT THAT COMMENT MAKE SENSE.

WETI WE NO GO SEE FOR NAIRALAND
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Mariojane(f): 9:39am On Jun 24, 2015
simseg01:
Men are not built to be with just one woman, I don’t know why our society is living in denial. Most men who claim they have just one wife are “shooting” left, right and center with other ladies.

Even the single ladies who are looking for one-husband are “firing” other women husband. #GoFigure.

A lady who doesn’t want her man to get another wife even when she can’t satisfy him has cried out:



Keep complaining…just continue. Lol!

http://naijabizcom.com/2015/04/20/my-husband-is-disturbing-me-too-much-with-ex/?utm_source=facebook.com
why will you report to your pastor? must your pastor knows everything happening in your family? pastors this days are home breakers with the type of advice they give you. y dont you try to talk with your husband jokily so that he wont think you are calling him sex addict. at times guys have sex with their women not because they want it but they may think the girl want it but too shy to ask.(this happen most at times with couples that hardly know which other before marriage) as your spouse you should both be free to talk to each other on any issue whatsoever.
you don't need their pastor interference because that will be the beginning of your marriage problem. your husband with not even be happy with you if you tell your pastor. he will be surprise you did not talk to him about it first before inviting a third party.

does your pastor share his sex testimonies with all members in the church?

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Nobody: 9:39am On Jun 24, 2015
cyprus000:

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IRONY

You are a true pastor,when where you called into the ministry?
I can see the anointing over you cool
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lol LMAO LMBO bro I can't really say maybe I've been in the ministry as far as I can recall Hahahahahaha. sonofananimal G that's it meeeeeehn that's why I pity the pussii whipped boys a lot cos they don't know the game. finally bitches ain't shitt but hoes and tricks so treat them the needful way but respect and love the reasonable ladies who deserves love and all and ensure you trash a LovePeddler and put her in her place.
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Nobody: 9:40am On Jun 24, 2015
bankyblue:


Don't ever ever pick, mention or quote her @misspicy on this platform again.

That is the problem I ve with this freedom To Internet thing, when small boys use their tecno phone to do rubbish.
Sorry you didn't get a brain update
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Cutehector(m): 9:40am On Jun 24, 2015
misspicy:

you hate womenshocked
but why
he is gay dnt u get
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by ROZZAYY(f): 9:41am On Jun 24, 2015
My kind of man.

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by engrrichie92(m): 9:41am On Jun 24, 2015
misspicy:
i like that type of man .D

that lady sees S*x as a boring task not as a pleasure she needs to change her orientation.
if ur husband wants sex after a days hard work,gv him its a form of relaxation n u will even sleep well after a relxing dose of s*x.

na all dis religious woman dey complain for this kin thing
*kneels* please marry me

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Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by Nobody: 9:41am On Jun 24, 2015
Bollinger:

why is she stup.?id
Because of the level of stupidity displayed
Re: My Husband Is Disturbing Me Too Much With $ex. by manchester1: 9:42am On Jun 24, 2015
get a sexy house help. n ur husband will use her to pass time while you rest and take good care of the children

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