jack67:
do you sleep with others people's husband? why feeling guilty?

You fell on your head?

simseg01:
Men are not built to be with just one woman, I don’t know why our society is living in denial. Most men who claim they have just one wife are “shooting” left, right and center with other ladies.

Even the single ladies who are looking for one-husband are “firing” other women husband. #GoFigure.

A lady who doesn’t want her man to get another wife even when she can’t satisfy him has cried out:

What the heck does that even mean?? So because everyone around you cheats shows everyman cheat?

vickylala239:



I pay huge money to marry,Jst 4 four tyms a week!!! Hmmm.


U no Evn talk Once a day Weda I go fit manage,u Dey talk week.

U Don kill Mi b Dat.u go Jst wake up n see my dead bdy begging for one mouth.

No mata Hw my job b,1pm I Don call my wife to storm Huz Mke I collect one mouth.

U tink say e easy to Dey office n fine gels Dey front ur office up n dwn wit files,Weda Dey need d files or Nt,na u as d man Dey suffer.

Once my mind no fit carry am again I Don storm my wife Mke she show Huz or I show ha office.

Na him u Dey talk 4tyms a week n jobless.

Sumone Lik Mi Weda am sick or Nt pass Mi I go collect am.Infact as I sick Dat one is d best Cuz Dat one Dat till tomorrow b Dat Bfr I go leav u.

Doe am Nt married,Bt d gel am planning to marry am Nt sure I go fit quarrel wit ha,Cuz I will see quarrel as barrier to giving Mi my needful,imagine quarrel for 2days Haba I go rush settle am.

Is better u Dnt gv Mi fud as a sign of quarrel Dan ur titi.

I wish people would be honest and stop making fiction a reality.

misspicy:
i like that type of man .D

that lady sees S*x as a boring task not as a pleasure she needs to change her orientation.
if ur husband wants sex after a days hard work,gv him its a form of relaxation n u will even sleep well after a relxing dose of s*x.

na all dis religious woman dey complain for this kin thing

You wan kill her.

Go to work from 5:30am get home 11pm
Take care of three kids plus the husband
And still service the man every other day?

Babe if you can do all dis den am ready to marry you right away and I won't entertain complain cos I don't do 10min thing. 30min least at the first go.

pleiades45:
it applies both ways. i only addressed the woman aspect of it because that was your focus. you said ' if he pleased her maybe she would enjoy it more '. so your focus was on the woman. but it goes both ways. nobody wants an unhealthy sloppy fat person in bed. it shows someone in some state of neglect and dis-ease.

thank you.

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Flameneo:
[color=#000099][/color] - I will advice you to try and cope with his nature, from there the two of you should come up with a sex time table. It sound awkward but I know what I'm saying.
To all the pple giving you all manner of advice that can cause sepration in you home, I ve one question for them: ask them if they r happily married? I.e how commited is He to the responsibility at home?

No body is perfect or complete. Too much sex is his weakness. If he's to look at your weakness, I bet you he may not want to have anything to do with you again.
If you allow him to go get a mistress or another wife, you have lost him.
Reason together for a convienent time table
NB: don't try discussing it with anybody, not even your pastor cos most men don't like their family issue being discussed outside

the man should just get another woman and her eyes would open.

MrsChima:


You fell on your head?

babe, talk true?

MrsChima:


If my husband feel the need to cheat after giving him adequate sex...he can go. Too many sensible people to be dealing with unreasonable people.

and you open that rubbish of your called mouth, they take senseless thing


you are very stvpid for saying those trash.

Na ur pastor marry u?

steph2sweet:
Put him in prayer

That prayer won't be answered cos marriage and sex are synonymous...sex/love making is a beautiful tin within the content of marriage...so she should be submissive as the bible instruct her..else she's denying the husband his right nomata how many time he want it. Tho the husband too should consider or know that sex should be mutually and emotionally agreed before happening.

MrsChima:


I don't think OP is complaining about giving sex...she is saying there is more to marriage than fvcking.

Jobless people have time to fvck all day. 3 to 4 times a week is reasonable and humans are not animals.

Like how many rounds per time?

starlingslimnet:
Because it's not easy... You gotta bath the kids get them dressed for school.. prepare dinner...and still wake up early for work.... You can't do that if you have the kind of man this woman is complaining of irrespective of you sexual prowess

with God all things r possible

starlingslimnet:
Sometimes I wonder if you had first class in stupidity.

What is wrong in her statement if I may ask?

9jatatafo:


There is no substitute to libido. It is not jobless people that have time for sex. Some people both men are women naturally have high sex drive. Some do it with co-workers in their working place. Also this is one of the disadvantages of not having sex during courtship, because if she had sex then, she would have known if they are both compactable. Also it depends on how often they had sex before they started raising kids.

I didn't want to go there but I see some of you people have a clue. Hypersexuality is a condition that often comes from chemical imbalance, having intense secular desire but does not experience pleasure, and early signs of depression, and addiction.

People with Hypersexuality tends to seek sex outside the home even if their partner is willing to please them. Some people use sex for other reasons other than have orgasms. Sexual addiction is dangerous and often lead to issues in relationships and lifestyles.

If a person who sleeps with co-workers and strangers...they do not need to be disturbing their partners for sex but to seek help for their promiscuous endeavors.

jomoh:


You wan kill her.

Go to work from 5:30am get home 11pm
Take care of three kids plus the husband
And still service the man every other day?

Babe if you can do all dis den am ready to marry you right away and I won't entertain complain cos I don't do 10min thing. 30min least at the first go.

Hanhan what happened ? U want kill her...? No go let ur sperm finished cos of too much sex...tho me too like sex make I no lie but not to the extend of doing it everyday...I be machine ? Where d pvssy sef ?

vislabraye:



So the husband must be jobless ? Smh.
Oh, because he's asking his wife for sex frequently.
Maybe you have to go to clubs and see for yourself that richmen have a lot of time to fvck .

Where did you see I referred her husband as jobless? Don't get it twisted if I want to call her jobless..I will.

starlingslimnet:
Sometimes I wonder if you had first class in stupidity.

What was wrong with what the young lady said? .... I think your Blood Brain Barrier has big damages....

MrsChima:


I don't think OP is complaining about giving sex...she is saying there is more to marriage than fvcking.

Jobless people have time to fvck all day. 3 to 4 times a week is reasonable and humans are not animals.

sorry madam, you sound selfish to say this.... do you think your opinion is the grail of all and do you know that some people prefer once a month to your preferred 3-4 times weekly and that also makes you jobless and animalistic just as your post...?
Sorry madam if you misunderstood my opinion but i just want to point out that every marriage has a separate way of handling issues because of the unique nature of spouses.... 1 Corinthians ask for total submission of a husband or wife to each other if a compromise isn't reached...
obedience is not as it pleases one but as it must be or asked to be... if she tries to settle with a 3rd party in this, then she has invited a broken home...
she should learn to adapt with the husband and blended with prayers so that he will have a heart of compromise without going out whenever she isn't feet for it. Remember, the heart of all kings are in God's hands and he said we should start with Him in all we do so that He will grace our efforts.
Must women don't know the type of power they have on men and their husband and this ignorance is mostly among my fellow born again sisters who have no much appetite for sex and never lived the erroneous life of sex outside marriage but that doesn't stop toy from preparing yourself prior tine because you will never be self centred forever because there is marriage in the future if you want to get into that institution without hiccups from your ignorance

After three children

the man self, no be to fuvk be the main thing ooo.

If the woman carry belle again, he go still complain

Millions of Nigerian dey hungry no food some due to regetion by parent

People way get money dey born two higher three both poor man they born eight after every morning them go say nigeria no good

Their is god ooooooooooooooo

misspicy:
i like that type of man .D

that lady sees S*x as a boring task not as a pleasure she needs to change her orientation.
if ur husband wants sex after a days hard work,gv him its a form of relaxation n u will even sleep well after a relxing dose of s*x.

na all dis religious woman dey complain for this kin thing

good comment sis!!!

Imagine yourself exercising evryday and you'll be fine,besides sex is part of exercise. No matter what happens never discuss your sex life with your parents or pastors(kinda funny) Some women practically beg their husband to do the exact thing ur complaining of.

Ephemmm:


What is wrong in her statement if I may ask?

The hypocrisy... am Well sure she is not married and if she must say something she need not tag the woman in question a religion fanatics. You can't compare sex when single to sex when married; there are a lot of task task to do and every woman knows it's not easy unless the woman is a liability to her husband that is jobless. Am not married but have seen my mum do these things for us when we were young it's not easy...she gotta go to work... make breakfast and come home to make dinner and on the weekends she is supposed to rest she had do laundering and still will got to go out together as a family. I mean it's not easy. If you men were women they would not even think of marriage.

If there's anythn a man hates in hiS life, is bn reported to an outsider. Didn't u notice that b4 mariage or did he just become a sex machine after 3 kids? In case u forgot, d major reaSon u married him was to satiSfy his urge. Read ur bibLe well. Every other thing is secondary. Don't push him outside o 'coS u may Neva b able to bringg him back.

Acebar:
she's only trying to run from her maternal duty. marriage isn't bound in sex neither do sex in marriage. they go tinset r infact real active men can't live without touching their wife every nite. so she should accept her fate And satisfy here hussy no matter What.

He has a duty to love and respect his wife. She had a duty to love and respect her husband. If she is being reasonable then he need to be reasonable. How can a man have sex with someone that is not responsive to his desire? Some men thinks that when they are ready then the woman should be ready. False. Some people arousal points vary and being considerate goes a long way.

If the story was the other way around would you say the same thing?

MrsChima:



I didn't want to go there but I see some of you people have a clue. Hypersexuality is a condition that often comes from chemical imbalance, having intense secular desire but does not experience pleasure, and early signs of depression, and addiction.

People with Hypersexuality tends to seek sex outside the home even if their partner is willing to please them. Some people use sex for other reasons other than have orgasms. Sexual addiction is dangerous and often lead to issues in relationships and lifestyles.

If a person who sleeps with co-workers and strangers...they do not need to be disturbing their partners for sex but to seek help for their promiscuous endeavors.

Some still do it with co-workers and total strangers and still disturb their spouses. I once lived in a neighbourhood where a married woman constantly fought her husband because of this sex thing, the bone of contention was that, every time the man comes from work or from any occasion , the wife will say she MUST sniff her man's joystick to find out if he had used it on another woman. It was so funny and weird. An elderly man in the neighbourhood asked the joystick-sniffing woman this question - What if your husband washed his joystick after the act, will you know? She answered yes. What I am saying is that some individuals both male and female are weird when it comes to this thing called sex. I just feel it is how this set of people are designed and programmed.

princejayboss:



What was wrong with what the young lady said? .... I think your Blood Brain Barrier has big damages....

Nonscentstic nonsense.

sule5727:
good comment sis!!!

thanx bro

MrsChima:


He has a duty to love and respect his wife. She had a duty to love and respect her husband. If she is being reasonable then he need to be reasonable. How can a man have sex with someone that is not responsive to his desire? Some men thinks that when they are ready then the woman should be ready. False. Some people arousal points vary and being considerate goes a long way.

If the story was the other way around would you say the same thing?

Help me ask them oo

hamilton62:

sorry madam, you sound selfish to say this.... do you think your opinion is the grail of all and do you know that some people prefer once a month to your preferred 3-4 times weekly and that also makes you jobless and animalistic just as your post...?
Sorry madam if you misunderstood my opinion but i just want to point out that every marriage has a separate way of handling issues because of the unique nature of spouses.... 1 Corinthians ask for total submission of a husband or wife to each other if a compromise isn't reached...
obedience is not as it pleases one but as it must be or asked to be... if she tries to settle with a 3rd party in this, then she has invited a broken home...
she should learn to adapt with the husband and blended with prayers so that he will have a heart of compromise without going out whenever she isn't feet for it. Remember, the heart of all kings are in God's hands and he said we should start with Him in all we do so that He will grace our efforts.
Must women don't know the type of power they have on men and their husband and this ignorance is mostly among my fellow born again sisters who have no much appetite for sex and never lived the erroneous life of sex outside marriage but that doesn't stop toy from preparing yourself prior tine because you will never be self centred forever because there is marriage in the future if you want to get into that institution without hiccups from your ignorance

If I was selfish in would say once a month or none at all. Hypersexualism is animalistic because many animals demonstrate those traits as well.

Different stroke for differwnt folks. I say 3 to 4 times a week is reasonable and you don't have to agree. The world won't stop.

pleiades45:
shut your ass up. of course you cant get enough from your boyfriend. he is your boyfriend. when you marry him and after 5 years come back and let us know if you still cant get enough. listen this here topic for grown folks. if you are have not been married for over 5 years and living in the same house with responsibilities, please keep ya mouth shut. and that applies to everyone on this forum. this here grown folk bidness

Well i wont change my opnion, i work full time and im also a student,i already have lots of responsibilities, as much as himself

Johnpaul09:
Like how many rounds per time?

Whatever fits you and yours.