starlingslimnet:
Because of the level of stupidity displayed

In what way?

JoeCutie:
For wanting sex from his wife? I just don't know exactly what ladies want. This is unfortunate.

I tire o.

People just dey abuse prayer and religion anyhow.

Point of prayer should be to make him gay, kill his manhood or make him pursue other women outside or what?

starlingslimnet:
There should be a limit to your foolishness.

u seriously Dnt have to display ur stupidity publicly?

fix him family duties apart from paying dues, let him participate in home activities such as bathing the children, preparing them for school once in a while. God will help u

Some woman will never understand life

sonofananimal:


I SEE THEM AS NOTHING ( LEST VALUE IN THE SOCIALITY)

somone said you are gay
are you gay?

ROZZAYY:
y

Because it's not easy... You gotta bath the kids get them dressed for school.. prepare dinner...and still wake up early for work.... You can't do that if you have the kind of man this woman is complaining of irrespective of you sexual prowess

ceejay80s:
So.. U know linda lovelace? Kettle calling frying pan black

Yes I know her. We served in the Same PPA

Engrpj:


How I wish I know wat ur saying

read it again. Carefully. Word for word. Without bias. Thank you for your cooperation.

Walexsammy:
u seriously Dnt have to display ur stupidity publicly?

Which you go self? you can't even make a simple sentence. See question mark instead of full stop.. You must be a descendant of Mr West Germany

misspicy:
somone said you are gay
are you gay?

ASK THAT EEDIOT NA HIM BE THE REAL GAY

Honestly I don''t no the problem with some house wife,Sex workers are women like you .
Even church is tired of settling sex dispute between couples.
Try and adjust and work less on the said other days (my sincere advice) and tell him to support you,
otherwise you are playing with broken marriage or second wife, which is more difficult to cope with.
Also discuss with your man not relative,
because the truth is that man with high libido can not change much.

I can't imagine living with a woman who cannot Playfight under cover at least 4-5 times daily on weekends and at least 3 times daily on weekdays. Early morning dose and late night dose is compulsory. Can't be missed.
She can't handle what most ladies will accept with "Alacrity".

you better comply, sex is one of the ingredients that make marriage sweet. I had the same issue with my wife, she always complaining whenever I want to have sex with her but one day I call her that ,as a marriage man I will not go out to look for another ladies but what I will do now is to get another wife,I don't Care of what my pastor and church members will said.if she want me to go ahead with the decisions, she should continue but if she don't she should change, for real she had changed.so you better change, if you want to maintain your hard earn marriage.

To be sincere having sex everyday is not healthy for couples, they have many things to do than having it everyday. It can be two or three times in a week including any day that both are in mood that it will just happen. having extra marital affairs because of sex is lack of discipline in the part of any couple. controlling sexual urge coupled with mutual understanding between couples without any one showing feeling of been cheated is one of the best solution to marital bliss as in case cited above. every man should learn to help wife at home so as to relieve them from too much work. Many time I finished cooking at home I do feel weak if caring for children is added I may be too busy to have fun with her. Sex does not make family healthy but joy that comes if things are done in decent way (including Having sex,eating food and sleep with moderation). Too much sex will eventually reduce life expectancy and tell on couples.

sonofananimal:


ASK THAT EEDIOT NA HIM BE THE REAL GAY

Do u relate with women at all?

pleiades45:
kinda hard to want to meet the sex-uall needs of a woman who has gained 100 pounds and looks like a rugby player. such women are just used for quick cum-ming and the husband jumps off and goes about his business. maybe the woman should take better care of herself and then the husband will have the desire to please every inch of her tantalizing body. aint nobody tryna have romance with a 200 pound woman with big stomach hahaha. what she need to do is leave that eba and ogunfe alone and start eating carrots for lunch. that what she need to do. then maybe, just maybe the guy will start being extra-romantic

This post is not about a fat woman. And the same can be applied to her husband. Do you know if one of the reasons she does not enjoy sex is that he is fat and unappealing to her? Do you not think she deserves a husband who is trim and healthy and knows how to get her to climax too? Also saying that "these women are only good for quickies" is problematic. You're reducing her to an object of pleasure not a human that can give and receive pleasure. She is a wife not a prostitute. A Wiseman once said "people are meant to be loved and objects used, problems arise when people are used and objects are loved".

MrsChima:


I don't think OP is complaining about giving sex...she is saying there is more to marriage than fvcking.

Jobless people have time to fvck all day. 3 to 4 times a week is reasonable and humans are not animals.

get ready to pack out if u are d one setting timetable for fvcking

starlingslimnet:
Sometimes I wonder if you had first class in stupidity.

I think you are the one that is extremely stupid.

Cutehector:
why r u makin noise? U aint married yet. U duno wether ur husband will be d opposite of what u wrote here. U may meet an angel. Be positive

Wt r u talking about lol whose talking about me
Pls focus abeg on the topic .. Den read well before u comment lol

Linqsz:


Waytn we dey control ni! When we get wife?

Truth is; the couples need to find a common ground in their sex life. She lady should try not to change the man but to understand him.

I know say women sex drive level no b here oh!
But some girls eh! If you no touch dem dem no go even bother to touch you

The best thing uve said
I know ur smart

MarieSucre:
This post is not about a fat woman. And the same can be applied to her husband. Do you know if one of the reasons she does not enjoy sex is that he is fat and unappealing to her? Do you not think she deserves a husband who is trim and healthy and knows how to get her to climax too? Also saying that "these women are only good for quickies" is problematic. You're reducing her to an object of pleasure not a human that can give and receive pleasure. She is a wife not a prostitute. A Wiseman once said "people are meant to be loved and objects used, problems arise when people are used and objects are loved".

it applies both ways. i only addressed the woman aspect of it because that was your focus. you said ' if he pleased her maybe she would enjoy it more '. so your focus was on the woman. but it goes both ways. nobody wants an unhealthy sloppy fat person in bed. it shows someone in some state of neglect and dis-ease.

The best councillor in ur marriage is you and your husband.. Third party is worse thing that can happen to a relationship. Please continue to talk to him he will see reason, complain can solved any problem.

osenidvdg:
To be sincere having sex everyday is not healthy for couples, they have many things to do than having it everyday. It can be two or three times in a week including any day that both are in mood that it will just happen. having extra marital affairs because of sex is lack of discipline in the part of any couple. controlling sexual urge coupled with mutual understanding between couples without any one showing feeling of been cheated is one of the best solution to marital bliss as in case cited above. every man should learn to help wife at home so as to relieve them from too much work. Many time I finished cooking at home I do feel weak if caring for children is added I may be too busy to have fun with her. Sex does not make family healthy but joy that comes if things are done in decent way (including Having sex,eating food and sleep with moderation). Too much sex will eventually reduce life expectancy and tell on couples.

please doc where is the prove that having too much sex will reduce life expentancy? or having sex everyday is noy healthy?
yes a man ought to be understanding abt the schedule of his wife and vice versa but does that stop them frm enjoying the pleasure of marriage?is sex a task or sumtyn stressful?sex is a relaxing exercise for both partner,i see no reason why a man or woman wilk complain abt sex on a daily basis as long as they r married.i can only understand if sex is not enuf.

its not possible to even have sex everyday,atleast the woman has her off days,afterbirth and other situations whereby she wunt be available.
op id just exaggerating.

This guy must be a learner.

You dont demand sex from a lady but you simply put her in the mood.

From experience you dont give a lady direct approach but start by giving her a soft caress and a very gentle mouth action and i bet she will be the one begging to be srwd even if you do this everyday.

And sex is not always about penetration as you can just lick her so well while she strokes you simultaneously until you cum.

the man should read my comment and learn that the best way to get sex easily ifrom your wife s to start wth good licking and she will practically beg you for it again and again.

Speakdatruth:
get ready to pack out if u are d one setting timetable for fvcking

I don't expect everyone to be reasonable.

Walexsammy:
keep deceiving urself

I will stick with reality..thanks!

LadyBoss1:


Wt r u talking about lol whose talking about me
Pls focus abeg on the topic .. Den read well before u comment lol

lol nooo.. I wan find ur trouble dis mornin

Get a sex machine for him. I should also ask, what kind of work do the husband does. Ok.

MrsChima:


I don't expect everyone to be reasonable.

yeah, I don't expect every wife to rule over her husband. I pity him

sonofananimal:



THE DAY WERE YOUR HUSBAND GO CHEAT ON YOU. THAT SAME DAY YOU GO OPEN NEW THREAD FOR ADVICE.

DEY DECEIVE YOUR FELLOW NIGERIAN WOMEN NA.



RUBBISH

If my husband feel the need to cheat after giving him adequate sex...he can go. Too many sensible people to be dealing with unreasonable people.

U were married for d ugbola, no excuse