MrsChima:


You don't seems smart. Why would I stay with a cheater?

I have never heard a woman or man is stup1d for leaving a cheating spouse with STDs and AIDS very much alive.

You sound bitter...did your woman/man leave you for cheating?

I SERIOUSLY PETTY YOU. YOU JUST DON'T GET IT, DO YOU?

sonofananimal:



I SERIOUSLY PETTY YOU. YOU JUST DON'T GET IT, DO YOU?

Make sense then you would be understood.

This MRS CHIMA woman ehn, ur comments here are jst to hilarious for my liking, which man doesn't knw about the female sexual anatomy?. Smh

skyfullofstars:


Well i wont change my opnion, i work full time and im also a student,i already have lots of responsibilities, as much as himself

oh he still cute and young and you only see him like a few hours a day. you wait till you start living with that man and he gets fat and unhealthy. you will be cringing when he asks you for s-e-x.

MrsChima:


No one is denying that cheating doesn't happened but we know there are some people with integrity that won't cheat!

Sure!!! PR is very important.

MarieSucre:
This post is not about a fat woman. And the same can be applied to her husband. Do you know if one of the reasons she does not enjoy sex is that he is fat and unappealing to her? Do you not think she deserves a husband who is trim and healthy and knows how to get her to climax too? Also saying that "these women are only good for quickies" is problematic. You're reducing her to an object of pleasure not a human that can give and receive pleasure. She is a wife not a prostitute. A Wiseman once said "people are meant to be loved and objects used, problems arise when people are used and objects are loved".

Cool.

MrsChima:

Make sense then you would be understood.

YOU MAY SOUND LIKE A GROW WOMAN BUT VERY IMMATURE MINDSET.


GROW UP.

sonofananimal:



YOU MAY SOUND LIKE A GROW WOMAN BUT VERY IMMATURE MINDSET.



GROW UP.

I will be immature by leaving a cheater.

Dumb ass telling me to grow up! Hilarious!

Lacomus:
there are many worlds yours is diff from mind owk.

Which other worlds have you been to?

MrsChima:


I don't expect husbands to use sex as a measurement of love and respect.

How can giving reasonable sex is ruling over anyone? I pity your common sense.

we all have diff urge. a woman dats gud in bed will not complain of too much sex. b4 I assume dat u are not gud in bed and yo husband has been suffering in silence, no one said regular sex is a measurement of live n respect. poor u

sylarsquins:
This MRS CHIMA woman ehn, ur comments here are jst to hilarious for my liking, which man doesn't knw about the female sexual anatomy?. Smh

please make sense...not every man knows about a female anatomy and the same thing goes for women. Many women do not even know about female anatomy. Vagina isn't the only thing part of female anatomy.

Just saying.

Ephemmm:


It is only men like you that think that libido of every man is the same. Have you not seen a woman with stronger libido than her husband. For your information, libidinal energy is quite different from physical one: the fact that you are a goliath is not an indication that you are excellent on bed.

I know of a man living in our compound that can only revive himself through sex whenever he is tired. Thank God for the kind of woman he has, yawa for don gazh, honestly.

I don't think you understand what I was saying. From the example you gave, you have even helped to buttress my point. The person i quoted said it's only a jobless person that will be asking for sex EVERYTIME. It has a lot to do with libido because many successful businessmen have so many mistresses.

Speakdatruth:
we all have diff urge. a woman dats gud in bed will not complain of too much sex. b4 I assume dat u are not gud in bed and yo husband has been suffering in silence, no one said regular sex is a measurement of live n respect. poor u

If a woman isn't good in bed as in moaning and moving the man will still have orgasms. A man that is not good in bed...then the woman is fvcked and that's not good.

If sex was pleasurable and exciting...OP wouldn't be on NL complaining about her husband.

I know your brain is suing you for negligence abi?

MrsChima:


please make sense...not every man knows about a female anatomy and the same thing goes for women. Many women do not even know about female anatomy. Vagina isn't the only thing part of female anatomy.

Just saying.

Lolzz, only women and men dat attends MFM, DEEPER LIFE and LORD CHOSEN doesn't know dat this. Not this generation wer every guy knws u ve to make d woman have an Orgasm b4 u go in.

sylarsquins:


Lolzz, only women and men dat attends MFM, DEEPER LIFE and LORD CHOSEN doesn't know dat this. Not this generation wer every guy knws u ve to make d woman have an Orgasm b4 u go in.

It is too much information available for people to remain ignorant.

She should be woman enough and get a concubine for him; how about that?
Or she should try and get tired of asking for money from her hubby for house upkeep; how about that?
By the way when you were marrying him what did think you were coming to do? Of course to legalize sex before God.
If you are really a wife you should know how to communicate sex carry over. If you are not a loving woman you will communicate it Villagely and that will be annoying to the man. Mind you a wife and a woman are not the same thing. A wife is as God had wanted it and a woman is as the world had wanted it.

MrsChima:


There is a difference between denying sex and demanding sex everyday. There should be a balance and if the only activity ones does with their spouse is sex then that is a red flag.

Just because a person demand sex daily doesn't mean either is being pleased.

I told you, it is evident that sex is more than a food to some spouse, whether man or woman: don't you eat everyday? Whether the spouse have any other activities or not, the fact remains that there is no any activity that is greater than sex.

I was surprised when one of my senior friends told me that his wife cannot do without sex on daily basis: if he refuse to satisfy such woman's sexual urge and she start having flings outside, who is to blame?

Marrying such kind of a woman will no doubt requires a great flexibility because if she contact sexually-transmitted disease(s) from outside, who will be at the receiving end?

Sexual urge cannot be equal: couple are advised to adapt to each other.

vislabraye:



I don't think you understand what I was saying. From the example you gave, you have even helped to buttress my point. The person i quoted said it's only a jobless person that will be asking for sex EVERYTIME. It has a lot to do with libido because many successful businessmen have so many mistresses.

Many business owners dot not pour physical labor in their businesses unless they are the only staff. Many executives.and managers sit on their ass all day.

People cheat because they are unhappy and do not find their mate desirable. Not every cheater have sex with their mate and mistress/mister.

mmsen:

Which other worlds have you been to?

Yu are not gettin it "Pragmatism"

vislabraye:



I don't think you understand what I was saying. From the example you gave, you have even helped to buttress my point. The person i quoted said it's only a jobless person that will be asking for sex EVERYTIME. It has a lot to do with libido because many successful businessmen have so many mistresses.

Okay: I thought you were trying to support the fact that it is only jobless person that will be demanding for sex everyday. Remain blessed.

Ephemmm:


I told you, it is evident that sex is more than a food to some spouse, whether man or woman: don't you eat everyday? Whether the spouse have any other activities or not, the fact remains that there is no any activity that is greater than sex.

I was surprised when one of my senior friends told me that his wife cannot do without sex on daily basis: if he refuse to satisfy such woman's sexual urge and she start having flings outside, who is to blame?

Marrying such kind of a woman will no doubt requires a great flexibility because if she contact sexually-transmitted disease(s) from outside, who will be at the receiving end?

Sexual urge cannot be equal: couple are advised to adapt to each other.

You are entitled to your opinions and I am glad people can live their lives how they see it.

It is interesting to see couples engages in the greatest activity according to you and still don't have a connection or bond.

MrsChima:


If a woman isn't good in bed as in moaning and moving the man will still have orgasms. A man that is not good in bed...then the woman is fvcked and that's not good.

If sex was pleasurable and exciting...OP wouldn't be on NL complaining about her husband.

I know your brain is suing you for negligence abi?

listen, u need binoculars. read d post carefully wit dat on, u will save me d time of educating u. d woman sees sex as a burden, dats y she's complaining, she suffers too much sex not dat d man is not gud or not satisfying her but he fukufaka all d time. d point is, i dont see takin care of 3 children as excuse, she just may not be d sex loving type n dos type can bore an active man to death. dats y it's gud to experiment n get yo game on. like u now if u ask yo hubby 2 rate u btw 1 - 10 in bed, if he wud be sincere u will get just 2. wen a lady kip talking trash n sayin 3times a week den u know how bad it is to cope for a real man

MrsChima:


You are entitled to your opinions and I am glad people can live their lives how they see it.

It is interesting to see couples engages in the greatest activity according to you and still don't have a connection or bond.

Good So be prepared for the *greatest activity* in the nearest future: excuse might not be tolerated ooooo... Who knows, your libido might be stronger?

Just loving this......one man's food is another man's poison....people pay huge money, buy car, house and even babysit just to get what u are running from. my friend, u better wise up or else u will letter beg to give and it will be useless then....#advice#

Speakdatruth:
listen, u need binoculars. read d post carefully wit dat on, u will save me d time of educating u. d woman sees sex as a burden, dats y she's complaining, she suffers too much sex not dat d man is not gud or not satisfying her but he fukufaka all d time. d point is, i dont see takin care of 3 children as excuse, she just may not be d sex loving type n does type can bore an active man to death. dats y it's gud to experiment n get yo game on. like u now if u ask yo hubby 2 rate u btw 1 - 10 in bed, if he wud be sincere u will get just 2. wen a lady kip talking trash n sayin 3times a week den u know how bad it is to cope for a real man

I don't need visual assistance. You need memory assistance. I just said if it is pleasurable and exciting, OP wouldn't be on NL complaining and then your silly ass repeated what I said in your own words Stop it!

Secondly, you can't measure your own desires with other men. Not all men wants sex daily and not all men treat their wives like animals.

If you want to have sex 24 times a day then good luck! I wish the woman or man foritude!

You take care of the kids, home, and run a business then you can talk that sh1t about making excuses!

Ephemmm:


Good So be prepared for the *greatest activity* in the nearest future: excuse might not be tolerated ooooo... Who knows, your libido might be stronger?

I will opt for connection/bond which last longer than sex.

Na wao! Women for you. You marry them, take care of them and they deny you the dirtiest part of them. What is the essence of marriage without sex? ;DLOL

MrsChima:

It is too much information available for people to remain ignorant.

Feel free actin stupid Maam

sylarsquins:


Feel free actin stupid Maam

Common sense is no longer common.

MrsChima:


I don't need visual assistance. You need memory assistance. I just said if it is pleasurable and exciting, OP wouldn't be on NL complaining and then your silly ass repeated what I said in your own words Stop it!

Secondly, you can't measure your own desires with other men. Not all men wants sex daily and not all men treat their wives like animals.

If you want to have sex 24 times a day then good luck! I wish the woman or man foritude!

You take care of the kids, home, and run a business then you can talk that sh1t about making excuses!

u talking sex like some ish me gat to prostrate for, if u gat a million n one excuse for sex, u don't give d dude headache incase he comes home late. u think u gat excuse? u think u gat bizness n kids to put d blame on? I laugh at u n yo kind. who gives a fvck abt dat if u can't take care of me in bed? a reasonable woman shud cut dem accordingly, notin suffers anoda. u now talking trash if u think dos men dat want regular bangs treat dia wife like animal. use yo head n think right n stop typin misleading post. u must be a nightmare in bed, kip defending yo weakness

Babaji111:
Na wao! Women for you. You marry them, take care of them and they deny you the dirtiest part of them. What is the essence of marriage without sex? ;DLOL

If you were tired and not in the mood would you deny your wife? Don't lie.

Speakdatruth:
u talking sex like some ish me gat to prostrate for, if u gat a million n one excuse for sex, u don't give d dude headache incase he comes home late. u think u gat excuse? u think u gat bizness n kids to put d blame on? I laugh at u n yo kind. who gives a fvck abt dat if u can't take care of me in bed? a reasonable woman shud cut dem accordingly, notin suffers anoda. u now talking trash if u think dos men dat want regular bangs treat dia wife s

Good luck!